MYLOT diappointed me...first time
By intimate36
@intimate36 (1415)
Pakistan
September 9, 2008 6:31am CST
Hello all MYLOT members..today, almost two months have passed, since I joined MYLOT..
After going through the notifications, I get for the discussions my FRIENDS have started..almost 26 to 28...mails..I was really disappointed for the first time.I could not find a single topic, to which I could reply with my whole heart..Now, I will go to main page for some serious discussions..
Is it really so, or it all depends on the mood at that particular time?Does it happens to you?
Any of MYLOT members, have any such experience...please share...
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20 responses
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
Yes it does happen to me. I've been receiving notifications as well for my friends' discussion and honestly I would have wished I could respond to all of them as I want really to support my friends first and foremost but so sad when I can't really give any useful thoughts on the subject they posted and I would have to skip and go to others' discussion. So friend, if you find me not responding to your post... there is only one answer... I have nothing useful to share because the topic does not fall under my interests. I would not want to look stupid and silly with my responses. I want to answer to the best of my knowledge and therefore if I can't do that why should I? In my case it does not depend on the my mood. For as long as the topic is of my interest then no problem. I can always respond.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
Thanks a lot for your kind understanding. Rest assured that I am always monitoring your posts and giving priorities just as I do with my other friends!
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
I never expect a reply from all friends every time... and on each discussion...so , I appreciate your kind gesture of supporting friends...And believe me...dear Salonga...from now onwards ...I will take your response as a measurement of interest for my discussion...I mean , if I don't get a reply from you...I will try and make more interesting discussions..
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
Yes, i have experienced that. I think it is more of nothing or none of the topics interests you. Although there are discussions posted on the topics of your interest. Or maybe you are not just in the right mood to answer at the time you opened the discussions started by friends. When that happens to me, i just read on and then when an idea gets into me, i go back to the discussion and respond.Have a nice day!
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@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
Hello Sweetie...you have given me a very good Idea..of just keep Reading ..and respond later... thanks dear...
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
Yeah, that is what i always do. You're welcome, have a nice day and take care always!
@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
28 Sep 08
Hi there intimate36,
It's really true! Now you know how i feel when sometimes i just taking a brake with all ,have no posting at all. Well sometime im not in the mood of talking about the subject, or have no clue of the subject at all..
Happy posting always
oxo'dian from Bali island.
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
16 Oct 08
Sorry ...for being late in posting this reply...I hope you know...that I was absent from MYLOT...for three to four weeks...and still trying to get back my rhythm ....
Hope you understand...
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
I have noticed that most of MYLOT members have experienced it at least once...thanks Dawnald ...for your response..have a nice day..
@xphunt3r (244)
• Nepal
10 Sep 08
I think there are growing lots member in mylot. Every want start so many discussion a day to earn a lot. Even they start funny and useless discussion. This reduce the quality of mylot. It is very difficult to find proper discussion to respond. i think this is m\not matter in mylot. Mylot.com want this. So many member so many discussion and so many view. I am only disapoint in earning. today is 10th sept and I have earning of 7th sept. Their is no update in my my earning in two days. This is really disappointing for me..........
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@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
Don't be disappointed dear...keep posting ...sometimes it happens... dont loose hope...
MMmmmmm ok I checked your profile ...you are the first person from NEPAL ,I have come across ...and from 187 posts you have a nice ranking...so keep it up..
@smilingcat (72)
• Russian Federation
10 Sep 08
Hi intimate36, yes, it happens sometimes, that I feel it difficult to find anything interesting to answer but sometimes it's vice-versa - I loose myself among interesting subjects and have a "cocktail" in my brain and cannot give a good logical and detailed enough answer. And sometimes I feel it difficult to find someone who is interested in the same subject as I am. It's just like in my "real" (out of mylot) life. And it depends on my own mood very much.
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
Hello Smilingcat...your words are interesting .." cocktail "in brain.....good to have a response from you dear...If I am not wrong..You are among my recent new friends ...and you are from Russia...right?
@smilingcat (72)
• Russian Federation
10 Sep 08
yes, I'm from Russia and I'm new to mylot and to social networking in general. So it took me some time to get how it works here. I'm sorry, I'm late to say happy birthday to you and your son. I hope you had some nice moments celebrating. By the way tomorrow is my wife's birthday, just two days later than yours :-)
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
8 Oct 08
Hello..I was not able to log in for last three weeks...and just read your second response today...Belated happy birthday...to your wife...
