how should i deal with my friends ?
By bratgrow
@bratgrow (33)
China
August 27, 2008 8:18am CST
personally speaking ,i am an honest boy and i like to make friends .but on the other hand ,i find there are some problems related to the friends .i always want them to place me at the first place not other guys .but u know ,it can not be possible for all of them.i know ,i should not demand my friends of anything .but in my heart ,i indeed am be hard on them ,thinking how they should behave .
of course ,this is a problem with my mental .then what i can do to stop it from happening anymore .
3 responses
@pp_earn (210)
• India
27 Aug 08
this is not a problem, I mean everybody wishes to be placed at the first place whether it be love, brother, sisters, parents, everyone wants first attention to them.I too, always wish that my friends should be more possessive and caring about me, this is not being rude or being hard on their behavior.But then you should also understand that everything is important in life and you should also prove true to your friends by letting them do their work also.You should also make your friends realize that you need them the most and they will definitely care for you and place you at the first place.
@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
we are both the same too. i am envious when my friend is taking me for granted and had looked on others.. but in time, i had learned it.. it is really a problem my friend. because when you are being not cared for, you demand.. and it is a bad attitude. and most of all, the jealousy part.. it is a sin.. i suggest that you get it over. try not to be so protective. take time to listen and allow others to explore their world.. the world is vast, explore too. and i suggest we should be friends too. i am 22 years old.. i am a guy too.. are you?..
@LimoChang (193)
• China
27 Aug 08
Hello,
I think you can put yourself in other people's position and think for them sometimes.Ask yourself if you want other people to put you at the first place and in turn what will you do for them.You can't simply demand others to please you,what you do is to influence them with your generosity and kind heart.Soon they will regard you as the best.Good luck with it and hopefully you'll have lots of friends.
