My girl cheating on me

@roypiyas (189)
India
August 22, 2008 4:11am CST
My wife is cheating on me. She is hanging out with her friends and I think making out also. I am fully frustrated. Can anyone suggest me what should I do? I still love her but cant tolerate her activities. Please help me out.
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• Bangladesh
22 Aug 08
I think firstly you have be sure that she is really cheating. Most of the time men feel that their girls are cheating with them. But the reality says they are not. I am also a man buddy. I simetimes get into this problem as well. When I call her and find her number is busy.... Then I go relly crazy. Becouse I really love her. And I don't want to lose her. There planty of girls out there. But I still love her. So I can't tollerate to see any person beside my girl. So you should make sure about that. And after that, you should go to her and ask about her activities. If you find that she is rough and reckless try to make her understand. But don't cross the limit. Everyone has ones own interest. If you can make her good, then look for someone else and let her enjoy her life. God Bless You!
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@rocker21 (2716)
• India
22 Aug 08
perfect suggestion , positively rated you !
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@schulzie (4061)
• United States
24 Aug 08
How do you know for sure that she is cheating on you or being unfaithful? You say she is hanging out with her friends. That is normal to have friends and to hang out with them. Once you get married you do not lose the friends you had before you got married. Why do you say she is cheating? Have you caught her in the act or has someone told you this or what? [i] Have a nice day and happy myLotting!!![/i]
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
22 Aug 08
I would question her about it. Make sure she actually is cheating first. I had a boyfriend who always thought I was cheating. I wasn't but it just showed he didn't trust me and the relationship ended. If you know for sure then I think you need to find out why she is cheating. Many times women cheat because they are sad in their current relationship but truely wish for that relationship to be better. Best thing is to talk it out to see if you both can work on your relationship. Good Luck
@roypiyas (189)
• India
22 Aug 08
yeh dear I have caught her in red hand.
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
22 Aug 08
there,,, oh f*ck man !! this is so crap just give her divorce!
@Elixiress (3878)
23 Aug 08
It sounds as though you are still just guessing although you are saying it as though you know it is fact. Just because she is hanging out with a friend, does not mean she is doing anything else. I would confront her and see what she has got to say?
• United States
22 Aug 08
have you asked her about it? or is she denying it?
• United States
22 Aug 08
ugh.. well maybe you guys need to take a break.. i know you dont wanna hear that but if she isnt appreciating you and is treating you like this then maybe some time without you around will make her realize shes a jerk and that you did care and just worked hard etc
@roypiyas (189)
• India
22 Aug 08
yes she have admitted that she is doing all that things to make my heart burn. She claims I dont give her proper time as I remain busy with my work most of the time.
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@rocker21 (2716)
• India
22 Aug 08
well all she needs to get is a tight slap and a divorce paper set!
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
24 Aug 08
well if you know for sure, and does she know you know. i would be straight up with her, and stop the games she's playing. you guys can work this out. and maybe there something missing out of your marriage. if you aren't sure then i would ask and if she deni it just show up where she's at. my spouce cheated on me and we worked it out and moved on.
• United Arab Emirates
22 Aug 08
The answer is simple: First you need to make sure if she is cheating you or not then, if yes you should logically leave her immediately and if not you need to give her more care to talk and enjoy your time together cause may be she feels lonely.
@Jandark (12)
• United States
22 Aug 08
Dear Sir, If your wife cheating you for sure than she maybe leave you in the future so you have to be carefully (leave her before she did until if you still love her because in both way she will leave you and this will be painfull for you). but if you are not sure then you have to find out is she really cheating you or not before you make any steps.
@ReenaDKL (206)
• Mauritius
22 Aug 08
first of all i think you should really get to know if she is actually cheating on you or not...maybe the best thing to do is to have a conversation with her and let out your feelings...I really hope it gets sorted out for you..sincerely...
@ngaspero (851)
• Italy
22 Aug 08
Hi, I understand that if you love your wife the frustration is very big but like they already said to you first find out if it's true or not, sometime jelousy make see things that does not exist, talk with her ask, try to find it out.. Nun
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
22 Aug 08
oh bloddy crap!! go hit her give her a tight slap for what she's done for ya dude! huh whats this man! she didnt get your time so she found out someone else! woah!! this is what love is? dammn slap heR!!
• Canada
23 Aug 08
Do what you have to do, but if I were in your shoes, and I knew for a fact that she was cheating, I would leave her in a second...Unless you actually agree to have an open relationship, I don't think that that's true love at all...