shilpa_p

@shilpa_p (198)

India • Age 36

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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If you like to wear healmet?

vimaal @vimaal (3361) • India 16 Aug 08

Hai friends, how are you. If you like to wear healmet, on driving in two wheeler? I like to wear healmet when i went to long travel in my two wheeler. take care share your commends..

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shilpa_p I think it has less to do with like and more to do with need.It is essential to be driving safe and being prepared for any mishaps.I don't have a helmet at the moment since i've lost mine but yes, i like wearing helmets because its just the right thing to do...

18 Aug 08

How can you tell if she/he is cheating on you? (part II)

shamsta19 @shamsta19 (3224) • United States 17 Aug 08

Strange things are happening. First of all we broke up and after three months got back together and made a pact to work things out and make the changes necessary to do so. I have to admit during our split I suspected some...

cheating

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shilpa_p Hi.I think that if you suspect something then you should probably figure out a way to find out whether its true.From what you've described,seems to me thatmaybe she's trying to hide something from you-for some reason.If she had bitter feelings about you workin...

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Do you keep responding to those who are not responding to your discussions?

ajesh_pullad @ajesh_pullad (2251) • India 8 Aug 08

Hi friends, some days before i respond to 9 discussions of one friend. Before i too respond to her. Some of our friends are like that they never respond to others.their only interest in starting their own discussions. Do you...

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shilpa_p Hi ajesh.I don't think anyone means to deliberately not respond to your discussions.As a matter of fact,i'm extremely sloppy myself with the discussions i respond to.I never responded to people who responded to my discussions and i think they aren't very happy...

18 Aug 08

what colours do you mostly wear?

mandykaren @mandykaren (2040) 17 Aug 08

i used to mostly wear black, especially in tops but now i do wear also white and red. red going nice with black trousers, am trying to introduce more colours into my wardrobe with pink and light blue for summer, as makes me feel...

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shilpa_p Hi.Interesting question.I mostly used to wear black.No specific reason.It just turned out that way!I just kinda go with whatever i feel like so theres no particular color i look for while shopping or anything.I think strangely-i was never the type to wear...

18 Aug 08

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To be happy

as2006 @as2006 (5040) • Israel 16 Aug 08

We can be happy if we choose to! Can you agree with that?

agree

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shilpa_p I agree with that.Most of us,we invest all our time and energy in the search for happiness in the things around us.When the fact of the matter actually is that happiness is within us.We only need to believe that happiness is not determined by external...

18 Aug 08

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Wanna know if you are tough or tender?

Jhordie @Jhordie (5115) • Philippines 30 Jul 08

If you do... please answer the following questions with a YES or NO! Here we go: 1) Do you set your aspirations low in order to avoid disappointments? 2) If someone does you a bad turn do you feel obliged to do something...

tender

tough

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shilpa_p 1)yes 2)no 3)yes 4)no 5)yes 6)yes 7)no 8)yes 9)yes 10)yes

8 Aug 08

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I have been seeing a guy but recently found out he already had a girlfriend...

Munchkin547 @Munchkin547 (2778) 5 Aug 08

I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months now but found out on friday that he has had a girlfriend all along, obviously I was unaware of this from the start. He is still texting and calling me, and I am not responding, but...

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shilpa_p Hi.I think you need to do all of the above.Tell his other girlfriend,tell him you know and never speak to him again.Because you never know-if theres two there quite possibly maybe three or another one.You need to let the other girl know too.Don't worry i'm...

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are all women the same

sisco100 @sisco100 (2338) • United States 23 Jul 08

hears a question for both men and women. i've been in many realationships with different types of weman and in all of them they seem to end the same way. some say its the type tht i pick but i know thts not it, cuz i've been with...

relationships

woman

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shilpa_p All women are definitely not the same.What i can understand is that you feel that way because of all the bad experiences.I cannot explain why they may have backed out but just think of them as the wrong people for you.Because people who genuinely care stick...

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I rescued a pup yesterday!

honeydew82174 @honeydew82174 (1720) • United States 21 Jul 08

I rescued this pup yesterday! I went over to a friend of some family member's and they had 8 dogs in this small kennel! No food or water! All the dogs were skin and bones. They are Chihuahua's. I wanted to take them all home. I...

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shilpa_p Hi i really respect people who care about animals.I'm an animal lover myself.Here in india i see that animals are treated so badly and it makes me so sad that i can't rescue all of them.Since i can't possibly do that,i do the best i can.I've rescued several...

22 Jul 08

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Can you tell whether a person on here is here just for the money?