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
11 Sep 08
Well, for some reason I have not been getting any Notifications lately for some reason. I am not sure what happened, so I have to come in here when I can, and check my friends discussions, etc. from here now. So I probably end up missing a lot of Good discussions and such, but my time online some days is so limited. But I can relate with sometimes there being nothing to respond back too. That is when I will get out of the site for a while, and go check Email or surf the Internet, etc.
@Mitraa (3184)
• India
10 Sep 08
Yes friend, it is quite incidental! Some days may be there, when you may have many interesting discussions to be responded by you! But go on responing slowly as well as steadly! This will maintain your quality and style of discussions and rsponses! Thanks for this nice topic!
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
16 Oct 08
I could not reply your response...as i was not in the city...sorry..for being late
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
10 Sep 08
there are some discussion i refuse to answer but i try to answer as many as i can because we are all here to make money thats our main goal.it is a choice if you choose not to answer it are not but i tell you this to answer will make you some money.
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
10 Sep 08
Hello intimate36,
Sometimes I do get bored and do not want to respond at all. I will go to the latest discussions posted by other members instead of my friends. Most of the time, I prefer to respond to my friends discussions. I prefer a light discussion instead of the serious one. I could find so many topics here but sometimes when I have MyLot burnout, I just look at the discussion and leave it like that...
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
It is fine to take up light discussions.....for serious discussions ..you need a proper mood...and extra brain exercise...Agreed..
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@icegermany (2524)
• India
10 Sep 08
i feel mood and the interest are interdependent and both matters while writing here when we are in a good mood we feel like responding more of discussions and we have more ideas to write and we probably answer the discussions which are out of our interest and we do really well but when our mood is bad we feel the discussions of our interest also as boring and we dont feel like nswering them and we keep on searching for other discussions where we can write something.
it happens most of the times for me and i really get disappointed and just take a break from mylot and relax till i get refreshened and then do mylotting.
its really difficult to write when your mood is upset and i dont feel like doing anything and also relaxing is boring.
and from few days i can find that when i am fresh too but i am not able to answer the discussions as i feel that i have nothing to write and it really bores me.
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
Though many of MYLOT members have expressed same views...you are the one with most appropriate words...I am glad ..you are very close to my feelings..have a nice day...
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
10 Sep 08
Im not really disappointed but i have noticed the lack of interesting topics im a little board with some of the discussion's iv seen but maybe were having a slow day at mylot maybe we will see some batter discussions soon i think sometimes we just cant think of anything interesting to discussion's, but who knows we might see something intersting soon just keep checking.
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
So you have a positive approach...and that is a good thing...keep it up...
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
Yeah I experienced that too and it really depends on your mood.There are times that there are topics that are not really interesting so I just post just for a little but yeah I usually go to today's topic and find some interesting topic that I can easily relate.:-0 GOd bless and have a nice day.:-0
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
That means , you agree on " both interest and mood count "...Thanks for the support..have a nice day..
@celestial052506 (2914)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
Maybe this thing happened to most of us here. I am also disappointed when I keep on searching for discussion to response and I can not find one that I can relate to.
What I do is to log out from the site and returned back after few hours. At that time, some new discussions would appear and i could pick one that I am interested to respond to. Or else I would just post new thread. This is very normal that almost everybody is experiencing.
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
I agree with you friend...most of MYLOT members have suggested me the same thing... to leave the discussions for a certain period and then log in later...Thanks for sharing..have a nice day..
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
10 Sep 08
its been slim pickings lately that is for sure!! a lot of people are talking about it..
@Humbug25 (12540)
•
10 Sep 08
Hey there intimate36
Oi what's wrong with my discussions? . I am at the moment going through all the discussions that have been sent to me from myLot as I have been so busy writing comments to the responses I got from my 'what do you cook in your microwave'. It was a genuine discussion, I really wanted to know what people cooked in theirs because I don't cook in mine much at all. At the last count it was 110!! I had a friend who just wrote strange questions and loads of them, I couldn't answer them and have not turned of the notification. I do go and find discussions else where if my friends don't have any I can join in with. Maybe you need to get some more friends!!
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
Glad ..that both my friends ..have similar views , and have experienced same situation.....You both are among my those friends , who always take out time and reply me...thanks..
@iceblizzard (749)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
I too have been very choosy with the topics to reply. During my first day I find lots of interesting topics to reply, but I guess the starter of those topics don't monitor them. But still, I find some topics interesting to tackle. I don't reply to all the topics posted cause I don't have an idea why words don't keep on coming when I read those topics.
@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
10 Sep 08
Yes dear...it is a fact.." words don't keep on coming "... I have faced this problem many times...and I think it depends on how is your mood...