Why Oh Why?!
By CatsandDogs
@CatsandDogs (13963)
United States
August 19, 2008 3:37pm CST
Why are bad things happening to me and in numbers and one right after the other? What's wrong now you ask... I broke my partials. I can't believe this. I just can't believe this!! Plus, I don't see the dentist that I got them from anymore because he's too expensive and he isn't a provider with my insurance so I had to change dentists. Hubby called my new dentist to see how much it would cost to have them repaired and it's going to be around $160.!! He called the old dentist where I got the partials from and it'll cost $190.!! Good gosh!! Why are needed things, such as this, so expensive?! They're nothing but a bunch of money making vouchers! Here I can't pay my electric bill and this happens. Gee, I don't have the deg gone money to pay my electric bill but I do for this!! Yeah I'm being sarcastic as hell because I'm tired of this sh!t and wish it would let up!!
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@mummymo (23706)
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20 Aug 08
Oh Sweetheart if anyone deserve a lucky break it is you and I do hope that you get one soon as you have had such a hard time over the last year! I left you a link on my discussion you responded to , another lovely friend gave it to me - I am going to post it for you again here , just for you! Hugs xxx
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=c7DbpaHgxPI&feature=related
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Oh mummymo! I love that song!! Thanks for posting the link to it!! One Day At A Time Sweet Jesus, that's all I'm asking from you... oh gosh that's so pretty!!
I keep thinking it's going to get better.... it's going to get better.... over and over again but it isn't happening YET!! BUT my birthday is the 26th of this month and I'll be 44!! YIPPEEEEE!!!! One week from today!! The reason I say that is because I hate the number 3 with such a passion because it's always brought me bad luck. 3 can be in the middle of a bunch of numbers and it won't bother me but if it ends in 3 then there's hell to pay. I knew something was going to happen when I turned 43 but I had no idea it would be in this magnitude!! Holy cow!! But I think once I turn 44 things might get better......... I HOPE SO!!!!
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
20 Aug 08
If you knew the history of the number 3 with me then you would feel the same as I do. Trust me on that.
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@snowberries (399)
• Australia
20 Aug 08
It's only unlucky because you made it unlucky. 3 is actually a really lucky number. If you turn your thoughts around into thinking that 3 is a lucky number then sure enough good things will start happening to you.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
20 Aug 08
They say that when you have tried everything and everything has failed, try Jesus. I am just coming out of a long time of trials and tests and wondering where I went wrong and what ever happen to my heavenly father anyway. Well, he let me know today that he has been there all the time. I was right to trust him, no matter how dark it seemed. There is a song that says, "Before you went through what you're going through now, he was there waiting to bring you out."
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
20 Aug 08
You're so right about that Rozie. Mom went to church all of her life every Sunday with an exception of a handful of days in all of her 71 years and she's religious and knows all about God and Jesus as well as I do. Right now she's so beside herself for she just got some really bad news. I'm going up to see her for moral support so I'll do a discussion on it when I get a chance again, hopefully later on tonight.
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I am so sorry for all your troubles, when it rains it pours. Its been pouring for you way too long. Its time for some sunshine in your life, you need some of the dark grey clouds to lift off your sholders. Dentist rob you, I think they charge more for what they do then any other doctor. Plus lots of insurance companies don't even cover dental, thats probably why they don't. I need dental care and I am stuck, who can afford it. They should sometimes be ashamed of them selves, that dentist is probably jus going to take some super glus and glue it back together, is it broke where you could fix it yourself. Good luck hun. How is your momma and dad.
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Mom is in really bad shape, she got some bad news today when she went to see a doctor in Durham NC. I can't explain right now for I'm going up to see her for moral support but I will do a discussion on it later on when I can.
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
20 Aug 08
You just can't win can you. If it makes you feel any better, we are in a mess also. The ramp on my van, had a piece snap on it yesterday and now I can't take my son anywhere. We are going to have to take it 2 hours away just to have it looked at, and they will probably have to fix it another day. Don't have any idea how much that will cost. Probably a pretty penny! Things will get better for you, just keep your head up!!
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Sorry to hear you are getting more bad news. I wish you the best!
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
20 Aug 08
No it doesn't make me feel any better to hear others having problems sweetie. I wish we could do away with all the problems in this world but you and I know it's not in our hands. I've been thinking, Heaven has to be better than this!! 
I've just gotten some bad news and I'll be posting about it in a few hours after I go to mom's for moral support.
I've just gotten some bad news and I'll be posting about it in a few hours after I go to mom's for moral support.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 Aug 08
I know what you mean as the Dentists here are also expensive, I am so sorry this has happened to you on top of everything else I do hope that you will be able to get them fixed Sweetie
They always say it does not rain but it pours, I have been through times like this where everything just happens at once and it seems like it will never stop I am so sorry Sweetie
Love and a big Hug to you
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Thanks Gabs... I have more bad news that I got yesterday but I was too worn out mentally and phyically to come on here to tell it. I'm going to do it in a few minutes so be on the lookout. I hate telling more and more bad news but it's what's going on in my life right now. I'm usually a mousey person and now.... well, you get the picture. Again thanks gabs!! Love and hugs to you too!!
