Have you have heart broken ?

Two years may not be long enough. As long as you're looking for a girl that makes you feel just like she did, you might never find one. You don't have to forget nor stop loving your old girlfriend in order to meet & fall in love with someone new. The heart has the ability to love more than one. Stop looking for love & look to like first. Maybe that like will grow into love. As long as you're looking to replace you old girlfriend, there is NO way that you can learn to love the new one. I know it's not easy as it took me a long time to get past my first love. Living in the US I don't understand why your parents even get a say. I find it selfish on their part to keep you from your one true love. I wish you all the happiness that you can find* I hope you get pas the heartbreak soon!!!

I too have so many sad stories based upon girls. but of all kinds. the girl whom i loved to marry, the girl whom i trusted as my best friend and also the girl whom i really thought as my own sister, and i am cheated by these girls.Girls are not in steady mind, i think.. but i will not blame them. i will blame their parents. if they cared well, noone will go wrong. after being cheated by many persons, i stay lonely for years. i dont even talk well with my family members. finally i got a women contact, whom i really thought as my own sister. but she acted like that and went off.. but i was much heartbroken whenever i call her in the past. her no will be always busy. talking with someone and never respected me to attend my call, i gave her many excuses. finally i got shame on myself and quit her relation, As i am greedy for respect.

Yeah everybody's been through that maybe not with love but in any aspects of life. You lost in a contest, your family doesn't love you or your business fails. It happens to all of us. And I think it is not easy to weigh which is the most painful or unforgettable it will all depend on which really struck you the most

yes of cause i have. i think everybody has. but that was a long time ago and i moved one. i broke a few hearts also and im sorry about that. but life goes on.

Haluckyman, That is such a sad story! I am not sure why your family didnt want you to marry her but i think you should try to find her again. maybe she has not been able to move on. Do a web search of her name if you are not sure where she lives. atleast if you find her and are able to talk you can have some closure. Good luck with whatever you decide to do!

Always happen!

Hi Haluckman, That is very said to hear, I think most people have experienced a heartache in their lives and I hope you will get over her and meet another to be able to share you life with. I still have fond but painful memories of my first love but it wasn't to be. Hold the happy memories in your heart rather than the pain. Ellie :D

yes i had my heart broken many times... but this was the worst of all. i loved my ex-boyfriend so much that i thought breaking up with him will be the worst thing that could ever happen.. but then it happened.. i made a mistake and decided to break up with him coz i thought i will be unfair if we continue.. he was still willing to accept me but i decided not to go back with him.. from that day onwards, there was never a day that i did not cry. it was very hard for me to move on. but i have a new love life now, and i'm happy... i guess the saying "the only cure for love is love itself" is true.. don't worry haluckyman... i'm sure you will be able to find someone... just wait and it will come.. there is always a right time for everything.. good luck to you!