Good to be Twelve

@p1kef1sh (45681)
August 20, 2008 4:36am CST
Frequently on here I refer to the fact that I am a twelve year old locked in the body of a fifty year old. As it is my avowed intent to grow old disgracefully, twelve seems a good age to stick out. Not yet old enough to be responsible, still needs reassurance and cuddles. Learning how to be tolerated by older siblings. My sisters especially on here try to boss me around - with some success. Can be naughty and just about get away with it. Forever summer. So what is you ideal fantasy age and why?
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Aug 08
I would be an adult. Don't want to go through childhood again. I'd kind of like to be a retiree with a 20 year old body so I can enjoy my retirement without having to worry about all kinds of health problems.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
LOL. Not such a bad idea. But I shan't change now. Oh for the energy of a 20 year old.
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20 Aug 08
Hi p1kef1sh, You must have been quite fuuny when you were twelve because you are still very funny now and you make me laugh so much especialy when I'm down in the dumps, oh I like to be age ten when I used to be a tom boy and loves climbing trees and always getting stuck on the branch when I try to climb down, and mum used go hell for leather for and I used to run away from her. I wa always up to no good but at the end of the day I always get a lot of cuddles from mum, even befor my mum passed away six years ago I was always been cuddled bu mum. Tamara
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
I believe that hugs and cuddles are what keeps the World turning Tamara. I love to be cuddled. That's partly why I want to be 12. You get the odd clip round the ear but you also get cuddles. Lovely.
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
20 Aug 08
For me it is a 16 year old locked up in a 34 year old body. And sometimes I wake up and wonder how I got so old so fast when it doesn't even seem like it has been that long. I do let my inner child out to play occasionally..My ideal fantasy age would be 16. Old enough to have fun but still to young to get into trouble for most things.
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Well if you ever change your mind we could be bosom buddies..lol you could dig out that conical bra and we'd have a blast..
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
I'd have to work on my legs as well. LOL. Better buy a razer!!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
I feel the same way. Not that I want to be a 16 year old girl of course. Mind you..... LOL.
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@ellie333 (21016)
20 Aug 08
Hi P1kef1sh, I am five year old, even younger than you in an older body. The reason I am this age is because a child delights in the most simplest of things and also doesn't have the responsibilty of anything at all, everyday is a new adventure and anything from the previous day forgotten, accepting, adjusting, innocent, carefree full of loving and laughter with no preconcieved ideas of how things should or shouldn't be. Bit like me now really except the responsibilty bit and the sensible head at times. LOL. Ellie :D
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@ellie333 (21016)
20 Aug 08
LOL younger than you as in 5 rather than 12 and an older body than five not than you, but then you probably have softer skin on your arms these days. Ellie :D
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
Soft like a freshly buttered baby's bottom Ellie.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
What do you mean older body. You are years younger than me. Better looking too - as in a lot better looking!!! I loved those carefree days. But it wasn't until I was older that I realised how special they were.
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@ruby222 (4847)
20 Aug 08
I have wracked my brains ..and I dont think I have one lol..as you know Pike im a realist here,there is no way that I can live in any fantasy land,boring though it may be ,its me through and through..I cant put my self in situations either,when someone says `What would you do if..`..well `if` hasnt happened so im not qualified to answer lol,Mr Ruby is the fantasist,the Peter pan.so maybe this is more a male thing.They do say that men have a far harder time growing up than women do,and I think they may have it right.But I agree with you that the time in your life with the no responsibilities bit,the feeling loved and wanted by your parents etc,is a good part of life for many.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
Do men fantasise generally more than women Ruby? I really don't know. Men are often thought to be more in need of visual stimulus (not just for that). I just love the fact that I have so many friends that indulge my little mind trips.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
Oh the woman generally Ruby. Most couples that I know the woman works harder than the male. As you know I nearly always defer to women. Daren't do otherwise LOL.
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@ruby222 (4847)
20 Aug 08
They do Piky im sure,its not a bad thing,its a form of escapism.If the going gets tough lets think about the Lottery lol.Im sure that on the whole the female is the more practical one,the one who has to face things head on regardless,and im not being melodramatic when I say that but thats how I have found it to work.Escapism is lovely for a while though,and it does us good.In your experience who is the stronger in most relationships?
