if you are dating someone how long would you wait befor asking them to marry you
By eddie42
@eddie42 (270)
United States
September 22, 2008 10:57pm CST
do i want 6 months a year to ask her to marry me are i should i wait longer and get to know her first. why wait i love her.
5 responses
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
25 Sep 08
well I would have to say no to the first question, but yes we did get married. We are still together after almost 8 years, so I guess it is all working out LOL
@isshie (71)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
That is a very good question.....
Well, I'm not really in the position to answer that. But for discussion purpose I would have to say it kind of depends on where you are in life. For a lot of women age is also a factor because of our biological clock. Unless, she doesn't want kids. And in our time now I feel as if its better if you get to have time to enjoy being married first and not rushing into having kids.
I think when you're both at an age and you both feel the same way and if you feel that the person you're with is the person you want to wake up to everyday. Then months or years won't really be the deciding factor.
@ProudMommy22 (705)
• United States
23 Sep 08
If you love her then you can wait....Just depends on the person really. But in my opinion i think waiting to actually getting to know the person better and understanding the person better is the best way to go. Everyone has flaws some flaws people cant get over even if they actually do love the person but i guess it just depends on the person really. But do what you think is right for you and i suppose if you think marrying her right now is the best thing then hey go for it knock yourself out with it.
@rahul28rjn (54)
• India
23 Sep 08
i think firstly u should become her best frnd and then search that is she loves u or like u if she is then u can propose her dont take more then 1 yr to do this. if u take more time she goes away..
@viduviduvidu (293)
• United States
23 Sep 08
It would be ideal to wait till he/she has similar thoughts. It is very important for us to know the feelings of the other person. So it takes a while to propose marriage.
