How many pending friends requests? How many do you have to approve still?

@Amagnimo (635)
India
September 23, 2008 9:06am CST
I guess for some people adding new friends has become a ritual... I am like mad at adding new friends, and when I just saw the Pending Friends Tab, I was shocked to see more then 7 pages of Pending Friends! WOW! Lol... And For some people with so very high popularity, they might be receiving new friend requests every day ... so many new ones, that it might have been tiring to add (it seems fictional, but I can't stop thinking this fictional thing!!). Do you have any to approve? I don't have any to approve, since I hardly get one or two within a few days, Its always me who is adding lots of people!?!!
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
23 Sep 08
I have 2 people in my pending friends, I don't know why they never accept my request, and in my requests there are 3 people that I didn't either accept or deny, as to deny them it would seem rude but to accept them... well. I have a bad experience regarding adding newbies with less than 200 posts, they sent spams on my inbox and that really annoying. So I didn't approve them and let them wait until I can prove them not spammers LOL.
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
23 Sep 08
Well, did you not add me with less then 200 posts? lol... Well, are the newbies still improving their count? huh? Thanks for the honest response :)
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
24 Sep 08
LOL. I added you long before I made that new commitment, because I just got those spams lately and I have known you before those spams came. That was all because of the traumatic experiences that made me really pissed off. I am here to make money but I do it with my best shot not to annoy people, but then someone else spams me with their reflinks hoping that I would be thankful that they have shown me a good place? LOL... Nemo, don't worry, I know that you are not someone like that, seeing your responses and comments, you are just too good to be a spammer
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@austere (2812)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
i have approved them all..hehehe no one's pending in friend request tab..hehehe i have approved 5 friends last night..hehe happy happy happy!! the more we get together, the happier are we!!hehe dont you think?:)
@Amagnimo (635)
• India
25 Sep 08
Yeah, ofcourse. It even helps in getting more responses. Am I being shrewd? lol... Well, great that you just approved 5 friends request! They all 5 are happy people, ya know?!! Lol Happy Mylotting Nemo
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
hahaha.. i mean that is absolutely right..having a lot of friends makes you feel welcome in this community and not to mention, they also help in responding to the discussions you have started..hahaha it's being smart.. hahaha
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
I just approved 8 people today, and I always approve friend request everyday., I too sometimes add people here in mylot, especially if they came from the same country as mine. and I am always so happy if ever I will have a friend request to confirm.
@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well, was I one of those whom you confirmed today? Thanks. Even I check if I have any to confirm, but hardly find any within a few days... but when I do, I am a very happy person indeed... lol
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• Philippines
24 Sep 08
well, thank you for adding me up, and stay happy.
@lexus54 (3572)
• Singapore
24 Sep 08
I do not have any pending friends' requests awaiting approval from me. I have not rejected anyone who requests to be my friend, and usually I will try and approve within two days at most. I have sent out a couple of friends' requests to others in the past year, and only one remains to be approved. It's probably a forgotten case because this request had been outstanding for more than one year already. Maybe by the time it gets approved, I might have grown a beard already and have a whole head of white hair...LOL.
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
25 Sep 08
LOL... well, don't worry, it will still be a black beard - not a white one... you see, beards are atleast 18 years younger to your white hair! LOL... you can still add a few more to let the list grow, can't you? lol. Happy mylotting and have a nice time! Nemo
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
I don't have any to approve as I always accept friend requests the first time I see them in my friends page. But I also have a lot of pending friends requests I have sent to others. I don't know why. Maybe they are not that active or maybe they don't want it. Have a nice day!
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well, the earliest one that I have is 3 weeks ago.. I don't think I really would delete the older ones, let them come anytime and accept... or just leave it that way.. I hardly ever see the pending. But when I think of it, I think "If all will accept in one single day, my friend list would soar high...it will be such a nice thing to see!" lol.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
I am also thinking like that. If all the pending friend requests I have sent will be accepted, I will have 50 or more new friends. I barely look at them also.
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• India
25 Sep 08
After logging into mylot and checkin responses on my own discussions and checking the earnings the first thing i do is to check whether i have a friend request pending. If i do i immediately accept it without hesitating and without even checking the persons profile.
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
27 Sep 08
Good thinking...good that you are giving responses a more higher priority! THey are indeed the most important thing on mylot! And even for your earnings!
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
24 Sep 08
to be honest with you, i never request to be a friend with anybody from here... but i receive lots of requests everyday... at the moment, i have 11 in my list which i still ignore and don't plan to add them yet as i already have too much friends in my friend's list... take care and have a nice day...
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
25 Sep 08
Well, I don't see any reason as to why you shoulnd't have many friends. However its choice... I see that I am in the list of those 11 pending ones. Wondering when you will be adding me . Anyways, enjoy and hava a nice time... Hapy Mylotting! Nemo
@marababe (2503)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
My pending friend requests upped from 3 to 9 today. I keep them pending cos I see they have less than a 100 posts and they're new here. I don't want to flood my friends' list with friends that doesn't stay active here. Aside from the 9 that I keep "on hold", I have accepted around 5 requests already. I think I'll accept or deny them once they reach a hundred by the end of this month cos they've been on hold for almost a month already and usually I only keep them for 1-2 weeks. Oh, also I accept friend requests even if they have less than a hundred if they check their profile every once in a while and/or if I've seen them in at least one of my discussions. Am I too high-maintenance? I'm not, I just want to make my friends' list, really a FRIENDS' list and not just to show that I have a large number of people in it. I try to build a "relationship" with every one who answers or comments on my discussions or profile page.
@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well, thank you for the response... Well, not high- but good-maintenance! lol. Keep lotting...And keep building real FRIENDS list!
