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vimaal @vimaal (3361) • India 16 Aug 08

Hai friends, how are you. If you like to wear healmet, on driving in two wheeler? I like to wear healmet when i went to long travel in my two wheeler. take care share your commends..

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shilpa_p I think it has less to do with like and more to do with need.It is essential to be driving safe and being prepared for any mishaps.I don't have a helmet at the moment since i've lost mine but yes, i like wearing helmets because its just the right thing to do...

18 Aug 08

shamsta19 @shamsta19 (3224) • United States 17 Aug 08

Strange things are happening. First of all we broke up and after three months got back together and made a pact to work things out and make the changes necessary to do so. I have to admit during our split I suspected some...

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shilpa_p Hi.I think that if you suspect something then you should probably figure out a way to find out whether its true.From what you've described,seems to me thatmaybe she's trying to hide something from you-for some reason.If she had bitter feelings about you workin...

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ajesh_pullad @ajesh_pullad (2251) • India 8 Aug 08

Hi friends, some days before i respond to 9 discussions of one friend. Before i too respond to her. Some of our friends are like that they never respond to others.their only interest in starting their own discussions. Do you...

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shilpa_p Hi ajesh.I don't think anyone means to deliberately not respond to your discussions.As a matter of fact,i'm extremely sloppy myself with the discussions i respond to.I never responded to people who responded to my discussions and i think they aren't very happy...

18 Aug 08

mandykaren @mandykaren (2040) 17 Aug 08

i used to mostly wear black, especially in tops but now i do wear also white and red. red going nice with black trousers, am trying to introduce more colours into my wardrobe with pink and light blue for summer, as makes me feel...

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shilpa_p Hi.Interesting question.I mostly used to wear black.No specific reason.It just turned out that way!I just kinda go with whatever i feel like so theres no particular color i look for while shopping or anything.I think strangely-i was never the type to wear...

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as2006 @as2006 (5040) • Israel 16 Aug 08

We can be happy if we choose to! Can you agree with that?

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shilpa_p Oops i meant we need to stop 'depending' on other people and things to make us happy.Ate up one word there!

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as2006 @as2006 (5040) • Israel 16 Aug 08

We can be happy if we choose to! Can you agree with that?

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shilpa_p I agree with that.Most of us,we invest all our time and energy in the search for happiness in the things around us.When the fact of the matter actually is that happiness is within us.We only need to believe that happiness is not determined by external...

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Jhordie @Jhordie (5115) • Philippines 30 Jul 08

If you do... please answer the following questions with a YES or NO! Here we go: 1) Do you set your aspirations low in order to avoid disappointments? 2) If someone does you a bad turn do you feel obliged to do something...

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shilpa_p 1)yes 2)no 3)yes 4)no 5)yes 6)yes 7)no 8)yes 9)yes 10)yes

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shilpa_p @shilpa_p (198) • India 4 Jul 08

We all have to make decisions everyday-big and small.But sometimes decision making creates a conflict and it becomes very difficult to make choices or decide.Sometimes the smallest decisions prove to be the most difficult.What...

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shilpa_p Hi.I'm sorry i didn't get back to you sooner!Thats one messy situation.I don't know whats best in your case.But it seems to me like your parents only want the best for you.So you can ask your guy to stand on his feet and then marry him.That way everyones...

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shilpa_p @shilpa_p (198) • India 4 Jul 08

We all have to make decisions everyday-big and small.But sometimes decision making creates a conflict and it becomes very difficult to make choices or decide.Sometimes the smallest decisions prove to be the most difficult.What...

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shilpa_p That must have been really difficult.I do know that alzheimers patients need constant attention and the best medication.I'm sure the decision will be whats best for both of you.Take care.

6 Aug 08

Munchkin547 @Munchkin547 (2778) 5 Aug 08

I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months now but found out on friday that he has had a girlfriend all along, obviously I was unaware of this from the start. He is still texting and calling me, and I am not responding, but...

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shilpa_p Hi.I think you need to do all of the above.Tell his other girlfriend,tell him you know and never speak to him again.Because you never know-if theres two there quite possibly maybe three or another one.You need to let the other girl know too.Don't worry i'm...

