quarrel

China
September 3, 2008 11:03pm CST
yesterday,i had a quarrel with my husband.i am so angry that i slept in another room.he had even not talk with me a word until now.he loved me so much before,we haven't experienced such a accident.i am sad now,someone often says that the person is changing all the time,but i can't believe that my husband will,i have a little confess now.i find there are much differences between us now,evenly i think divoice......
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
People change,time flies,and time forgets love sometimes. It hurts I know. But if you love him you will always be their for him. When you feel down,go out and think a hundred thousand ways to get the love back to you even he change or you change. It's just up to you or one of you will be strong for each other. One will make a way I think. Problems are just temporary,it's how you solve it,it's how you stand it even the mistakes and the faults,even the deepest pains you can face it with out fear.I think quarrels,fights,arguements makes the relationship stronger,it's not letting go. LOVE is accepting everything and not pride that sometimes destroy everything. Isn't it when you love and you get married it's better or for worse. Sometimes you forget that your already 1. That it was a vow. Not all relationship is perfect, cause no one is perfect. Every problem you can handle it,cause God did not give you a problem that you can't handle it. God be with you!
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• China
6 Sep 08
thank you very much.n30wing.you are so kind.
• United States
4 Sep 08
Hello pengpendi! Husbands and wives quarrel all the time. They say that if there are no arguments than there is something wrong! My husband and I sometimes get into it as well. And sometimes it seems that we are'nt getting along for weeks. There are going to be ups and downs in every single relationship. Sometimes we feel so in love with our partner that nothing could come between us. Then, other times we feel we cant stand each other for a minute more! But, we stick through it and are thankful we did because it always gets better again. You say that you even think of divorce? Well, maybe you could visit a marriage counselor. Did you ever express this to your husband? Did you ever tell him what is dissatisfying about your relationship or causing you to feel this way? Sometimes our partners dont even know that something is bothering us that much. I don't know how long you've felt the way you have, but always remember there are other options than divorce. I hope everything works out well for you.
• China
6 Sep 08
thanks marlena18042,is it your baby's photo?it's cute.