preferably long hair or short hair?

@cottonm (753)
Malaysia
August 24, 2008 2:12pm CST
hmmm, actually this question i'd like 2 ask the guys, coz mostly guys love gal with long hair? i wonder why? and for gal, do u prefer long hair or short? i myself, vote for long hair, coz i had a bad childhood experience that my school dun allowed gals 2 hav long hair, i was sicked with those short hair looks, after i went college, i left it long till now..hahhaha, of coz i cut it a bit, i just lov long hair coz can do more fashion on it ^_^ how abt u?
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@falassion (419)
• Brazil
25 Aug 08
Surely I'd choose long hair, and I'll explain why. In first place, long hairs gives me the impression that the girl really care about herself, because, to keep a long hair, you need more cares than to keep a short hair. In second place, I'd say that, because of the first reason I quoted, long hairs are (almost) always soft and perfumed, which really captivates me. And then, in third place, I just think that the balancing of the hair looks so nice for me.. Oh gosh, long hair is so damn beautiful! *__*
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
hahahah, coolzzzz, thankz for your details explanation ^_^ so how long u like it be? mid-length or over the butt?
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
hahhaha, curious, what's the 'practical reason'? :p then, what do u think abt long black hair?
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• Brazil
25 Aug 08
Well, I'd prefer mid-length, for "practical reasons".. ;D But, if the girl have a VERY long hair (as you said, over the butt), I wouldn't care and I wouldn't ask to cut too! Being a long-haired girl, it will always be a "plus point" for her. :D
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@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
26 Aug 08
I'm a girl and I have medium-length hair. I am trying to grow it longer though. I've had medium to long hair for most of my life, but I have experimented. Once I cut it shoulder-length and I think I looked alright, and another time I totally hacked it off super short. I looked terrible. I hate having to deal with my hair so I wish I looked good with short hair, but I just don't. I have a really round face. I think that some girls look good with long and others look good with short, so I think it's dumb to try and say that one way is more beautiful. I think that guys mostly like girls with long hair simply because of gender roles. Girls are "supposed" to have long hair. According to society, long hair is more feminine. It's just the style. In my parent's generation, it was very common for men to have long hair, it was considered sexy and now days it's mostly considered a turn-off or a sign of homosexuality. Well I'm really starting to trail off, so I just better quit. have a great day and smiley mylotting!
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
26 Aug 08
^_^ u hav a great day 2, happy mylotting ^_^
@caver1 (1762)
• United States
25 Aug 08
When I was a young teen I could sit on my hair. Since then I have had all different lengths. At my age I think I look better in shorter hair. The long hair seems to emphasize my sagging cheeks, so long hair looks better pulled back on me. I had a very short cut last summer (08), but I am letting my hair grow now. I want to donate my hair to an organization that makes wigs for people undergoing cancer treatments, but I haven't decided which one yet. So, I guess I'm growing mine long just so I can cut it off.
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
ohhh, i dunno that the hair can help makes wigs for ppl undergoing cancer treatments...thankz for your info, i will feel great if my hair can help...
@ReenaDKL (206)
• Mauritius
25 Aug 08
Oh when i was a kid my mum wanted me to have short hair and i cried to keep it long (like my friends). When i was in college my hair was waist length and i cried get it cut (ears level). From then it was always very short (sometimes almost crew cut)..my mum hated it coz it was too short for a girl... When i met Michel (mu husband), i had crew-cut short hair. Once he told me he loved long hair, so i kept it...now when i want to cut it he feels sad, so i keep it growing...but do trim it from time to time...but nothing like i used to (crew-cut)... I know he loves my hair coz i have the luck of having silky like hair...straight and easy to comb...he loves caressing my hair and playing with it (he's got curly hair...) so i guess that's why he likes mine long...actually i don't mind coz am sure if i really want to have them cut short, he'll say ok :)
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
hahhah, when i attended my primary school, they dun allow long hair and i was forced 2 cut it, i cried for days, and then these stupid strict rules continue till i graduate from high school, i immediately left my hair grow when i was in college, NO ONE can cut it....hahha, i didn't cut it for 2 years, it grow over my butt, according 2 my best friend, when she 1st met me, she said:"u look like a ghost..." hahhah, but still, i lov long hair, shud say mid-length...And, your husband is a very lucky guy i think ^_^
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@berrys (864)
• Singapore
25 Aug 08
me, my hair isn't that long but isn't that short either my hair is right above my shoulders, its wavy and its gorgeous. long or short I'd go for any cut that makes me look great. even if that means going bald. If i look good bald then so be it. Cause to me personal preference doesn't matter when it comes to looking your best if you wanna look good there might be things that you would not like (eg: exercise and diet) but if you feel and look better than its worth it.
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
wah, u sounds very confident, that's good ^_^ keep it on ^_^ Happy mylotting ^_^
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• India
25 Aug 08
well talking about the hair.... according to my thinking mostly girls are preferred with long hair as this adds a new dimension to their beauty while on the other hand boys are looking god in short hair style but now a days even boys have long hair style example-rafeal nadal
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
yeah, long hair looks more feminine ^_^ as for guys, not every guys suitable 2 hav long hair...
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
25 Aug 08
I like my own hair long because I can do more with it. I don't really have an opinion about other people's hair. Some people look better with short hair than with long, but it really is about personal preference. Even though I like my own hair long, I am wearing it short right now. I swim a lot in the summer and I like to wear it short and trim it often just to keep it healthy looking.
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
25 Aug 08
absolutely! And I have thick curly hair. Just trying to keep conditioner in it so that the clorine for the pool doesn't hurt is troublesome enough.
