What did your first relationship change about you?
By Helios
@Helios (85)
United States
4 responses
@bobet17 (158)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
I was 12 when I have my first relationship,Im to young at that time I dont know What is love,All I can feel is the happiness,its change to me a lot In 2 ways a good and a bad, A good because I already know how to act like a lady,love encourage me to study hard and to be happy all the time,and Bad because I dont have time for my friends,I want to be with him always.Im so in love until now,we got married last year.
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@jhellie_baby (374)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
hi there. my first relationship has really taught me a lot of things and has changed me a lot, for the best:) well, first, it changed my view in life, and i had learned to value my things in life. and it had really taught me to love the people around me.
@marlena18042 (636)
• United States
1 Sep 08
ALOT! My first relationship was when I was only 15 yrs old and I was with him for about 4 yrs. Unfortunatly, this guy was a total @sshole! Excuse my language but that's the nicest I can be when I think of a name for him!
It was such a bad relationship where he cheated alot, and also became abusive.I was young,very naive,and it was the first guy I believed I loved so I stayed with him throughout a lot of mistreatment.
How it changed me was that it gave me a bad outlook on men. And, for some time after that relationship, I got into other bad relationshiops,where I didnt treat guys right either!
Fortunatly over time and maturity, I realized that all men are not the same and I no longer feel the way I did.
It would've been better to have waited until I was more mature to be in a relationship.
I also teach my kids that they should worry qabout school, and forming good friendships.Relationships can come later when they are more mature and ready to deal with them!
@berryliciousme (1003)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
My first relationship taught me a lot of things about love and how to handle a relationship. It changed my perspective of what a real relationship is. It's not all bed of roses. Romantic love is only one aspect of a relationship, and we should also look into the other aspects for it to work.
I learned that love is a give and take. I learned not to be selfish. I learned that there is a need to consider the things that our partner wants. Also, I learned to compromise.