HELPLESS!!!!!!!!.....Nothing works........why??????????????????

HI DD We all have our problems, only thing is that mine is greater than yours. This is so true! Trust me we all go through problems, sometimes predicted, sometimes out of the way, sometimes strange and sometimes when you no clue. Life is a mystery and we would not find any answer (unless the scientists do with theirBig Bang upshot...). I think what makes us different is in the way we withstand the hurdles. I have into lot of problems and upsetting times. I did not know how to be happy. But see, here I am responding to yours. No one is indispensable and nothing is eternal. Difficulties come and go and we get to realise our worth. So, just chill, try to let go and fight it out. We have to use our strength, poise and brains or else they would go ashtray! Smiles....

Hi friend,Past 2 years am working hard to achieve ,but am not able to reach that aim.whatever I do everything results in failure.I wonder how is it even when we work hard somuch we are not able to attain.but am not able to change my way also to attain that goal.so becoming frustrated and getting wild.Am also in the same situation.lets wait and see,when god is going to help us.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.

Yes I too have gone through this phase in my life.In fact every body goes through this rut.But only a few like me and you accept it without any ego.And I know this is all a passing phase.Hope and good news usually comes from out of the blue from a new contact when our turn comes in the fortune wheel.It is a matte of time before the gaze of the God falls on us.This is my personal experience.Your day will come and you are going to remember me on that day.

apsara oh yes right now, my son,our soul breadwinner is out of work, we have a three day notice, bills,no income and I as 82 yr old am handicapped and cannot work. so yes I feel very helpless and angry and upset as well God seems not to hear my prayers yet I do believe.

even though i felt helpless i think god will help me. don't be angry. its bad to health/ lol.. just make your mind that you are doing a good work and at any cost you are going to achieve it. never give up if you are doing a good job. this is my principal. i won't sleep also till i achieve it. dudes cheers up.

be happy,everyday people fail at things. , but we are all the best at somethinig and that is being ourselves, the things that make us unique. dont be so hard on yourselve and try and enjoy life. later

yes, I have felt helpless and I do indulge in self-pity sometimes. But I do not give up (unless I really make up my mind that the particular thing is something beyond me). In fact, sometimes, it makes me more stubborn and I try harder to achieve what I want. My father has always taught me that the trying is more important than the gain or the win. And he always said that if one didn't fail, one would never know the sweet taste of success. And I believe that. There are so many things in my life that I am still trying for....even if it takes me years...I will still work towards it because I know I can do it.

yes many many times in my life...im having problems financially reslly and also taking care of my three small kids...if do not ever want help from my family i will never have to come to them and help me but for now i am just helpless...and when im really hurt i cry inside the bathroom...this is happening very much often lately.

I believe in the dictum -"Either change the circumstances, or adopt to the circumstances". If I cannot change the circumstances, I better try to adjust to those cirumstances. Many a times I also feel helplessness in me, when I do not find things going my way, I try to reason out myself and try my best to find some solutions to the problems. If I cannot break the ice, I better make myself understand and come to terms with the realities. Life has to be on the move even if we feel helplessness.

You are helpless if you are in a situation that you can't do anything at all to help. That doesn't mean you are useless, it just that in that particular situation, you can't do anything to help. Yes it is frustrating for me or for anyone. But I think life is difficult for some people because they chose a difficult life. And instead of doing something to get out of that situation, they are either wasting their time dwelling on their "messed-up" situation or too scared to take the risk of making changes in their life (staying in their comfort zone). Almost in any situation, the World Wide Web is there to help us. Whether we admit it or not, solutions to our problems may be available online :D

Hi Apsara Thanks God it never happened to Me Akllah is really kind to us and blessed us with every thing, Well, u should never give up and keep on working and work with determination and u never know whats lying for u in Next future so why loose hope Loosing hope mean loosing Faith in Allah. and u know its never Acceptable as Allah is always there to help us So dont be angry, dont be frustrated and think why u r not successful with cool mind and work hard with determination and with Faith in Allah God Bless U

Yes I do feel frustrated and helpless at times..almost feel like giving up. But then I look around and see that there are others who are suffering more and that makes me feel that I am much better off than them. Ofcourse there are times when I do feel helpless and then I just get angry or sometimes cry.....

This is what we called life. Of course we have ups and downs in life. Keep on trying and don't ever give up,maybe these are all the challenges which god gives you. You can see the failure as a chance to learn,you would be feel better in this way. Good luck.

hi apsara 14 years (1993 ~ 2007) lost just like a dream, my whole youth gone ... Now I dont even remember what it was like ... The one mistake i did was to fall in love .... although i love him dearest and he is now my husband .. for those 14 years i suffered, begging him to marry me i was so stupid i just did not want to give up easily i wanted to win the challenge.. He did so many things for his family said no to me.. my parents were hurt along the way .. i fought with my brothers and sisters , my friends called me stupid and ask me to leave him ... he was enjoying life with this friends, drinking. Suddenly there was a period of him becoming so devoted to god ... so much money he lost in investing (listening to so call friends) ... THE MAN HAD ONLY HIM ON HIS MIND AND I WAS STUPID TO WAIT FOR HIM .... Yes !! finally i won but i lost my youth and i will never get it back ... I do not want to think of anything bad ... Today he is my husband, changed person at his own will .. fought agaist his family after 14 years, we were married last year .. we had 3 grand wedding dinners inclusive a hotel dinner, my home and his home Well, my religion helped me ... as it was my KARMA and i have to go through it ... and he was my soul mate .. Now i dont even remember the small details of those years

Sometimes, yes, I do feel helpless and I feel like a failure, but I always get back on my feet. We can be pushed down several times, we can fail over and over again, but if we get back on our feet and do what we need to do, then we can get somewhere. Everyone has failures in life, but it is what we learn from those failures that makes us stronger human beings.

I always did, life is unfair. I don't want to be negative here, actually i posted before a topic about my life and even want to end my life because life is full boredom. Maybe we do take things uneasy, or we are very sensitive? I don't know what to do too, I hate life. I almost think life is full of 99% problem and 1% happiness. I wish someone can enlighten us. Presently, there are still many problems ahead of me and I am still hurt, but I still live to the fullest and do what I can do to improve my life, I am still hopeful but still have thoughts that life is unfair.

I feel that way to. But please don't beat yourself up about it. Try to look on the bright side. I feel talking helps. Do you have any trusted friends or family members? You did not mention what your frustrated about. Could it be work? Friends? Boyfriend? Hang in there.

Yes,and for some unknown reason i always find a way to snap out of it.As long as you are breathing i don't think most of us give up and are still trying to make sense of what life brings to the table...I believe in the boy's and girl's scout motto "be prepared" that all anyone can do about this life we dwell in.

Yeah i hate when you really want something or really try for something and still don't get it, or circumstances shange making goals out of reach. I have felt failure i hate it. I suppose i keep trying, not always at that goal. I dont lose my determination, just feel embarrassed and dissapointed.

Just give up who cares