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alpram96 @alpram96 (95) • United States 28 Aug 08

My husband just called me at work and told me he was getting a lawyer to take our daughter. He knows I can't afford a lawyer. He has convinced her that she will be better off with him becuase I can't afford things that he can. He...

lung cancer

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alpram96 Thanks I now they say that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.If thats true I must be one of the stronget people in the world know.

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saroodebolan @saroodebolan (408) • Pakistan 28 Aug 08

how do you feel when you want hug someone and cry alot, but there is no one around... what it feels like... when i come around such situation, i feel deep pain and i want to die

no one around

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alpram96 Wow those are some powerful emotions. Even if there is not someone physically present you can always try calling someone. Just talkg to someone sometimes makes all the difference in the world.

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TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 27 Aug 08

if your ex-boyfriend's wife, the one he dumped you for, were coming to work at the company that you both work for, what would you do?

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alpram96 Try to be the bigger person. Don't let her see that it bothers you in anyway.

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James72 @James72 (26790) • Australia 28 Aug 08

I don't wish to give the impression of considering myself to be all seeing and all knowing; or God help me - PREACHY! And believe me; I am FAR from perfect myself..... But I am finding it interesting to see more and more people...

law of attraction

positivity

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alpram96 I agree that people make their own choices about their lives. However, one must consider unforseen events that may drastically alter the course of one's life such as serious illness, accidents, and acts of nature.

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msedge @msedge (4011) • United States 28 Aug 08

Hard times are inevitable--death, financial struggle, family problems, the loss of a job, depression--all of these tough times are just seasons. Abraham Lincoln once said, "This too shall pass," and you can apply it to both the...

lincoln

overcome the pain

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alpram96 I agree, pain doesn't last forever, but when you are in the midst of a crisis it isdifficult to see the ligt at the end of the tunnel. I believe that it is imporatant to have a strong social system.

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alpram96 @alpram96 (95) • United States 28 Aug 08

My husband just called me at work and told me he was getting a lawyer to take our daughter. He knows I can't afford a lawyer. He has convinced her that she will be better off with him becuase I can't afford things that he can. He...

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alpram96 Thanks for your response. I have never really been a part of a community like mylot. I wassuprised at home much support you can recieve her. The comments that everyone has made do help. It's nice to know that someone is thinking about you if only for a...

28 Aug 08

alpram96 @alpram96 (95) • United States 28 Aug 08

My husband just called me at work and told me he was getting a lawyer to take our daughter. He knows I can't afford a lawyer. He has convinced her that she will be better off with him becuase I can't afford things that he can. He...

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alpram96 Yeah, my heart is breaking right now. There is just so much happening and I feel overwhelmed. I am going to look into the social services aspect. Thanks for your input.

28 Aug 08

alpram96 @alpram96 (95) • United States 28 Aug 08

My husband just called me at work and told me he was getting a lawyer to take our daughter. He knows I can't afford a lawyer. He has convinced her that she will be better off with him becuase I can't afford things that he can. He...

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alpram96 I'm going to look into that. This is just coming at the worst possible time. Thank you for your prayers.

28 Aug 08

alpram96 @alpram96 (95) • United States 28 Aug 08

My husband just called me at work and told me he was getting a lawyer to take our daughter. He knows I can't afford a lawyer. He has convinced her that she will be better off with him becuase I can't afford things that he can. He...

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Jessbowers @Jessbowers (391) • United States 27 Aug 08

Yesterday I didn't do anything. I didn't clean,I barely got on the computer. I was all out lazy. Why? Well,yesterday was my brothers Birthday. He would have been 32.He passed away May 2 of this year. He was also my best friend.So...

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alpram96 There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Your brother's passng is still fresh scar, so it is perfectly normal to have the feelings that you had. Grief is a long process that you don't get over quickly. The typical grieving process lasts 6 months to a year....

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lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 27 Aug 08

It has been long but what meaning has a wait if time is meaningless and souls are immortal? I start this discussion with a heavy heart for much as I seek, much is denied. Do you pray? I am sure you do. Those who don't pray are...

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alpram96 Not mad, but sometimes disappointed. But like the song says "sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers." Sometimes what you pray for may not be what you need.

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Richard @rbailey83 (1428) • Canada 26 Aug 08

if you had an illness, and you were in a new relationship with someone, and you noticed that your illness and it's side effects were causing a large amount of stress and hardship on your partner, which would also affect her...

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alpram96 I am truly sorry for your situation. Although she has the right to make her choice too, having the picture puts a different spin on the situation. It is a little concerning hearing you say that you could die by your own hand. I will not presume to know what...

27 Aug 08

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 27 Aug 08

Am I in the minority here where I have to say I am worried about the way technology is progressing. They say technology is a good thing? But slowly every day things that we do are being replaced by computers, machines, gadgets...

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alpram96 Thats ironic becuase I just watched a show on the discovery channel about progresses in technology. They were talking about the inevitablity of artificial intelligence and other innovations such as a contact that would allow you to view the internet. They say...

27 Aug 08

heroinelover @heroinelover (58) • China 27 Aug 08

As one of the greatest invention of the past century, E-mail is playing a more and more important role in our modern life. Many people are exchanging information by using this swift and cheap communication tool. Some people...

contact

links

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alpram96 I like getting emails from friends but nothing compares to receiving a real letter in the mail. Maybe its becaue it is so rare or maybe it is because you know it took time.

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Richard @rbailey83 (1428) • Canada 26 Aug 08

if you had an illness, and you were in a new relationship with someone, and you noticed that your illness and it's side effects were causing a large amount of stress and hardship on your partner, which would also affect her...

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alpram96 Not necessarily wrong, but before you do anything you should talk to your partner. You should also talk to your doctor who may be able to recommend ways to allevieate some of the side effects

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hiddenwing @hiddenwing (3719) • China 27 Aug 08

I have studied in Hongkong for years! It is far away from my hometown. Thus I haven't seen my mom for years. When I am happy, I totally forger her! When I am sad, I don't call her either. I am afraid that she might worry about...

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alpram96 I only live a couple of hours from my mother but I still miss her, especially when I'm feeling down.

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vidhyavini @vidhyavini (6111) • India 26 Aug 08

Hey guys. Have you ever heard people saying that 13 is an unlucky number??? I have heard it so many times. People do say that 8 is also unlucky. What is the reason behind it??? Do you people actually believe in...

13

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alpram96 According to Norse Legend the gods at Valhalla were having a banquet and sent the god of mischief, Loki, away. Loki found out about it and crashed the party and one of the Gods ended up dead. Many ancient pagan cultures believed 13 to be lucky. something to...

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Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 26 Aug 08

I have had enough of these to write a book. I have been paralyzed with fear and afraid to go places that I am sure will cause an attack. I try my best to avoid these places, but one therapist told me that it is causing my world...

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alpram96 Well yur therapist was right that panic attacks can make your world smaller but she should have gone further than that and helped you explore the roots of your anxiety. A good therapist will help you deal with the problem not just tell you what you already...

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vidhyavini @vidhyavini (6111) • India 26 Aug 08

Hey guys. Have you ever heard people saying that 13 is an unlucky number??? I have heard it so many times. People do say that 8 is also unlucky. What is the reason behind it??? Do you people actually believe in...

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alpram96 One explanation for 13 being an unlucky number goes back to the last supper of Jesus Christ because there were 13 people at the supper. But the unlucky number 13 can be traced back to several civilazations including the Egyptians and Norse legends.

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