jlingapple

@jlingapple (19)

Malaysia • Age 37

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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How you help your friends to get away from smoking?

micahbrul @micahbrul (307) • Philippines 19 Sep 08

Smoking is bad in our health. It could damage our lungs and would cause a very severe illness. Most people knew that but still they continued smoking. Some started as a past time until it became hobbit and now an addiction. Others...

quiting

smoking

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jlingapple actually i know how is it... my brother is also a smoker... he tell me that smoking can help him to get rid of stress... that maybe true, but it is still not a good reason to smoke. he tell me that he will get rid of it, but after 2 years, he is still...

29 Sep 08

what will you do if your friends make you to spend on them again and again?

suprabha_77777 @suprabha_77777 (232) • India 19 Sep 08

i hate those who make me to spend agaun and again on them but they never spend.i tell them i don.t have enough money or forgot to bring money. don.t you get angry?

spend on friends

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jlingapple Its annoying... But when u notice those friends are always like that pattern, just avoid of going out with them. Or when they invite u to go out, ask them whether they bring enough money or not. Just directly ask them, and tell them u r not going to spend much...

20 Sep 08

How you help your friends to get away from smoking?

micahbrul @micahbrul (307) • Philippines 19 Sep 08

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jlingapple The problem is, if they really really want to get rid of the smoking habit, then u can help them effectively. Quit slowly is good, by ask them to reduce on the cigaratte they take daily. 1st week 10, 2nd week 8..... reduce gradually... find other things to...

20 Sep 08

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"comforting a friend"

checapricorn @checapricorn (16061) • United States 19 Sep 08

I was on the phone for almost 4 hours yesterday talking to a good friend who has a problem in her marriage life this time.. As much as I want to Mylot and earn, I also can't ignore her because I know even with our distance I can...

advice

comforting

problems

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jlingapple Yup. I am always there for my friend who need me... however, not everyone will share their problems to others. If they are willing to share, i will just try my best to help them. Giving advices is not a good idea, but let the person solve the problem by...

20 Sep 08

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Can my friend treat me better??

jlingapple @jlingapple (19) • Malaysia 20 Sep 08

I always treat my friends well, and I expect them to treat me the same way I treat them. However, i always disappointed by them. I really hope that i have nice friends like others, who can buy me something to eat when they go out,...

friend

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What kind of gifts do you want to receive??

warrior_777 @warrior_777 (1392) • Philippines 16 Sep 08

In our birthdays and during Christmas days we often received gifts or presents from our loved ones.. They usually gave us the things what they think we love to have.. I often received shoes and caps because they always seen me...

gifts

presents

received

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jlingapple stationery, souvenior, clothes, necklace, cake, cards... I really like to receive gifts, because it show that someone care and thinking of me... however, its oso difficult to choose a suitable gift for our love ones. it depend on how much we know and care...

20 Sep 08

what would you do to get rid of the stress

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 20 Sep 08

If you had total freedom in your life to do what you wanted, if you had unlimited resources to do what you wanted, go where you wanted, what would you do in your life to get rid of anything that is stressing you?

stress

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jlingapple Try to think: EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE SOON, JUST TO DO WHAT I CAN DO RIGHT NOW. GOD WILL DO THE OTHER PARTS.

20 Sep 08

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whats your pastime activity?

blitzkiba @blitzkiba (641) • Philippines 20 Sep 08

I usually play the computer. Go online visit some sites or play games online like chess. Sometimes i go play basketball with my friends.

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jlingapple if got free in the morning, i maybe reading books or sleep. if its afternoon or evening, maybe playing ball. if at night, maybe chatting with friends. Also, online friendster, msn chatting, playing guitar, and event go shopping if got whole day free time.

20 Sep 08

What Does Music Do For You?

gquimpo @gquimpo (47) • Philippines 19 Sep 08

Do you listen to music going to work and get bored without it when working? Why do you think you need music in your life?

