What do you when you are so angry of someone or something that happens?
By corngrass
@corngrass (727)
Malaysia
August 31, 2008 12:43am CST
Whenever i come across something or someone who makes me really angry, first of all i will drink a lot of water to cool down. Then i will call my dear and tell her about it. My dear will listen to me and comfort me. After that i will sit alone thinking over and over why is it happen, and if i still can't cool down myself, i will look for my sister or colleague to tell them. I found that the more you talk about the incident, the more you will forget about the anger. Because for me, the more people i talk to, the less thing i will say. Maybe because I get lazy as I tell. LOL! How about you?
8 responses
@jlingapple (19)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 08
actually, i seldom get in angry as i am an tolerate person... but sometimes there is really got some incident that can make me feel angry... for example few years ago, my friend put a cake in my drawer, without telling me anything. the cake is actually given by another friend to a guy that she like, but is rejected. I really no idea on that, and i take it out, wondering whose that belong to... then, tat friend cry, and i am scolded by the one who hide it in my drawer.... really angry tat time, but i can do nothing. i m hurt.... and i just leave there, cant control myself and release my anger by--- crying... i know is not my fault, and theirs as well... just, let it pass coz it is just an accident....
now, once again, i have been told that i do something wrong, which i never been told before... my team have discuss it on the past meeting, but they forget to let me know... then, i do it, ask them is that ok... then, one of them tell... har... no la... u should.... is like this.... -_-
i feel like being isolated... Sad? Angry? i really want to cry... but unable to cry... so i just leave it, sleep and let it heal unconsciously... i know, get angry with others is no use at all, it will only hurting others. what i can do is just let myself get rid of it with my own way... thats...
@corngrass (727)
• Malaysia
13 Sep 08
I like the way you deal with the problem. But it hurts too, right?
@jlingapple (19)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 08
Is better than quarelling with others lo... maybe i will hurt at that moment, but it will be ok soon. actually, just take a sleep, DREAM can help us to get rid of some negative feeling as well as solving some problems. this is what i have read from a book. Dream is helpful. Let it go is better than keep in mind..
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
1 Sep 08
it depends with the thing that i get mad of. like if i made a rule which i knew its right and no one followed it, i would freak out!!! i cant control my anger. on the spot i would say things carelessly. suddenly, i realized that i shouldn't say that. but i get mad and upset easily. and that's my problem. i kept yaking and yaking...lol
@corngrass (727)
• Malaysia
13 Sep 08
Sometimes, when are mad, we tend to say something that really hurts. We often realize it after it was "blurted", it's hard to heal the wound. So, i guess the thing we can do is to stay calm not to speak when we are angry. Words said when we are angry are like fire than burns people around us.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
7 Sep 08
To begin with, thank you for adding me as your friend. I appreciate it very much.
When I am so angry, it all depends on the situation. If I feel myself offended, I will try to ask the one who does so to me and the reason behind it in a calm way. But I will never have an argument with him. Or else I cool myself down by going somewhere else for a bike-ride and I will feel much better when coming back. Or I will just go to sleep trying not to think about it, though it is not easy to remove the unpleasant thing.
So I could use either one of the options. Take care, my dear new friend.
@JannaLee (660)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
I find it weird sometimes, since I tend to be more silent when I'm extremely angry. Of course, the anger is written all over my face, but no word shall come out from my mouth. I guess I'm more calm when I'm extremely mad, than when I'm not that mad. I'm more expressive when my rage is lesser, so I'm more vocal about the thing that made me upset..^^
@candysky (855)
• Malaysia
17 Sep 08
for me... i will doing the same things... but i will tell my dear 1st... when i was very angry.... i can't think anything accept my dear... so u will call my dear n tell him... he will b the 1 st person who noe all my feeling .... he will b the person who always with me... so love him very very much... i can't live without my dear...
@nightangle (80)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
sharing what your feel will release the negative energy that makes you so angry it is like sharing burden that right after then it lightens someone feelings and its enlightens you also to think clearly.
