i just read this thought

it may suit for relatives and not with friends. because friends are not to purse they are to our hearts

I think thats very true. We find out who our real friends are in times of difficulty. A true friend will still be around when you are having a tough time but there are many 'fair-weather' friends who are only happy to be associated with you when you are popular and doing well. May you find many 'true' friends in your life