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@super_jj (1416)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I wanna be 6 years old forever! Old enough to read but too young to do chores! HEhehehehehehehe. My day would be filled with play, cartoons, crayons, cookies, and milk. Hehehehe. Sigh. Wish i was a kid again.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
Sounds good Suppe_jj!!
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@xcellen (204)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 08
I was thinking what age would be good for me, but your response is all make sense so I think I decide on 6 years old too :D
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• Philippines
12 Sep 08
When I was in 6 years old, I play and play all day!=) I also enjoy studying and playing with my classmates. I love coloring books. I'm a perfectionist when it comes to coloring. I made sure that I use the right color on the pictures and there'll be no mistakes.
@nannacroc (4049)
20 Aug 08
I don't know why I'm answering this you already know. 12 is the best age to stop at for the very reasons you mentioned.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
Thank heavens you agreed Nanna. I don't know what I would have done if you hadn't. Knew you would of course!
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Aug 08
i guess mine would be 18years old ..wow...i like to feel young again and experience to be young and single..i married early (at 18) and feel what is it to be like unattached and working my way to college..
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
Now that's and age I would not want back at any price Vanities. I couldn't wait to be 18 and couldn't wait to be done with it either. LOL. But you enjoy it. Don't work too hard at college now. LOL.
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• Philippines
12 Sep 08
Teenage years is the most enjoyable part of one's person. I can say that you didn't enjoy that much of your early marriage. There are things that you haven't done and would like to do but your situation is stopping you from pursuing it.
@ElicBxn (63595)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I've always held out for 5. The summer of my 5th year was probably the best. I was old enough to play in the back yard or down the street with my friend, but young enough to totally taken care of. I was tall enough to see over the dresser to brush my own hair and get a glass of water, but too young to be expected to help too much around the house. And, I wasn't in school yet.
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@ElicBxn (63595)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I also started at 5, which is why I picked the summer before that. But I wanted to go to school, I wanted to learn to read and write. School didn't become a chore until I had a teacher who didn't like me in 4th grade. And she didn't like me because she had my brother the year before.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
5 is not bad. I started school at five. On the secind day my Mum said "time for school". I pointed out that I had been once, I didn't need to go again. But she disagreed and did so for another 11 years! Tricky things parents. LOL.
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@mummymo (23706)
20 Aug 08
Good grief an ideal age - I don't know if I have one! lol Probably about 17 if I really had to choose just because I was so fir and had so much energy, was independant with no real responsibilities but you know what? I wouldn't want to be any age other really than where i am now, I have my other half , my kids, my family and friends and they are the most fantastic bunch anyone could hope for! As for you - I think all of we women would boss you about no matter what mental age you were! lol Hugs , or should that be smacks? xxx
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@mummymo (23706)
20 Aug 08
Well no honey you didn't think it through too well but hey I would still look after you! I have been looking after my nieces and nephews since I was 9 and by the time I was 17 I was very good at it! lol And you , my darling are about teh least selfish person I know! Hugs xxx
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
I hadn't thought that one through. If all my bossy friends regressed who would look after me? LOL. Not selfish am I?
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@littleowl (7157)
21 Aug 08
Hi p1ke guess its cos my adult children keep me young and thats the reason I'm a 19-20 yr old in mind and actions but the body tells me different I love having a laugh and joke with people am still in need of reassurance and cuddles though, love my music and could dance the night away-and was and still am a mystery to my friends though--that I like..littleowl
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
21 Aug 08
LOL. My body is the same Littleowl. But age is mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter!!
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
20 Aug 08
Even though i wrote after Goodies post about the age 5..I'd rather be 17 and change alot of things that happened to the way i wanted..funny thing I was thinking of this last night..if they had been different i might be able to have saved someone's life??..A good friend..
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• United States
20 Aug 08
Awww, Kitty. So much I want to say here. But you know it all already. Sweet baby, please accept my petting, and right now, I'm holding your face, rubbing your ears, and telling you what a sweet kitty you are.....
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
That's a story that I'd love to hear sometime Rosie. 17 wasn't a great age for me. But with you by my side. Wow!!!
