To all my friends or would-be friends: Beware!
@joyadalia (1408)
Philippines
August 29, 2008 4:48am CST
I came to MyLot to gain friends not make enemies. But I also came here for fun, not to be obliged to answer all the discussions started by my friends.
I have seen enough posts here that rant about friends that do not help out and don't answer discussions and don't do this and do that. But guys, it was not stipulated anywhere in MyLot that we have to answer discussions from our friends. If that would be the case then I would have more than 100 responses to all my posts! 
. I think that the goal here is to make friends and that these friends will help each other out but not to the extent that we have to follow all their discussions and answer them! Anyone who is against this philosophy and is on my friends list can delete me NOW. I have no time for childishness here. I only came to have fun. If you can't bear that your friends (that includes me) will not answer your posts then so be it.
To those who have not added me yet, if you disagree with me then do NOT add me as friend. You will only be frustrated that I will answer your discussions! And don't send me a PM to tell me to answer your discussion and you will answer mine because it just doesn't work that way for me. If I like a discussion, no matter if a friend had started it or not, I will respond to it in my own way. If I don't like a discussion, I will not respond to it even if my friend had started it! Beware of me then because in this matter I can not be forced against my will.
Sorry to those who might be offended by this post but this site allows us to share our OPINIONS and this is my own opinion so if you don't like I really have nothing to say. 
. I think that the goal here is to make friends and that these friends will help each other out but not to the extent that we have to follow all their discussions and answer them! Anyone who is against this philosophy and is on my friends list can delete me NOW. I have no time for childishness here. I only came to have fun. If you can't bear that your friends (that includes me) will not answer your posts then so be it.
To those who have not added me yet, if you disagree with me then do NOT add me as friend. You will only be frustrated that I will answer your discussions! And don't send me a PM to tell me to answer your discussion and you will answer mine because it just doesn't work that way for me. If I like a discussion, no matter if a friend had started it or not, I will respond to it in my own way. If I don't like a discussion, I will not respond to it even if my friend had started it! Beware of me then because in this matter I can not be forced against my will.
Sorry to those who might be offended by this post but this site allows us to share our OPINIONS and this is my own opinion so if you don't like I really have nothing to say. 1 person likes this
4 responses
@ehlsie (730)
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
you have a point...I also received a message like that, that they want me to answer their discussions and they'll answer mine. It's so stupid..isn't? What if we don't want to answer to their post because we're not interested, they will reject us as their friends??? so what!!??!!! there were lots of mylotters here whose not like them...
That's true.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
30 Aug 08
Well that's what it should be. I haven't had anyone that bothersome... no notes asking for responses or BRs, nothing of the sort. I have had people not like my opinion though (should be fairly obvious). With some friends disagreements occur at times and there are plenty of viewpoints between those on my friends list. However, that's only one part of what makes them friends. There's much more to plenty of members here, and a lot of great people around. Its part of the reason I stay and keep coming back here. If you have encounters with the annoying, the users or people you honestly cannot stand then don't deal with them. People will get the message fast that you won't take their nonsense.
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@SangsTurks (1444)
• India
29 Aug 08
The point is that nobody is forced to do anything here in mylot. So if you dont feel like answering your friends discussion it is fine. If you have friends who have been friends with you here in mylot just so that you can reply to their discussion are just trying to use you, just delete them. End of the story. Mylot is no place for child like behaviour.
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@yellowmen (23)
• China
29 Aug 08
I agree you opinion. we come just for fun. we discuss any question because we interest with it. we needn't to do anything we dislike here.
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