How Much More Love Can You Give To A Cheating Partner???

@Lejandro (1530)
United States
September 16, 2008 12:16pm CST
If someone cheats on you and you have forgiven, will everything be just thesame for you as if it nothing happened? Would you be not too trusting with your spouse anymore? How well do you/can you cope up with a cheating partner? I have cheated (and regreted..) my wife once but it had been years. Up to now, I could sometimes feel she's snooping on my activites. I don't mind it at all but I just thought she wasn't like that before it happened. But I'm happy 'coz I know she loves me just thesame. Thanks and happy mylotting!!!
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5 responses
16 Sep 08
I've been on both sides of this discussion. My reason for cheating was because I was unhappy. Trust is hard to get back. Some times a cheater will always cheat and some just make a bad choice. Those who keep cheating their partners most likely know but just have blinders on.
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@Lejandro (1530)
• United States
16 Sep 08
Ateast you had a rational reason. Mine was just pure lust and being caught in the moment. Thanks and happy mylotting!!!
@sabbatha (287)
• United States
16 Sep 08
Honestly for me it depends on the partener and why they cheated. Some of my former relationships I probably could have learned to trust again and would have gone to counsling to try to help us connect again. If it was my spouse right now though, I don't think I could forgive at all. He came into this relationship very jelouse and convinced I was going to cheat on him, because his 1st wife did. Luckily he has let up and trusts me. But he is also extrememly critical of others who cheat, won't watch movies that involve cheating, ect... Man or woman, he thinks badly of anyone who cheats, so if he ended up doing it I just don't think I could forgive him. Not after putting up with years of this jelousey and beliefs. Though first I would probably laugh in his face for acting so high and mighty all these years and then falling off his high horse to have an affair. lol
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@Lejandro (1530)
• United States
16 Sep 08
Before, I was a bit possesive and I sometimes have thoughts of my wife cheating on me but later on it just went away as I have realised that I can really trust her. Good for you for understanding his past. It is really painful to be cheated upon. Thanks!!!
@Erssyl (617)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
Maybe it depends upon a cheating partner.If he cheats you more than twice it's another story.How can you trust someone if he repeats committing the same mistake.But in my case my husband did commit once and it took 25 years before I forgot.But we did live happy up to now we are 33 years married.
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@scorpio19 (1363)
16 Sep 08
I have a zero tolerance for cheating in a relationship and I know I would end it.
• India
16 Sep 08
i never ever give a second chance 2 a cheating partner...!!
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