What will you do if your friend betrays you?
@abdulhaseeb86 (145)
Pakistan
6 responses
@viduviduvidu (293)
• United States
18 Sep 08
I will forgive his/her betrayal and interact with them again. After all, its human nature to err. And for someone who says the Lord's prayer "forgive us ours sins as we forgive those who sin against us..." I think this is the best thing to do :)
@dreemsofdark (714)
• United States
18 Sep 08
YES YES a thousand times yes! How could we be so cruel to not forgive people when we were forgiven for not even apologizing and being nowhere NEAR deserving of it but God loves us SO much that he did it anyways!
@celticeagle (166762)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Sep 08
Friendship is very important to me. If I am betrayed it would crush me. Now, this is if it is with a true friend, not just an aquaintance. I would be angry, hurt and I would hate them for a time. Then I would be numb to and kick them to the curb. All communication would be cut off. I am good friend. I expect the same and if that is compromised then all is lost.
@aryajayaprakash (1643)
• Japan
18 Sep 08
I think we can sense whether they have done it purposely or inadvertently. If it is purposely, for me that will be the end of relation. I never keep such friendship. If it is by mistake or not directly because of him, I will tell hm/her about how I got hurt due to his behavior. Normally, we have should not practice hatred inside the mind as it will spoil ourseleves only.
@dreemsofdark (714)
• United States
18 Sep 08
If a friend betrays me, I will tell them that I feel like they betrayed me, and if they don't apologize, I won't hang out with them anymore. But if they apologize I will forgive them and it will be as if nothing happened at all. Why bother holding grudges or resorting to violence and anger? Just take care of it like a responsible adult who loves their friends!
@jenserion (45)
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19 Sep 08
i will tell him/her that i hate was she/he has done to me.I will shout to him. I will be mad at him.I think that will be the first thing that i will done because i was hurt.but when i feel okay, i think i will talk to him.and see if we could fixed thing,and aplologize to him if i became mean.Because i think the reaction is normal because i was hurt.
@mkrijos (80)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
When my friend betrays me, silence and disappearing act, as if not happen. When cross path it should be a long ago, that i dont even know he betrays me. If this is not effective , and its bugging me so much, i confront her by her action, to clear things up or if it was made intentionally or accidentally, i just wanted to know the her motives of betraying me. I love my friend, if i can treasure all the goodness in my hands to one blow of dismay, i still treasure those goodness not remembering on lucky day of misfortune with her. We talk. If the pleasure of betrayal is for my own good , to protect me, its how i understand the betrayal could count, if it was taken in positive outlook. But if the betrayal will totally destroy my family, it will be a long way for a confrontation, or a long way to court or a long way away from her.Time will heal wounds, hope it doesn't be a heart breaking betrayal. I will still weight what i understand with her betrayal. Remember once we are friend, its too hard to forget the goodness and share moments to a true friend, to waste such an ugly situation.