Would you ever consider adopting a child?
By apples99
@apples99 (6556)
United States
September 12, 2008 11:34pm CST
I dont have kids yet i guess because i haven't met the right person and sometimes i wonder what would i do if i met someone passed my child barring years, i think that if that happens i might consider adoption there so many children out there that need a good home and why not, of course i dont think its the worst thing in the world if i choose to be happy with just me and my husband or partner, but if i do want children and i feel im in a good place in my life and able to handle a child i think id definitely consider adoption how about you how do you feel about adoption.
7 responses
@icegermany (2524)
• India
13 Sep 08
i dont know how far you will accept my discussion but i feel that its really a great responsibility of adopting a child it really needs a lot of patience and really a good pure heart which in future should never think that its not your child and not your blood whom you are taking care of and hence only those kind of people adopting a child is good and better . coz many people have a feeling to have their own child and i think i am one among them. may be if i had no child i might have thought like you but now as i have a child i really cant think of adoption as i cant accept the child with whole heart.
so i told you that you should never have a feeling like this in life and then its fine to adopt or else no. coz if this feeling comes to your mind you can never accept that child and also its a kind of pain for the child too and so get prepared first and then go for the adoption.
all the best and think more precisely first.
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
13 Sep 08
I understand what you mean and i agree i definitely feel that you should never adopt unless your fully willing to accepted the child as your own blood it would not be far to the child to do otherwise, and i wouldn't adopted in less i was emotionally and financially ready to accept the responsibility, thanks for your responds.
@keeping_jeremiah2911 (160)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
i dont think theres something wrong in adopting a child. it was once came into my mind and until now im still thinking about it. Its good to adopt a child when you are able to sustain her needs. I love kids and its also part of my plan to adopt a child.
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
if I get married to a rich guy,I would advice for us to adopt children.we are helping these children by providing what they need.we could provide a great home for them.I will advise my rich spouse to adopt children and pets.adoption is a good way of helping.
@djordan (37)
• United States
25 Oct 11
I am all for adoption! Considering it myself actually. I am a single male but as my best friend would say "I am the first male she has seen with a biological clock" LOL and I am great with kids. But to answer your question I think adoption is a great thing and I stand behind anyone who can give a child a good life.
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
13 Sep 08
you know i have 2 kids had i not been able to have children i would have defentily adopted and as it stands right now im thinking once my jids or in school maybe being a foster parent .there are millons of childeren that need homes i just hope evryone keeps in mind that there are others besides babie i know most people want babies but the older kids need homes also