I wish your day to improve.
That just stinks.
I hate it when I have days like that.
Best wishes for an improvement.
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
19 Aug 08
Yes it sure does help but I wish this bad luck cloud would move on elsewhere or rather disapate altogether for I wouldn't want anybody else to experience all the hell I've been through already and more to come in the next few months. Thanks for your best of wishes!! I need it!
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
20 Aug 08
i'm so sorry to hear about what you are experiencing... i know how frustruating it must be to be living on a tight budget and then something unexpected happens... i also experience it every now and then... and i also don't have lots of extra money for unexpected events... i hope you can work out a way to fix your partials soon so that you can eat again... good luck... take care and have a nice day...
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Thanks. Yes it is frustrating as all get out and having everything else going on on top of this is just too darn much. I found out that my dentist can't fix them with a guarantee so I'm not having them fixed afterall. I can't see wasting a little more than a hundred dollars with no guarantee. New ones will cost $680. so it'll have to wait a while because I sure as hell can't afford that.
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
19 Aug 08
So sorry about all your problems.That is real bad, you need thos partials.Those deductiables,are really a pain in the neck. I can relate to all the problems. I too have these sort of problems happen to me all of the time. I am 56 and have been disabled for 22 years I live alone on social security disability so money is always tight for me too.my sister & I tried to go on a vacation a week ago, had a wreck 500 miles from home, had a terriable time getting a rent a car.No vacation for us, now I am down on my back again.. had a leak in my pipes under the house the other day.now thw water bill will be sky high. trying to get a loan for windows in my old house, can't get credit.I can never pay all my bills each month on what I get a month, so I can relate.Good luck.
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@snowberries (399)
• Australia
20 Aug 08
You attract what you put out. The universe is like a mirror. It reflects what you put out there. Stop thinking negative thoughts starting now. Otherwise the more negative thinking you are doing, it's going to come back to you like an avalanche.
Start thinking now
Start telling yourself
I am a lucky person, good things happen to me every day
Money comes easily and frequently
Stop saying "i don't have enough money for my electric bill", and say " my electric bill is paid", see it with a paid stamp on it, or even write "paid" on the top and the date. It will happen, you just have to believe.
It's the law of attraction. You attract what you put out.
You are attracting your negative experiences.
@snowberries (399)
• Australia
20 Aug 08
NO, you didn't put a stroke on them, they manifested their own dis-eases. Obviously there is alot of emotional blockages going on with members of your family. The fact is, you use their manifestations to add proof to your own belief system. I have to ask, what is this belief doing for you? It must be doing something because you want to hold onto it, don't want to let it go. Are you gaining sympathy by holding these beliefs? Is your family gaining sympathy from their beliefs? There is a great book, "you can heal your life" by Louise Hay. I recommend you read it, and give a copy each to your family members.
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
20 Aug 08
When my mother can stand on her own two feet again and clean her own house and pay her own bills is when I'll let it go. She's been very very sick since the 28th of April. A long dang time! Sympathy? Screw you and your sympathy, ok? Walk a mile in my shoes and tell me how you'd feel! Angry? yes of course! Tired? yes of course! Frusterated? yes of course! Picture this, I'm the ONLY family my parents have. My brothers and aunt are four hours away living their own lives. My uncle is in another state. I'm the only one dealing with this on a daily basis. ME alone.
they manifested their own dis-eases Where the hell do you get off on this idea? Get real, will ya? Nobody asks to be sick and certainly my mother didn't ask to have a stroke!! And my father did not ask to have cancer!! Get a hold of yourself for you're in for a rude awakening when you get up in age!!
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@snowberries (399)
• Australia
20 Aug 08
There is no need to take your anger out on me. I do not get off on this idea, it is for real. I am a liteworker, i use energy to heal others. I help others heal their lives. I am simply giving you a few pointers but i see you are not ready to heal at this time because your negativity is working for you. As long as you hold onto it, it will be attracted to you.
When i get old i will be healthy, nothing bad will happen to me unless i designed it in my blueprint before coming to earth. Each life is a lesson we must learn.
However, there is no reason to get so angry. If you ask for a discussion and different people respond with different ideas, please take them onboard. Please accept all people, from all walks of life, with grace.
@prettyD (123)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Patience! Patience! it is a virtue...You can surpass all of this. There really are things that is left unanswered like why do have to spend such things too much? maybe because we have no other choice but we have to. But it'll pass, when it will pass you just laugh at it when you remember it back again.
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