alpram96

@alpram96 (95)

United States • Age 49

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how do you feel?

saroodebolan @saroodebolan (408) • Pakistan 28 Aug 08

how do you feel when you want hug someone and cry alot, but there is no one around... what it feels like... when i come around such situation, i feel deep pain and i want to die

no one around

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alpram96 Wow those are some powerful emotions. Even if there is not someone physically present you can always try calling someone. Just talkg to someone sometimes makes all the difference in the world.

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she's coming to work there, omg?

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 27 Aug 08

if your ex-boyfriend's wife, the one he dumped you for, were coming to work at the company that you both work for, what would you do?

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alpram96 Try to be the bigger person. Don't let her see that it bothers you in anyway.

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When will people get it?? Our lives are what we make of it......

James72 @James72 (26790) • Australia 28 Aug 08

I don't wish to give the impression of considering myself to be all seeing and all knowing; or God help me - PREACHY! And believe me; I am FAR from perfect myself..... But I am finding it interesting to see more and more people...

law of attraction

positivity

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alpram96 I agree that people make their own choices about their lives. However, one must consider unforseen events that may drastically alter the course of one's life such as serious illness, accidents, and acts of nature.

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How Do you Overcome the Pain That Comes Into Your Life?

msedge @msedge (4011) • United States 28 Aug 08

Hard times are inevitable--death, financial struggle, family problems, the loss of a job, depression--all of these tough times are just seasons. Abraham Lincoln once said, "This too shall pass," and you can apply it to both the...

lincoln

overcome the pain

tunnel

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alpram96 I agree, pain doesn't last forever, but when you are in the midst of a crisis it isdifficult to see the ligt at the end of the tunnel. I believe that it is imporatant to have a strong social system.

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Ok So I'm a Slacker!

Jessbowers @Jessbowers (391) • United States 27 Aug 08

Yesterday I didn't do anything. I didn't clean,I barely got on the computer. I was all out lazy. Why? Well,yesterday was my brothers Birthday. He would have been 32.He passed away May 2 of this year. He was also my best friend.So...

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alpram96 There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Your brother's passng is still fresh scar, so it is perfectly normal to have the feelings that you had. Grief is a long process that you don't get over quickly. The typical grieving process lasts 6 months to a year....

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Do you feel angry when your prayers go unanswered?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 27 Aug 08

It has been long but what meaning has a wait if time is meaningless and souls are immortal? I start this discussion with a heavy heart for much as I seek, much is denied. Do you pray? I am sure you do. Those who don't pray are...

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alpram96 Not mad, but sometimes disappointed. But like the song says "sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers." Sometimes what you pray for may not be what you need.

27 Aug 08

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Are We Slowly Becoming Slaves To Machines

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 27 Aug 08

Am I in the minority here where I have to say I am worried about the way technology is progressing. They say technology is a good thing? But slowly every day things that we do are being replaced by computers, machines, gadgets...

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alpram96 Thats ironic becuase I just watched a show on the discovery channel about progresses in technology. They were talking about the inevitablity of artificial intelligence and other innovations such as a contact that would allow you to view the internet. They say...

27 Aug 08

Would you prefer E-mails to traditional letters?

heroinelover @heroinelover (58) • China 27 Aug 08

As one of the greatest invention of the past century, E-mail is playing a more and more important role in our modern life. Many people are exchanging information by using this swift and cheap communication tool. Some people...

contact

links

personalized

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alpram96 I like getting emails from friends but nothing compares to receiving a real letter in the mail. Maybe its becaue it is so rare or maybe it is because you know it took time.

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would it be wrong of me?

Richard @rbailey83 (1428) • Canada 26 Aug 08

if you had an illness, and you were in a new relationship with someone, and you noticed that your illness and it's side effects were causing a large amount of stress and hardship on your partner, which would also affect her...

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alpram96 Not necessarily wrong, but before you do anything you should talk to your partner. You should also talk to your doctor who may be able to recommend ways to allevieate some of the side effects

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Do u miss your mom?

hiddenwing @hiddenwing (3719) • China 27 Aug 08

I have studied in Hongkong for years! It is far away from my hometown. Thus I haven't seen my mom for years. When I am happy, I totally forger her! When I am sad, I don't call her either. I am afraid that she might worry about...

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alpram96 I only live a couple of hours from my mother but I still miss her, especially when I'm feeling down.

27 Aug 08

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Panic Attacks And Panic Disorder

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 26 Aug 08

I have had enough of these to write a book. I have been paralyzed with fear and afraid to go places that I am sure will cause an attack. I try my best to avoid these places, but one therapist told me that it is causing my world...

panic attacks

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alpram96 Well yur therapist was right that panic attacks can make your world smaller but she should have gone further than that and helped you explore the roots of your anxiety. A good therapist will help you deal with the problem not just tell you what you already...

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13.... The Unlucky number...

vidhyavini @vidhyavini (6111) • India 26 Aug 08

Hey guys. Have you ever heard people saying that 13 is an unlucky number??? I have heard it so many times. People do say that 8 is also unlucky. What is the reason behind it??? Do you people actually believe in...

unlucky

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alpram96 One explanation for 13 being an unlucky number goes back to the last supper of Jesus Christ because there were 13 people at the supper. But the unlucky number 13 can be traced back to several civilazations including the Egyptians and Norse legends.

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Do you actually hate SOMEBODY????

Miguel Z. @habichuelo (3100) • United States 26 Aug 08

i know hate its bad but who do you hate at this moment? i do hate my next door neightbor,,,he's always looking when im coming or leaving the house,,,he talks loud about myself things that are not true,,,he tried and keep trying...

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alpram96 The closest I have come to hating someone was a former roommate. She was always late on her rent, ate all my food, and never cleaned up after herself. That wasn't what upset me though. It was the fact that when you confronted her she always had an excuse or...

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Do you hate confrontation?

tlb0822 @tlb0822 (1410) • United States 25 Aug 08

I personally am not one for confrontations. I try hard to see other peoples point of view, and try to think about things logically before I put in my input. Although there are times that it cannot be avoided, and usually I just...

arguing

confrontation

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alpram96 I used to avoid confrontation at all costs but that ended up having me walked all over. I don't seek out confrontation but I don't let people take advantage of me.

25 Aug 08

I am feeling like the evil witch.

Shawchert @Shawchert (1094) • United States 25 Aug 08

Ok yes this does belong here, because it's about a man I love, one I have loved for a very, very long time. We started going out Summer of '02 and on and off for a few years and finally ended Jan. 1, 05. I was extremely upset, I...

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alpram96 No it makes you human. But you don't want to be in the middle of a break up especially with a child involved. If he wants to leave his girlfried, let him do that on his own. Then yo can go from there.

25 Aug 08

what would you do if you lost your bestfriend forever?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 25 Aug 08

i know that most of us have a really great bestfriend that we can pretty much depend on for anything, and thats why they are our best friend, but i was just thinking and this is something we don't think about a lot but i mean it...

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alpram96 It would be really hard but I believe that all things happen for a reason so I'd have to find some way to go on. Not saying I would sob uncontrollably or anything.

25 Aug 08

What time do you get up?

Jessbowers @Jessbowers (391) • United States 25 Aug 08

I was wondering what time it is when everyone wakes up. I wake up at 10 till 6 every morning. I don't have to be up until 6:30 but my husband leaves for work at 6 so I get up to see him off. What time do you get up in the...

time

wake up

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alpram96 5:45 am. But its against my will. I have to get up, get my daughter off to school, then get ready for work.

25 Aug 08

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