are able to sleep comfortably if you've had a fight with your loved one's????

India
September 18, 2008 6:12am CST
hey guys .....be open on this and especially honest!!!! are you able to sleep comfortably in the night if you've had a fight with your loved one's(family,friends,relatives,lover etc.) if not what all is going in your mind at that point of time??? well for me , i m not able to sleep comfortably if i had any fights with my loved one's till the time its resolved !!!!!!!! what about you????? !!!!
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9 responses
• United States
18 Sep 08
I don't really have too many disagreements with my loved ones, but if I do have something on my mind that is bothering me, I must tell them and not leave it to get worse in my head over time. It is not likely that I will ever go to sleep with a problem in my head, for the fact that I would probably not be able to sleep that night, it's happened before, and let me tell you, I was miserable the next day, and very tired! That's not very fun when you have work and school. Happy mylot, and have a great day/night.
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• India
18 Sep 08
thank you for sharing your views !!!!!!!!
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
18 Sep 08
I don't think I will have a good sleep if I'm angry or upset! My husband and I are always trying to resolve the argument before we go to bed! Thankfully it is working for us and this is one of the good thing in our relationship that we will never go to bed upset or angry to each other.
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@MinruWind (194)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I usually can't sleep at all after a fight. I lay in bed, regetting all the mistakes I made, and I wonder how the other person is feeling. I often feel guilty, then I usually call the person to resolve the problem before I make myself go to sleep.
@ibiswas (422)
• India
22 Sep 08
Yeah, it is the same for me as well... If i have a fight or an argument with my loved one's i immediately get restless and can't find peace in anything that i do, be it work or sleep or even watching TV. It takes sometime for us to realise our mistake and value the time that we wasted fighting... we both apologise and then we get back to normal... I suddenly feel very low after the fight and my mind starts thinking negative and that is the reason i get very restless...
@aize003 (225)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
no, i don't feel good every time we had an arguments i make it sure that we resolved our problems before we sleep..its not healthy if we stay mad until the next morning
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@nlcapricorn (1114)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
I cant sleep then immediately. I am a person that sometimes i want that he will be the one to say sorry first if he never did then we will just sleep. I cant sleep immediately i always turn around again and again in the bed..Even him too never sleep immediately.. But in the morning if we wake up he will say sorry and then were okay again.
@yenwie84 (1344)
• Malaysia
18 Sep 08
I think I will react like you if I have a fight with my loved ones. It's really hard to get into sleep if I have argument or quarrel with my family members or my boyfriend. I would feel very miserable and uncomfortable. I would be very upset too if the war is still not resolved yet. I always want to find peace in wars. I don't like to drag the misunderstandings to the next day.
@joy4you (641)
• India
18 Sep 08
I am never able to sleep if I have had a fight with my loved one, does not matter whose fault it is. Leave alone sleep, I can not seem to get anything done after the fight until I see a smile on her face. Such is my love. Happy myloting.
@srikool (936)
• India
18 Sep 08
The same thing happening here..i too cant sleep comfortably in the night times when i have had the fight..that time i will think all the mistakes are mine..that time i will be ready to ask sorry..i will feel bad about that fight.