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
yeah, when it come 2 swimming, it's better 2 have it shorter...imagine, if with long hair, everytime after swimming u hav 2 shampoo it & blow it, hahhaha, kinda troblesome
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@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
25 Aug 08
i need a change with my hair. i dont like the same hairstyle all the time. usually during the summertime, i cut my hair very short. right now, i have the pixie cut, similar to rihanna and katie holmes haircut. in fall and winter, i usually like my hair into a bob cut. prior to this pixie hair, my hair looked like victoria beckham's bob. and during the spring, i usually let my hair grow out until summer. so, i guess i prefer my hair from short to medium. i havent had really long hair since i was in elementary school. i guess most young girls like to keep their hair very long.
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@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
28 Aug 08
the picture on my profile is old when i was 24. i havent taken a recent picture lately...
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
bob cut, that's a cool hairstyle, and not everyone suitable for it...so nice that u hav different hairstyle whenever u want ^_^ yeah, u shud change it, if u feel the need to change ^_^ HAPPY CHANGING HAIRSTYLE, mayb u can share your different pic with different hair style, will b great ^_^
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@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
I love my hair to be short so that I would waste so much time combing it.
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@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
That would be: would not waste so much time.
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
hahhaha, a lots of time involve, not just combing it, u also hav 2 take good care of it, doing treatments often etc ^_^
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@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
A waste of money and time. :)
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@rbailey83 (1428)
• Canada
24 Aug 08
i guess it depends on your definition of long hair, hair that goes down to your waist i don't really like, i would say anywhere from shoulder length to mid back at the longest
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 08
okay, ic...everyone got their own favorite, right? ^_^
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@rbailey83 (1428)
• Canada
25 Aug 08
lol yeah it is probably just dependant on the person
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• United States
25 Aug 08
i like long hair but some time i wont to cut it when it get hot.
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
Malaysia, hot & humid country...
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
yeah, especially in my country, very hot everyday, it's hard 2 choose, cut it or leave it, but still i chose leave it....i lov long hair
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@Magene (103)
• United States
25 Aug 08
what country
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@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
25 Aug 08
I like to have my wife a very long hair because she have it as a normal black and wavy straight hair but for myself I used to have a very short hair.......
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@karakiks (42)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
i myself prefer short hair, but i have long hair. short, because it is easy to wear, just take a bath, comb it, then done! but when you have long hair, you'll problem on how you get your hair dry without those flyaways. well, just my opinion. because eversince, i have long hair.
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
i lov long hair, and when it come to drying my hair, hahhahah, at least 30 minutes gone...
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• Philippines
24 Aug 08
The Bible said that girls should have long hair and the guys have short hair. If God said the girls have long hair, it is a natural instinct that boys love girls who have long hair.
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@donna22 (1116)
25 Aug 08
OK Ive heard the arguments that people should not be gay because the Bible says so but never about what length your hair should be!
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
i nvr tot that bible will state that ^_^
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@ifnalife (323)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 08
Hi cottonm, Yeah! girls with long hair are feminime and pretty too at my oppinion. If its you at your avatar, Gosh! you are a pretty girl! Don't cut your hair! okay :D
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
hahhaha, yes, that's me, i always use my real pic ^_^ thankz for your compliment, and sure, i won't cut it ^_^ i love long hair ^_^
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@ajrox1810 (992)
• India
25 Aug 08
Hi cottonm, I personally would like a girl with a hairstyle that is neither too long,nor too short, kind of intermediate. However girls prefer short hair as it is comfortable for them, but I like intermediate hair in a girl, as it can be managed, as well as looks very nice. Very long hair is difficult to manage by the girls, due to which they spend most of their time managing it therefore I don't like girls with very long hair, as well as it looks awkward to have hair that is hanging down till your legs. Anyways, it is your hair, and it is your choice. But it is the best opinion to have a kind of intermediate length hair than really long hair. Good Day or Evening depending on your time zone.
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
thankz for your explanation ^_^ good day 2 you too ^_^
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• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
Hmm.. me too I prefer long hair because girl will look nicer if they are in long hair. Its shows your feminine. I will take care my long hair because my mom said I look pretty with my long hair.. LOL!! I ever wonder, if I cut my hair, how will I look because I saw some women with short hair look goods.. Mmm.. I think girl with short also look nicer..
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
i had enough of short hair during my school time, i prefer my long hair now ^_^ HAPPY HAVING LONG HAIR ^_^
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@successlog (3172)
• China
26 Aug 08
beautiful girl with long hair - i like the girl who has a long hair as this.and you?
Hello cottonm,This is a interesting question.I think many people have different choices.For me, i like the girl who has a long hair.It looks like a perfect kind of art.Od course, i always cut a short hair for myself.meanwhile, i hate the men who leave the long hair. I feel it is ugly even though some people think not.lol good luck
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
26 Aug 08
the pic u postes with a beautiful long hair gal, look nice ^_^ thankz for response ^_^
@despompa (472)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
i'd prefer to have my hair short. being a mother of two kids, i find it more convenient and manageable to have my hair short because it will not take much of time fixing it. i usually start my day with my head band on since i have to prepare my kids food to school.
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
after reading some response, i feel that sometimes being a mother, hav 2 sacrifise a lots ^_^ i guess i hav 2 find some ways 2 still maintaining my long hair when i hav kids in future ^_^ HAve a nice day 2 you ^_^
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• United States
25 Aug 08
i think it depends on how the guy looks with long or short hair. personally it doesnt really matter to me as much as it use to. my bf wears his hair both long and short.
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@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 08
i bet he looks great in both, coz u seems no complaint with it ^_^ HAppy mylotting ^_^