I am depressed..... =((
By rikkabren
@rikkabren (238)
Philippines
August 27, 2008 7:53am CST
are you? when you see your discussions doesnt have any response? not for the money, but i think that i am not a good discussion maker. no one are interested in my subjects. but anyways, i can say whatever i like to say. thats the very least i can tell to myself.. hehe!!
just the same, i hope someone would answer me. have a good day!! =)
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22 responses
@kayedanda (1850)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
yes, it is kind of depressing at first but you'' get used to it :p
as ladyjarhead correctly pointed out, having lots of friends increases your chances of having responses, so if you find one who seems to be nice, then add him/her up! there's no limit to adding friends here!
and don't worry. being your loyal sister, i vow to answer EACH and EVERY discussion you post. so you wont' have discussions with 0 responses anymore. :D
happy myLotting!
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@rikkabren (238)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
Thank you. you are the greatest! hehehe! id do the same with you... (if im not sleepy) hahaha! goodluck to you! and kiss svet for me! miss you all!
@enola1692 (3323)
• United States
27 Aug 08
yes I get a little upset when I write a post an no answer like a few days ago i wrote one in memoery of a friend who vanished years ago an not one hit oh well guess i will just take your advise an go on an have agood day same back at you
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@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
27 Aug 08
You're probably not getting any responses because few (if any) people are seeing your discussions. Add loads of friends and that will change.
Take a look at my profile and see that I explain how that works.
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@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
27 Aug 08
hi there,
don't worry, that can happen to everyone, and have happened to many users including me there are always times when nobody respond my discussions (i mean it, i have several 'zero response' discussions). there are times when only 3 or 4 mylloters are interested to respond my discussions. but other times, my other discussions get lots of responses which is beyond my expectation. i think it's common here. just keep posting and starting your next discussions. quality topics will eventually get what they deserve. good luck!
@rikkabren (238)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
yes, i hope so too. as what others have said i am just a newbie, so i really need to try and make interesting topics to be responded upon. thank you for the comment.
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@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I believe we've already discussed this, but get that friend list loaded up and you will definitely see a difference!
A lot of people respond only to their friends discussions and do it from emails, so if you aren't their friend, they won't even see the discussion at all.
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@rikkabren (238)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
uhmm... i read your article. it is detailed and concise it really helps me and teach me more about mylot.
anyways, i invite you to be my friend. i hope youd accept me. thanks!
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@Wizzywig (7847)
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27 Aug 08
No, that wouldn't depress me... there are far, far worse things in most peoples lives than getting no responses! People either respond or they dont. I think there is more value in posting a discussion which interests YOU but gets few or no responses than posting the 'same old, same old' type of discussions that people rush to answer. Take pride in being an original thinker
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@rikkabren (238)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
yeah..i agree you on that... at least i was able to come up with such discussion. (even if i was not answered) hehehe! have a nice day!
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@MOMMASAM (1004)
• United States
27 Aug 08
yes, i've had some of the same instances.
but, i'm thinking i am fairly new here and no one really knows me.
don't take it too personally though, you will find friends soon enough.
i think the more you post, the more people will remember you and
search out your discussions.
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@rikkabren (238)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
yeah...i know that but sometimes wouldnt it be nice to see your discussion answered even just once? hehehe!
anyways, im happy for your comment. thanks!
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@know21 (1250)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I used to; but then I realized that I'm pretty new here,and some discussion are going to get more replies then others. So you just have to keep on starting those discussions and before you know it who'll be getting a lot of replies. Just remember your new here,and the good discussions will come to you. It'll probably be when you least except it.
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@tamarafireheart (15384)
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28 Aug 08
Hello rikkabren,
Firstly welcome to Mylot and welcome to the club, I have been here for three months and when I do disuscssion I don't ge may respinses as well, may my discussions are not very instresting, but it would have been nice just to a few, just add some friends and keep posting and soon they will get to know you and they will start responding to your discussions and you will have lots of fun.
Tamara
@LimoChang (193)
• China
27 Aug 08
No,not at the moment but I understand your feeling.Try to make more friends will get you more responses.Good luck and I'm here to be supportive.
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@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
28 Aug 08
Hi friend ,I too had the same experience.Dont worry,we shall make it up in the future.Happy mylotting.
@carl1105 (114)
• China
28 Aug 08
today you will not be depressed ,you spread a hot topic,congratulations.yes,i am not happy if no one respond my discussion,i will think there must be something wrong with me,i should review,but that is also the power for us to make progress,failure is the mother of success!
@Gothicana (458)
• United States
28 Aug 08
well,rikka dont be sad.
i am also new here and nobody post me but never give up the live must go on
@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
27 Aug 08
Good day... No I don't need to be. I mean why should I? This is a forum and all kinds of opinions are welcome whether given or not. If my co mylotterd didn't feel up to it to response to my discussion then they're free not to.
@alicjaxxxxx (22)
•
27 Aug 08
oh don't worry.I feel depressed now coz my boyfriend is away and what we always do is arguing :(
@razor123 (979)
• India
27 Aug 08
Hello rikkabren. Even i feel sad at times when no one relies to my topics but then i try to thing of even better ones and then do make such topics that people start replying to. So please don't be depressed anymore.
Take this as a challenge and you will surely do well my friend i am sure about that. Have a nice day, keep enjoying yourself on myLot and keep smiling too.
@txcheerleadr90 (293)
• United States
27 Aug 08
Don't be sad. I'll be your friend. Lol but seriously there are a LOT of articles and discussions, etc. Its hard for everyone to get to them all. You'll have luck. Don't worry
@AndrewFreyne (6281)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 08
Hey, just remember this, you've got those words down on screen and therefore you've got something to say. I think this place is about talking about anything even the most simple. There's always going to be someone that's interested in your subject. All said and done, you probably have more experience at this than me as I have only just started and I'm trying to think about different subjects for discussion as well as joining in other's discussions. Keep peservering I guess.