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jlingapple I like music, especially when i am alone. However, i cant have music when i am doing my revision as it will make me cant concentrate on my study. Music help make life more colourful and avoid boredom... Music connect all human over the world... Its really...

20 Sep 08

Do you have good relationship with your friend?

helenjh1984 @helenjh1984 (286) • China 19 Sep 08

When you feel loney, you try to talk with friend is best choose. i like my friends. i engjoy with them together. when i feel so sadly, they are around with me . they don't left me alone. i am so happy have like this kind of...

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jlingapple Friend in need is indeed... I have many friends, but they dont seems like friends indeed. When i really need somebody to accompany me when i am down, want someone to share, I really dont know who i can approach. yes, i like my friends, but what i want is they...

20 Sep 08

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What do you when you are so angry of someone or something that happens?

corngrass @corngrass (727) • Malaysia 31 Aug 08

Whenever i come across something or someone who makes me really angry, first of all i will drink a lot of water to cool down. Then i will call my dear and tell her about it. My dear will listen to me and comfort me. After that i...

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jlingapple Is better than quarelling with others lo... maybe i will hurt at that moment, but it will be ok soon. actually, just take a sleep, DREAM can help us to get rid of some negative feeling as well as solving some problems. this is what i have read from a book....

20 Sep 08

do you believe there is a reason behind everything?

boemo12 @boemo12 (23) • Malaysia 8 Sep 08

how to you live your life,do you live it by the theory that there is a reason behind everything.That every thing in this world happens for a reason or that things just occur randomly with no reason.

life

philosophy

thinkers

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jlingapple Exactly, there is a reason behind everything. Even though we maybe don know what is the reason, but we will know it when finally we learn something from the event. There is no point we keep on thinking why this or that happen. What we should do is try our best...

8 Sep 08

emptiness, nothingness

mj_jabez @mj_jabez (59) • Philippines 29 Aug 08

ever felt like you have nowhere to go..no sense of direction.. you're not enjoying anymore what you've been doing.. I feel just as that

emptiness

nothingness

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jlingapple Do u have a dream or aim for something in the future?? if no, try to dream something u really want and start to reach it. Do u have a religion? If no, try to go to the church and see what u can get from there... Seek for the inner peace from Jesus...

3 Sep 08

how many BEST friends do you have? how about consider?

jamesnogra @jamesnogra (381) • Philippines 3 Sep 08

i have a lot of friends but i have only few best friends I CONSIDER.

friends

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jlingapple You know, to become friend is easy, but to become best friend is hard... Why?? maybe somebody is so strange with u once, but now he or she can be your best friend... is depend on the time you spend with that person.. the more time u spend with him or her, the...

3 Sep 08

flavor my ice cream

luntian_grace @luntian_grace (1373) • Philippines 2 Sep 08

what flavor do you like in your ice cream?

cold

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jlingapple i think i like vanilla ice cream most... sometimes will be quite bore if always enjoy the same flavor. i like chocolate and strawberry as well... feel like want to eat now... hehe...

3 Sep 08

What do you when you are so angry of someone or something that happens?

corngrass @corngrass (727) • Malaysia 31 Aug 08

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jlingapple actually, i seldom get in angry as i am an tolerate person... but sometimes there is really got some incident that can make me feel angry... for example few years ago, my friend put a cake in my drawer, without telling me anything. the cake is actually given...

1 Sep 08

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How would you distinguish the line between love and friendship?

JannaLee @JannaLee (660) • Philippines 1 Sep 08

It seems so amazing how things turn our differently. One day you're friends, the next day you're lovers. It's quite difficult to distinguish and to draw the line between the junctions of both relationships. How would you...

love and friendship

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jlingapple Friend is just friend, you can be very close to ur friend and u can have limitation between friend. is just if u x sure whether is a feeling of love or just friendship, go and find out. LOVE start when u want to really want to marry with somebody. If u just...

1 Sep 08