What is worst thing your spouse will do to make you file a divorce?

He would have to kill someone basically. Cheating I could handle because when we were just dating I cheated on him. So it would be slightly hypocritical of me to leave him if he cheated when he stuck by me when I was doing it to him. But if he killed someone then the divorce lawyers and papers would kick in. However, if he killed someone in self defense then I could understand, in a way. But yeah, killing someone. lol

First I must confess that I am not married. I never thought that I could be happy and married at the same time. But if I were to be married the first time he hit me I would either leave or kill him. Those are the only two choices.

If they cheat on me, if they gave me an deadly disease and if they tried to kill me... These are all grounds for an divorce!

Actually for me, it's more like I may love him, but sometimes it's not enough. We are going through a rough time with money and he has a large debt of past child support. Most of our marriage I've been the primary one bringing money into the house. My husband really hasn't had a full time job hardly the whole time we've been together. He is trying to get into the navy right now and only has a few more pounds to go weight wise, and if he messes this up by not losing it then it might be the end of our marriage. Or at least seperation, until he can get his head out of his booty and get a job he can be proud of. I know he's not happy with me bringing in all the money, but I think he's gotten comfortable with it anyway, and is scared of change. Cheating I could take, but this may push me too far if he doesn't get his act together.

I'm not married but if I were I would have to say infidelity but also if he started to get disrespectful to me or violent. Those are things that I wouldn't tolerate because if you really love someone you wouldn't do that to them. I think infidelity is unforgivable because trust is important in marriage and if I can't trust him then it'll cause a strain on the marriage. It would also effect my trust in him if he makes a promise to me about something and then goes behind my back and breaks it. Another thing that I wouldn't want to deal with is someone that is controlling and jealous. I believe if I don't give you any reason to be that way towards me then those things shouldn't be there. There are many other things that can break a marriage up, probably including some things that people wouldn't expect.

hi- i think not helping financially would hurt.but i think the thing that would really cause me to divorce would be if my husband would ever abuse my children or hurt them.some times i think neglect is a nother form of abuse .this is some thing i would never ever stand for.so yea that has to be the worse and never hit your husband or wife this is a big big no no if you do not believe me ask the police.

Really what you said is what I think to. Cheating, abuse, becoming a smoker, things like that are DEFINITELY followed by divorce in my mind. I would say there are certain things that are just unforgiveable - even though a lot of people forgive everything their spouse does. I can live with him not doing dishes all the time, or with a little disagreement here and there, but if he were to do the three things above he is out the door! Luckily I trust my husband would never do anything to make me want to divorce him. He may irritate me over the years or cause me to need a vacation :) But I know he won't do anything to ruin the overall good in our marriage. You gotta marry someone you trust.

for me, the worst thing will be for him to stop loving me. i guess i'm a silly romantic afterall. if he still loves me, he won't do anything to hurt me. however, if he find it in him to hurt me, he has stopped loving me. why would i want to stay in a relationship with a man who doesn't love me anymore? if he loves me, he'll always put my interest in the first place. things like cheating and abandonment can only be done by someone who has stopped loving their partner. cheers ;p

Infidelity or betrayal of trust would definitely be a majore reason for me to file for legal separation. I can never live with a man who also cohabits with another woman. I can endure all and everything, but not this transgression. To me it indicates that he no longer loves me, so what better reason for separation that the couple falling out of love. Unless, there are other mitigating circumstances that could make me forgive him. As they say, you can never predict what your reaction would be unless you are there in that actual situation. All the best.

I am still single, but I have heard most married man says the respect and love they once have for each other when they marry will only vanish if one of the partner is being selfish. An example is when the wife show disrespectful attitude to his husband by manipulating or dominating him. And blackmailing him to do what she want.