A "best friend" that back stabbs you... is not a friend!

a best friend back stabbing you?..and you called that a friend?.. whooo...back stabbers are do not deserves to be labeled as friends..definitely not..i hate them!

Oh, yes I have a story. I was in a relationship with a business man. He spent so much time on his growing business that our relationship went down the tube. My good friend at that time had listened patiently to my woes for several months. Then after the break up I found she was harder and harder to get on the phone and when I did she seemed to always have some excuse to have to get off the phone soon after we got to talking about my ex boyfriend. I soon began to hear whispers in the background and soon found out she was seeing my boyfriend. So much for the busy businessman!

Well, that is pretty sneaky, and I would not want to have anything to do with someone like this. I had a girl that I thought was my friend stay over and sleep with my boyfriend one time when I was out of town for a week. When I came back he announced he was moving out which I thought was no problem. After he moved out, I was over at his place one night and she was there, and then announced she was moving in with him, and had been sleeping with him a lot since the week I went out of town. I was super upset, and even ended up breaking one of my fingers because I got so upset and tried to punch her. Unfortunately, I got kicked out of the place, and was told to never come back but I feel that was for the best. I ended up having a miscarriage from this guy about a month after this, and then moved away and have never talked to either of them since even though I seen her one time when I was there visiting some other friends with a baby that looked like him, and she avoided me when she seen me, which was fine with me. Personally, I feel that when people do this, they usually think nothing of it, and usually need to grow up some and think of others feelings as well. They also need to remember and think what if it was me, or it could come back to bite them sometime as well.

Yes, such friends are not true. And a boyfriend who believes the rubbish that others say about you is not a good/trustworthy boyfriend. I would stay away from such people.

No stories, just questions for you. Sorry, but i don't think spin the bottle is a valid reason, it's really just an innocent party game (Unless of course they were really going at it, then by all means hate their very soul). I'm guessing that you were a teenage during this time and I can quite positively say that relationships are the most fickle things during that time, friendships aren't. You shouldn't have (This happened in the past, right?) let some influx of hormones in conjunction with a kissing game put seeds of doubt in your mind. Honestly, did you expect any other outcome with spin the bottle? How might he have felt if you landed on some other boy, especially if it was a friend of his?