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sisco100 @sisco100 (2338) • United States 23 Jul 08

hears a question for both men and women. i've been in many realationships with different types of weman and in all of them they seem to end the same way. some say its the type tht i pick but i know thts not it, cuz i've been with...

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shilpa_p All women are definitely not the same.What i can understand is that you feel that way because of all the bad experiences.I cannot explain why they may have backed out but just think of them as the wrong people for you.Because people who genuinely care stick...

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honeydew82174 @honeydew82174 (1720) • United States 21 Jul 08

I rescued this pup yesterday! I went over to a friend of some family member's and they had 8 dogs in this small kennel! No food or water! All the dogs were skin and bones. They are Chihuahua's. I wanted to take them all home. I...

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shilpa_p Hi i really respect people who care about animals.I'm an animal lover myself.Here in india i see that animals are treated so badly and it makes me so sad that i can't rescue all of them.Since i can't possibly do that,i do the best i can.I've rescued several...

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SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32191) • United States 20 Jul 08

I have been thinking about this for a while and was really wanting to know if anyone else could tell the difference. Can you sniff out the ones who are here for green, or are you oblivious to their devious ways (this is in no way...

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shilpa_p I wouldn't deny that i'm here for the money.Afterall why be ashamed?Nobody feeds us,we have to take care of ourselves.I don't know why i just put it that way.I've been feeling annoyed these past few days because i cant seem to find time to do much here on...

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shilpa_p @shilpa_p (198) • India 16 Jul 08

Ok so i'm not complaining or anything but its been more than 2 weeks or so that i started a discussion here on mylot.The reason being,i'm just having a mind block thats like nothing i've ever experienced before.So i got my results...

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shilpa_p I sure hope you're right.You know,even when posting this discussion my internet connection was so painful and troublesome that i got fed up and just turned it off.How ironical.Anyway,i hope to have positive things to say soon!

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shilpa_p @shilpa_p (198) • India 16 Jul 08

Ok so i'm not complaining or anything but its been more than 2 weeks or so that i started a discussion here on mylot.The reason being,i'm just having a mind block thats like nothing i've ever experienced before.So i got my results...

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subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 4 Jul 08

These days I am watching that I feel sleepy after i take lunch. it was not the case before. i have to take a cup of tea to get away with it. Do you feel sleepy after taking lunch? Or its not the case with you. Do you take a...

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shilpa_p At a certain time in the afternoon,our body clock slows down.Its basically because of the circadian rhythm.So we tend to feel drowsy in the afternoon and sometimes it becomes necessary to take a nap.I read that taking a nap can actually be good for you if your...

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yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 15 Jul 08

When you are sleepy,what would you do to make yourself awake? I am feeling very sleepy now but I still need to study for my exam this coming Friday. I feel like this is torturing. I cannot make myself awake,my eyes keep on...

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shilpa_p Hi yenwie84.I know that feeling all too well.I'm a student myself and i've been through the same thing atleast a million times so far.I grab a cup of coffee.You need not worry that it will keep you up the whole night because it won't.Trust me,with all the...

16 Jul 08

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 15 Jul 08

i can get about three or four hours of sleep a night and i can get up and go the next morning, and i don't really have a problem getting out of bed in the morning but about four or five hours after i am out of bed i just seem to...

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shilpa_p It happens to me too.I guess its because when you wake up after 3 or 4 hours its easier to wake up but your body only holds up for as much as 5 or 6 hours.You obviously need atleast 7 hours of sleep right.So you start getting sleepy after a while.It happens to...

16 Jul 08

shilpa_p @shilpa_p (198) • India 8 Jun 08

For all those who have already read this book,you must already know the story and all that Anne went through.For those who stil haven't read this book-i suggest you get down to read it.It is an amzing example of the tragedies of...

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shilpa_p I had the same thought at first.I didn't think it would be any good since she was too young to have anything worthwhile to say.I was completely swept off my feet by her.The way she thought,how brave she was and how deep she was.

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ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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shilpa_p I think you need to take it one at a time.Don't make hasty,short term decisions that you will regret later.Right now,first and foremost i think you need to move out.A little time away will be good for both of you'll.You can think straight and he may get a...

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