How many times?

United States
August 22, 2008 9:28am CST
How many times a day do you hug and/or kiss your child/ren everyday?I don't know that I can count how many but I do know that I kiss and hug each of mine when they get up,when I drop them off at school,when I pick them up from school,before bed and at all times between getting home and bed.Does it embarass your kids when you hug and kiss them?Do you think you hug them enough,too much,or not enough?Do you hug and kiss them in front of their friends?How do they react?
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@gemini_rose (16264)
22 Aug 08
I am not sure how many times a day I do this, although I know it is quite a lot! Sometimes my kids get embarrassed, not so much the littler ones but the eight year old gets a little embarrassed. He will not let me kiss him at school no more which is quite amusing! I think that the amount of loving they get is probably enough for them, but if they need more they only have to come to me and they know they will get more!
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• United States
22 Aug 08
I think at times I tend to smother mine with hugs and kisses.I hope that they never look at me and tell me not to kiss them at school. It might break my heart. Thanks for your response.
@gemini_rose (16264)
23 Aug 08
Yeah it does hurt, but that is part of them growing up, my eldest was about 11 when he told me he thought he was too old for hugs and kisses. That hurt too, so when it happened with my second child I was prepared! Besides it was because he has a girlfriend (yes at 8) and did not want her to see him kissing his mummy!
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• United States
25 Aug 08
At least you can still kiss him when she is not around.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
4 Sep 08
A mother and child - A pic of a mother and child together.
I think it is such a wonderful thing to hear that a parent is showing that much affection and attention toward a child. I do hug and kiss my son throughout the day. He will be five in a matter of two weeks. I love him very much and I think it is a good practice to show our children how much we care. Doing this shows them so much and they will always remember the love they received. My son doesn't seem to mind me hugging him in public. At least not now.
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• United States
5 Sep 08
I recieved a lot of love as a child and have passed that down to my children. I hope that when they are older that they know how much they are loved and continue to show that love to their own kids.
@kezabelle (2974)
26 Aug 08
I hug and kiss them anytime I want to or they ask, definitley before bed and first thing in the morning they are only little so want cuddles a lot, im all for making the most of it before they dont want to cuddle me anymore!!!
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• United States
27 Aug 08
I understand. My soon to be 4 yr old loves to cuddle. My 7 yr old still asks for hugs and kisses. And my 10 yr old, she tell me "I know I know you want a hug. Do you want a kiss too?" Of course I always tell her yes.LOL Thanks for your response.
@momalisa65 (1971)
• United States
25 Aug 08
When my kids were younger, I couldn't count the times I hugged and kissed them! Now they are teenagers (14 and 21) and they don't like it. My oldest son hugs me everytime he comes over, but the 14 year old always says "Don't touch me!" So now I mainly hug and kiss my dog. Lol! (kiss him on the head)
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• United States
25 Aug 08
Well at least your dog will let you hug it. Mine tries to bite my face when I get too close.LOL
• United States
25 Aug 08
I hug and kiss my children a lot. I make sure they feel all the love I have for them. They are still young so they dont get embarrased when they are hugged in front of anyone. I hug and kiss them so often, I cant even count how many times. And I miss doing it when I get to work away from them for 8 hours a day. In cases like that a phone call and flying kiss will do. oh I love my kids so much.
• United States
25 Aug 08
I think that is so sweet. I wish I could call mine while they are at school.Thanks.
@alpram96 (95)
• United States
24 Aug 08
I try to hug my daughter all the time but now that she is getting older she is more selective in the hugs she gives back. God forbid I give her a kiss in front of her friends. All I can say is cherish all the hugs and kisses you get when they are little because then the go through a "I'm too big for that phase."
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• United States
25 Aug 08
My oldest is 10 so I am thinking it won't be too long. But I hug her friends too so that makes it easier.Thanks
@vmoore709 (1101)
• United States
24 Aug 08
My babies - These are my two babies.
OMG, so many times. We are very close. I don't care if anyone is around, including their friends. I'm not sure they're old enough to care either yet. I hope they don't go through that stage, but I'm sure they will eventually. Oh well, I guess that just means I have to hug and kiss on them even more now so I'll be able to get through it then.;) Toys of all kinds, for all ages: www.comeplaytoday.com
• United States
25 Aug 08
I agree. You would think that if we shower them with a whole lot of love now it won't hurt as bad when they grow out of it.I hope it won't anyway.Thanks
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
22 Aug 08
I couldn't tell you how many times a day I hug and kiss them. Especially the baby. He just turned a year and he is so adorable lol. I pretty much hug and/or kiss them every time they come close to me! My oldest is only 5, so so far they aren't embarrassed by me hugging or kissing them. I don't know what I'll do if they ever won't let me.
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• United States
22 Aug 08
I know what you mean.I will be crushed the first time one of mine ask not to be hugged or kissed.Thanks for your respose.
@meaculpa (338)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
I cannot count how many times But I kiss them when: 1. I wake them up to go to school 2. Before going to the school when I sent them 3. I come home from the office 4. Before they go to bed 5. While we were playing 6. When they get a 100 score in their quizzes With my kids' ages 7,5 and 2 they are not yet embarassed when I kiss or hug them. It is normal for us to kiss and hug one another. Hugging and kissing is an expression to show love and care for them. It makes the kids feel that they are loved by their parents and thus, will increase their sense of belongingness, love for the family, caring for each member.
• United States
22 Aug 08
well said. Mine are 10,7,and not quite 4. They all still love getting hugs and kisses.thanks for your response.
• United States
22 Aug 08
Its a high number, but less since he went back to school obviously. I definitely hug and kiss him every morning when he wakes up, usually a cpl of times, and now when he comes home from school..but when he wasnt in school..it was all through the day. We get in the car and sometimes before he gets strapped into his booster seat one of us will ask for a kiss, or when hes in the cart at the grocery store, he will reach and hug me...so its all through the day...its a great feeling to have all that unconditional love both for him and for myself. I will hug and kiss him in front of his friends and most times he is ok with it, but if its in front of his older boy cousins or older boys such as brother of his friends, he will shy away sometimes, but that has only been in the last few wks i have noticed that.
• United States
22 Aug 08
isn't it sad how fast they all grow up?Thanks for your response.