Precious Angel...Good night.
@Angelwhispers (8978)
United States
September 14, 2008 2:55pm CST
Wow it has been a long time since I have actually started a discussion. I feel like I have neglected many of you my wonderful loving friends. I have and do miss each and every one of you.
This is an update to a couple of discussions I started; one was a rant about being told I was going to be a grand mother again. The second one some of you might remember that I told you that my daughter in law and son had miscarried a twin 4 months ago. The surviving twin was a viable fetus and was expected to thrive and make it to full term.
On September 9th at 1:15 AM, Skie Renee was born at 22 weeks, she weighed 1 lb 8 ozs and was beautiful and perfect in every way. She died at 2:20 AM on September 9th in her mothers arms. It seems her mommy’s body just didn’t heal fast enough, after the loss of her twin to sustain her life.
Her hair was so white, that it would have been spun gold, had it been allowed to grow. I leave you all a picture of our Angel… She is hard to look at, but know this She was so wonderfully perfect that to look at her was looking into the face of heaven.
There is no bond greater than the bond between parent and child. Never should a parent stand at the grave side of a child, nor grand parents that of a grand child. My precious Skie Renee, you left us so fast that I did not get to touch you, but in your short life you have forever changed the way I see the sky above.
If I walk among the trees I will hear your soft voice, I will feel your warm touch from the Sun.
Through rain swept clouds, I will see your face; in honeycombs I will treasure your taste.
In fragrant scent your blossom blooms, and you’re bright eyes will shimmer from the stars.
You rest precious Angel, we will miss you every day, but that much you already know and in the rain the sunshine the sleet or snow, Nana will see you and love you there.
To my children, your grieving parents Skie, I want to say this,
There is another sky,
Ever serene and fair,
And there is another sunshine,
Though it be darkness there;
Never mind faded forests, My Children,
Never mind silent fields -
Here is a little forest,
Whose leaf is ever green;
Here is a brighter garden,
Where not a frost has been;
In its unfading flowers
I hear the bright bee hum:
There is another Sky,
She waits for you there.
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16 responses
@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
15 Sep 08
Hi Subha I believe that as well... Thank you
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@GardenGerty (160665)
• United States
14 Sep 08
So sorry to hear this, I have very little to say. I have had friends who were twinless twins, and they have described it as sad and strange, even though some of them lost their twins as Skie did. I wonder if she just could not go on alone.
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@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
14 Sep 08
Gerty it is ironic that you say this, As I have thought this several times myself. Thank you for your thoughts :)))
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@switlyf (649)
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
i am so sorry to hear that.. she was such an angel but of course god has other plan perhaps a much brighter plan for her. This post was wonderfully written and i love how you were able to show and let us feel what you feel. Thanks for sharing.
@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
15 Sep 08
Thank you for your words of comfort Swiftly
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@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
15 Sep 08
Oh angel, this is so touching that I had tears forming in my eyes. I hope you and the child's parents get the strength to handle the loss. And you are right. Since life is eternal, your grand daughter will be around in existence, watching you and waiting for you.
Cheers and happy mylotting
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@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
15 Sep 08
Hello Positiveminded! Thank you so much for your kind words
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@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
14 Sep 08
Hello Ellie :)) No need to apologize there really is nothing, we can say at times like this, I know that. It is enough to just share, share what little we have and make it enough for a life time. Make it enough joy between friends to carry the pain and hurt away. Just to share that hour among our loved ones.
I appreciate having you here to share my jewel with. Thank you.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
26 Sep 08
Dear angel....due to a myLot glitch which I queried in a discussion of my own....I was not alerted to either of these previous discussions.
It's hard for me to find the words of sorrow and comfort to offer you because this is one of the saddest things I've ever heard. In fact it is taking me back to the incredibly sad time when my nephew Gabrielle succumbed to S.I.D.S. - I remember the shock of seeing his little white coffin being carried in the arms of the mortician from the hearse to the church for his Requiem mass.
I hope as time passes your pain will ease...it does you know. Life is full of many sadnesses and tragedies but these times draw us closer together and make us stronger. Bless you and your family.
@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
11 Aug 09
I'm so very sorry for the loss (((((((((((((((((((Angel))))))))))))). I haven't been here in quite a while and came to your profile to give me some clue why you haven't been here either and found this. So beautiful!
@mummymo (23706)
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14 Sep 08
Angel my darling my heart breaks for you and my prayers for you and your family are as always said in sincere love and sympathy! I so wish I could be there and just put my arms around you and weep with you! I am here for you ALWAYS and I do so hope that I can talk to you soon! Skie Renee was perfect and so beautiful and I am sure will always be a very special part of your heart and soul! Hugs my darling Angel xxxxx
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@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
15 Sep 08
It was so wonderful to talk to you tonight!
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@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
16 Sep 08
Oh Angel....My heart aches for you.....Skie was very beautiful....It is never easy to know what to say when this happens....Just know that you are in my prayers and Skies mommy and daddy are too! Hugs to all of you...xo
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@madasp (563)
• United States
25 Sep 08
hard to respond to this one through the tears.
As a mother and grandmother I can only imagine the pain you must be feeling. I'm sorry I can't come up with anything more, but I'm sure there is nothing I could say can make this easier for you.
I am so so sorry and want you to know I'm thinking of you.
big hug.
@taface412 (3175)
• United States
26 Sep 08
I am so sorry that you and your family are going through this. I had a brother who would be three years older than me if he had lived past his first week of life on this Earth....but he has always been with me. I see him as my Guardian Angel and I know he looked out for me growing up as my other brothers had here on Earth.
It sounds odd to some people because I never actually saw him, or ever met him. But I know he is there. My mother still to this day keeps his urn with her at the house....when we were growing up and traveled he came with us. You are right about the bond between mother and child. My mother and father kept his memory alive through this and I know I appreciate that.
I wish your family the best through this tough time and your in my thoughts.
@shainastar (15)
• United States
15 Sep 08
I am so sorry.
I can hear the love you had for her in this post.
*hug*
@eaforeman6 (8979)
• United States
24 Sep 08
Hello angel, so very sorry to hear this. PRAYING FOR YOU ! Miss hearing from you and take care BIG HUG!