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32191) • United States 20 Jul 08

I have been thinking about this for a while and was really wanting to know if anyone else could tell the difference. Can you sniff out the ones who are here for green, or are you oblivious to their devious ways (this is in no way...

serioud discussion

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shilpa_p I wouldn't deny that i'm here for the money.Afterall why be ashamed?Nobody feeds us,we have to take care of ourselves.I don't know why i just put it that way.I've been feeling annoyed these past few days because i cant seem to find time to do much here on...

21 Jul 08

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Do you feel sleepy after taking lunch?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 4 Jul 08

These days I am watching that I feel sleepy after i take lunch. it was not the case before. i have to take a cup of tea to get away with it. Do you feel sleepy after taking lunch? Or its not the case with you. Do you take a...

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shilpa_p At a certain time in the afternoon,our body clock slows down.Its basically because of the circadian rhythm.So we tend to feel drowsy in the afternoon and sometimes it becomes necessary to take a nap.I read that taking a nap can actually be good for you if your...

16 Jul 08

What would you do to make yourself awake?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 15 Jul 08

When you are sleepy,what would you do to make yourself awake? I am feeling very sleepy now but I still need to study for my exam this coming Friday. I feel like this is torturing. I cannot make myself awake,my eyes keep on...

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shilpa_p Hi yenwie84.I know that feeling all too well.I'm a student myself and i've been through the same thing atleast a million times so far.I grab a cup of coffee.You need not worry that it will keep you up the whole night because it won't.Trust me,with all the...

16 Jul 08

why does this happen

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 15 Jul 08

i can get about three or four hours of sleep a night and i can get up and go the next morning, and i don't really have a problem getting out of bed in the morning but about four or five hours after i am out of bed i just seem to...

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shilpa_p It happens to me too.I guess its because when you wake up after 3 or 4 hours its easier to wake up but your body only holds up for as much as 5 or 6 hours.You obviously need atleast 7 hours of sleep right.So you start getting sleepy after a while.It happens to...

16 Jul 08

Should I stay or go?

ibcandy2 @ibcandy2 (40) • United States 14 Jul 08

I need some advice. I think I know what to do already but I am not 100% sure. ok. I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now and he is a good guy. He doesnt drink or smoke and he is excellent with my son. The problem is...

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shilpa_p I think you need to take it one at a time.Don't make hasty,short term decisions that you will regret later.Right now,first and foremost i think you need to move out.A little time away will be good for both of you'll.You can think straight and he may get a...

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Challenge!!

antony2best @antony2best (583) • India 11 Jul 08

try making out a full form of M.U.S.I.C. i know its easy but i'm looking for a very attractice and eye catchin full form.the winner will be marked best response by me tommorow.. it can be any full form like= _M-most U-useful...

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shilpa_p Must undress since i can. ;)

11 Jul 08

du u envy people whu enjoy life?

knightrider @knightrider (1083) • India 11 Jul 08

i have often felt iam not able to enjoy life to the maximum whne i see many of my friends having a blast, i feel pathetic, this is despite the dfact that i go for family tour to farawy destiations every year

life

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shilpa_p I wouldn't say that i envy people who enjoy life but i can't say i sometimes envy the people who don't have to do much to enjoy life.They grow up in lavish households where they don't have much to do and have no choice but to have a good time.They have the...

11 Jul 08

What book/s are you reading?

torchablazed @torchablazed (3218) • Philippines 11 Jul 08

Hello to all bookworms here in mylot, I just wonder what kind of books are you reading currently and can you share your insights about it. What books can you recommend? Thanks.

books

current reading

recommend

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shilpa_p Hi.I'm no bookworm but i do make it a point to read a minimum of one book every month.At the moment i'm reading "cat & mouse" by James Patterson.I just started reading it so i cant tell you much but its a suspense thriller,kind of fast paced and very difficult...

11 Jul 08

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Differentiating between things responsible for and things i can only influence

squaretile @squaretile (3778) • Singapore 8 Jul 08

hi everyone, I just thought I'd share this that I have learnt from a very good christian speaker Roy King recently. He was speaking on emotionally healthy relationships and emotionally healthy leadership. He shared that we...

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shilpa_p This is practical information.Its funny how i've always known this deep down inside but it kind of sinks in when you read it specifically like this.I think its a common fallacy each one of us commits uncosciously.When things are going well and suddenly...

8 Jul 08

Have you read the book The Kite Runner? How do you feel?

chocalate @chocalate (20) • China 8 Jul 08

The Kite Runner is written by Khaled Hosseini. Definitely, Hassan is the most loyal friend of Amir's, always helps Amir out of trouble and never considers of any compensations. I like the kite fighting tournament very much, and...

the kite runner

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shilpa_p Yes,i've read the book.Its very different from the other books i've previously read.The story is brilliant.I feel bad for both the characters-the kids in the story.The servant boy for his loyalty and big heart and Amir's ignorance that is so tragically...

8 Jul 08

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