what will you do if your friends make you to spend on them again and again?

hi! you are so right. i also get angry when people are abusing my generosity. they just let you spend and spend and spend without even thinking of returning the favor. I have experienced this before, in my old school. My friends, or so i thought, would always ask me to pay for something that they bought. Since this are just small items, i feel okey in paying for it. But after sometime, i have noticed that they are now asking me to pay this and that in regular intervals. I am not a person who expects something in return for the things that i do for them, but in this kind of situation you can now see how the events are turning. they let you spend and spend, then when your resources are nearing its end, they would look for another victim. Thankfully for me that before this would happen a concern friend of mine, talked to them when they are again asking me to spend some money for them. She told them that they shouldnt even buy anything if they cant afford it. She even went as far as calling them vampires, that sip the very life out of you. After she told them this, they suddenly put a wall between us. They dont talked to me as often as before, they have now their own circle of friends(and im excluded from it), and they are distanced in everything, when i talked to them, when i asked something and the like. I am lucky now because my set of friends in my new school are kind. and they believe in give and take. So everything is going alright for me now. But the lesson that i have learned from before could never be erase. So my advice for you, do not be afraid to speak up to people whom you feel are abusing you. But dont be to suspicious of other people, that you forget to be giving anymore. Also it is better to give than to recieve. When you give, God has something in store to replace what is lost. and most of the time it is much better than before. Happy giving and happy mylotting!

For me it’s not bad to treat your friends occasionally but if you’re the only one spending for time and it’s became more often, it’s about time to say no when they ask you again to treat them.

Its annoying... But when u notice those friends are always like that pattern, just avoid of going out with them. Or when they invite u to go out, ask them whether they bring enough money or not. Just directly ask them, and tell them u r not going to spend much money that day before u go out with them.