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20 Aug 08
We sold our house and went off in our motorhome. Our daughter said we were acting like irresponsible teenagers. I said that was good. So I am a teenager and throughly enjoying it. I am in my second childhood. I am 59 and am acting about 13. Its great. Yes we must definately grow old disgracefully. Do not ever grow up.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
Good for you. Your daughter will learn. In the meantime embarrass her by doing such reckless things. When my mother retired she went off round the world on hr own, meeting up with my dad every often in some exotic place. Now she is 84 and the youngest member of a keep fit club that does displays at schools. You've not lived until you have asked a 90 year old if you can sit down because you can't keep up with her and you're 14! LOL. More power to you,
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• China
21 Aug 08
i do think young age is a good time for most of us .but everyage has its owm goodness and badness
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
21 Aug 08
That is very true. I feel that we don't often appreciate how good or bad a particular age was until we have gone a long way passed it. Thank you.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Hi p1, hmmm...I guess I would love to be always 16, the time where I always hang out with friends who are all single like me, then, active in all organizations, social or civic, then spend time with family and just a happy go lucky girl but hard working too!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
Sounds Checapricorn. Enjoy being 16.
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• United States
20 Aug 08
12 for you seems to work. 12 for me was filled with coming home from school, taking care of the animals, helping my great grandmother cook dinner, making sure her pills were all in order, and a dozen other daily chores before I did my homework and went to bed. So my ideal age would have to be 22. I was old enough to do anything I wanted to do. I looked better that year, before getting pregnant, than I ever have in my life. Had a great job, making terrific money, that allowed me the freedom to do anything I wanted to do. I was also old enough to know the consequences of my actions by that time. Being female I am allowed cuddles whenever the mood strikes me so age has nothing to do with that. I could never go back to an age where I would have to attend school and follow parental rules. To me that is a nightmare. lol But being 22 while you are 12 I am old enough to babysit you ;)
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
Get your bottom over here than. I want to play up and get milk and cookies. Bring that boy of yours and then he can bribe me to go to bed whilst you make out!!
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@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Hmmm. I don't think there's any age (kid age) that I would want to be again. Definitely not forever. Each one was okay when it happened, but I always like the next stage equally or more. As a grown woman, though, I think I would like to stay in the 35-40 age range. That was when I realized that I had made my mark in the business world and didn't have to worry about whether or not I did more. It was when I realized that a few wrinkles meant I had life experiences that others didn't have. It was it realized that it was okay if I had a tiny pooch of a tummy. And when I realized that I could mentor younger women and didn't have to worry about whether or not everyone in the world agreed with me on anything. That was when I adopted the motto, "Grow old along with me. The best is yet to be!!!"
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
Being older is very liberating Kenzie and in truth I am pleased to be aging. But for the purposes of myLot I shall stay 12.
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@ghall08 (121)
• United States
20 Aug 08
There's an old woman in my town who was in her 60s. She jumps around and do jump rope. We ask her why she is so active even in old age. She said that age is just a number. She said her heart tells her she is still a teenager. I love being young - we can explore lots of things, go to places because we have the strength. When i was younger, way younger, i thought when i turn 18 i will have automatically sexy legs and body and my mind will think differently but i am now 26 and i still have the same unsexy legs and my mind still function like i was in my teens but this time life has taught me lots of lessons and i am a lot wiser but basically I am still a teenager :) I want to remain 15 or 16 forever :)
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
My mother is 84 and the youngest member of her keep fit club. The oldest is well over 90! I think that people that keep going like that are amazing - don't tell my mum. She's big headed enough as it is. LOL.
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@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I am forever 24. I don't know what with age but I am stuck with it. I am now 26 but when people ask for my age I usually answer 24. It's not that I want to pretend younger but I can't help myself. Maybe because my son was born on the 24th. But now I am trying my best to control myself from blurting 24 whenever some one asked for my age. If not for that, my favorite age is 17.
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@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I am so sorry that my response came in two. My connection has been a disaster and I don't know how this happened.
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@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I am forever 24. I don't know what with age but I am stuck with it. I am now 26 but when people ask for my age I usually answer 24. It's not that I want to pretend younger but I can't help myself. Maybe because my son was born on the 24th. But now I am trying my best to control myself from blurting 24 whenever some one asked for my age. If not for that, my favorite age is 17.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Aug 08
Long may you stay at 24. A good age. Thanks you.
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