@rup011 (725)
• Germany
23 Sep 08
I usually accept all the friend requests I get. Only if they have added some poro images, I reject them. I am very particular about that. I do not send friend requests often. I am satisfied with the number of friends I have. But when I find some one with similar interests and view like me, I send a friend request to them. But till now I must have added only two or three of them. Others I have accepted. Yah I know some people do not like adding new friends or are a bit choosy so you are having so many pending friend requests. They may accept you after a few days.
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well, its good that you can be so careful about adding new people, but then, you must know that to be a successful mylotter, you have to be great in interacting with people. Its no harm to add new friends which are not of your own interest, because to make your discussions successful, I have observed, that you need a lot of friends - because the more you add, the more will people be notified about your started intereseting discussions. Well, it was just a suggestion. Hope you have a blast at mylot. Good luck Nemo
@mimico (3617)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
I don't have any pending friend requests. I log in to mylot everyday so I accept requests within the day or after 24 hours at most. I just don't like seeing something pending on my toolbar (or whatever you call it).I don't make a lot of requests myself though. I keep forgetting to! Haha! But I noticed that I make more friend requests to those who comment or respond to my discussions. :)
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well...that's but natural - to add friends who reply to our discussions...! lol.. Even I don't feel like keeping people wait! And even the navigation bar (we call it that, not tool bar ) looks ugly with a number beside the friends tab and even the message tab, so I clear it off! lol
• India
24 Sep 08
I Have 21 Members in my request i think they are not Opening there mylot account they not me or they think that i'm ugly so they not add me as a friend its i don't mine because i'm really look ugly that i don't feel any sad if they not add me also.
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
28 Sep 08
You know what? When I don't open your page and look right in the profile pic in the discussions, I find you lookin like Sreesanth the Indian bowler... you should not worry about your looks... do be practical, there's nothing that relates adding friend with the looks of yours... there are stupid idiot looking people who are really good at heart and have more then 300 friends... take me for example!! Hey, don't feel down!
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
24 Sep 08
Hi Amagnimo, I guess you're still fairly new at mylot so you will be adding friends for a long time. I have been here for only 4 months and I have 12 pages of friends. I have been getting alot of friend requests lately and they are from very new members and I am always glad to help them because when I first came to mylot people where very helpful to me. I have made some wonderful friends here on the lot and enjoy speaking to them and answering their discussions everyday! Just keep doing what you're doing and new friends will come!
@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well, I must tell that you guessed right. My mylot age is 2 years, but real age on here - as far as I know is 6+6+21 days that is just a month. So, I guess yeah, what you say is true. I do have almost so many pages of friends, well, lil' less but then, now, due to my ritual of adding friends daily, I do have many friends, thanks!
@Anchopy (1453)
• Paraguay
24 Sep 08
Hi there, I don't have any friends request by now.. I log in every day and I regularly accept all pending friends request.. Is good to have a lot friends here at mylot.. right now I will add you as my friend, so I hope that you accept me soon and star to answer each other discussions..
@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well thank you very much! Hope you enjoy my discussion and of course, Happy Mylotting!
• United States
24 Sep 08
I am new so I guess no, I dont know what it is like YET to have pending friend requests. Thank you for post.
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well, I wish you luck. But do remain active so that you can enjoy and know how it is to be on Mylot!
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
23 Sep 08
As on date i have 129 pending requests for friendship here at mylot. I dont think i would be actually aproving more than four out of them. Actually most of them seem to have logged a friends request the moment they joined here and later they became inactive as this is evident from the activity conducted by them. I wont be giving approval to such requests.
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well, quite strict... I don't think there's any problem in adding them. If they are inactive its not a problem... If they login later and find you to be their only friend, surely they will be happy, won't they? Anywyas, good luck! Happy Mylotting
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
24 Sep 08
I had 7 pages on my pending friend requests list, but just recently cleaned it out a bit as most of these people I had requested haven't logged in for several months or more. I am now down to 2 pages. As soon as I see that someone requested my friendship on here I accept them immediately. I do not let it linger. So as you can guess, I do not have any to approve at the moment.
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@luvstochat (6907)
• United States
23 Sep 08
I have 48 pending requests right now. I have not been very good at looking at the request I used to accept everyone but not anymore since I got spammed with so many join this or that site pm's I am careful about who I accept as a friend now. I should get to looking at them.
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well, good luck and keep adding good friends, I hope you will not turn me off...lOl. Well, I am on no other site then mylot, so, rest assured, and accept me in ur friend list! Good luck and happy mylotting.
• Singapore
23 Sep 08
Why do you people start such discussions? Now I have to go and check mine! Okay here's the verdict. I have none to approve. I normally approve them on a daily basis. But I have 20 pending friend requests! Some of them does not seem to be active anymore and I have deleted the ones which are more than 6 months old, as of just now. So I'm left with about 17 pending friend requests. I think I should delete them from time to time. If they are still active, maybe they have problems adding me. So why bother?
@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well... we start so that you be punctual in the rituals of mylot! Great to hear about the update! lol...Keepp Mylotting! Nemo
• United States
25 Sep 08
i stay on top of mine and usually approve them as soon as i get them unless im offline for a few days
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@mymelodake (1338)
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
well, i have 2 pending friend requests that have not yet been approved by the users. thanks for the friend request by the way! i think i should add more people as friends more often... i think i've been doing it too little, haha and i was sad about how i only have a few mylot friends.
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@Amagnimo (635)
• India
24 Sep 08
Well, don't worry, keep adding people, soon they will accept you! Don't worry for a short list, I made it from few tens to more than two hundred in 20 days! Just 20 days! Don't worry - just go on friend adding ritual. Hope you have a blast! Good luck... by the way, great to see that a lower user rating person has a high reputation star! Happy Mylotting!