Would you consider getting married again?

I respect and admire your determination! Even though you are not married you seems to have understood the reality of getting married. I am sure you would not want even to re-consider about re-marrying and I believe you will get married once forever. I wish you for that. I am with you and I am already married and never thinking of divorcing or remarrying. I have got a wondeful wife and I love her so much. With our daughter I wish, and I will live with her forever! Thanks for the great posting!

Well it's true that marriage is not like those in fairytale stories that end as "they lived happily ever after" endings. Majority of those who are married knows that and you should be aware of that too. But that should not be the reason behind why you should be afraid to be married. For me Marriage is a chapter that every single person should experience once or twice in their lifetime. Think of it as a chance for you to form your own family and be happy with it. Failing in one may be painful but it should not stop there if in any case there is another who comes along your way. give chance for yourself if you think you will be happy with it then go for it. Anyway it is for your own good but if you think otherwise then stay with your statement.

I was married for almost 22 years before my divorce became final. And no, I won't ever marry again. I am in a relationship that has lasted 8 years now, but I have no wish to make it legal. You see divorce is hard enough, but some take months even years to get thru. I know mine took almost two years, several court battles that ended in a 3 day court session, and cost me over $26,000.00 in attorney fees. With that type of an experience why would I ever want to risk repeating it? LOL My son is currently going thru a divorce that has lasted 6 months already and they are fighting over money, the house and the kids. Even at the age of 27 he agrees with me. He says he doesn't want to marry again either. Apparently my ex husband feels the same way too. He has been in his relationship for ten years now yet refuses to marry her!

I'm married with 2 kids. I have a lot of quarrels with my wife. My wife is basically a domineering person. I do give in sometimes. And sometimes i'm assertive to make my point. The quarrels leave us not talking to each other for a day or two. After that we will be ok and then the quarrel starts again. We quarrel for terribly insignificant things and also for important stuff affecting us. But at the end of the day, we are together. Every quarrel leaves me with some knowledge about my wife's character, her perspectives of issues and stuff like that. And sometimes after a quarrel, i will wonder if i had married the right person. My mind would then start wondering on the "what if's" thing like what if i had married A or what if i had married B, and would my life had been better? I guess i will never know. But one thing i know is that, who ever we marry, there will always be challenges in a marriage. It all depends on how we handle the issues at hand and the situations that develop. And also how much we are willing to give in. Sometimes giving in to an argument or a situation helps to mellow your partner and makes it possible for him or her to see your perspective of things. For folks who have found that their second marriage has turned out much better and that the partner they have found is the best, i believe that it's their first marriage that has subconciously taught them what to expect in a marriage and the reality of living with another person. As for the question if i would get married again, the answer is an obvious no. No matter how many quarrels we have, deep down we love each other so much. If she is not around anymore, I will live to my last breath with her memories. That is my way of showing respect and love for her.

Well i guess it depends. Alot of times people must have a companion in their lives, and i think if they really need to get married, then they absolutely should get married. For an example, a newly married young couple and one of them perishes, they cant stay alone and unmarried for the remainder of their lives. I think if a person needs to he definitely should get married again. If the couple is maybe older and have been through alot then maybe they shouldnt remarry and keep their compainionship together. In a matter of fact, they probably wont even want to get married. It always depends on the person. IT will never be unethical for a person to remarry again if they feel they need to. So if someone feels the need to remarry go ahead and remarry.

No Never Idont have much more guts to die again n again

I would have preferred only to be married once, because I think that marriage should be for life. However, my first marriage did not work out and I remarried. I certainly never want to marry again and I'm prepared to work really hard to make sure my marriage lasts.

One marriage is enough for me. I have no desire to have many marriages. Cheers!!

I have been married almost 11 years. We have been going through a lot of tough times and things seem to keep going downhill. I would never do it again. Things do change after you marry no matter what anyone says. I love my husband deeply, but at this time i am doubting his love and committment level to me. I will never go through this type of thing EVER again...therefore NEVER marry again either.

Although I'm not married yet, but if i'm married & the marriage doesn't last, i wont go for second try. So, i hope my marriage is a long lasting, forever one. :p

There was one short message passed on through the cell phones in China 2 years ago, Marriage is misplay, divorce means "come to oneself" and remarriage means bigoted. Sorry, I can't express the rhyme in English as the Chinese does. I am remarried and feel this message is some reasonable in a way.We must be careful to the first marriage because divorce costs a lot. Of course I would not consider getting married if divorced again.

It might be confusing for other people's but i have fixed in my mind that i will marry once....but if a situation comes that you have a baby then i will think about my baby and will take the decision. But marrige is not a game that once over then play with somebody else. It brings two souls together to live forever with happiness. If you are devoriced then it depends on your thinking about getting married again.

I can't image making love with anthor girl except my wife.

Probably people like me like fairytales with happy endings. Therefore, all we would think is that we will be forever happily married. But somehow, meeting the right guy is another thing. Guys could be so nice to you before marriage and after married they might be monsters! I am not saying that all guys do. But you will never know a person's true colours. i've also never been married before but deep down inside a girl's heart they want someone nice, loving and looks after you regardless of what. Marriage life is not easy also, there are so many things to take care of! You have to accommodate the person, be tolerant as nobody is perfect on thing world. There are also situations whereby fights always occurs, i guess there really must be one of you to be accommodating or probably the love is not there. Therefore, talking about getting married again depends on oneself, if you really love that person maybe you will start thinking of getting married. Giving yourself a 2nd chance might also be good as you live life onece

I gave marriage a second try, and a third try. Been divorced, this time, for 4 years now. Although I am living with a wonderful man, I don't think we'll ever do the marriage thing again. He has been through 3 divorces as well. We've been living together for 3 1/2 years now, and we never speak of getting married, which is fine by me.

I dont know if i would consider opening myself up to another person as much the second time around. I was in a relationship for 6 years that was pretty good all the way till it ended. I dont know if I would allow myself to become that close with someone else because of the hurt that I had to go through at the end of my last one. At the same time, if someone came around that completly swept me off my feet you never know what will happen.

No, I would not.. This marriage is enough for me..

I am divorced. I was separated for almost 8 years when my divorce finally went through. I thought I would never consider marriage again, but I've changed my mind. My boyfriend is the best man I've ever met and someday we will get married.

Hello apples99 Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, never again!!!! Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

I'm not sure. I am certain that I would be least likely to remarry if I was a widow, because it might be really hard for me to find a guy who is great as the last- I don't even know who I would marry in the first place, but I wouldn't settle for just anyone. I don't think I would get a divorce! I can't imagine marrying a man that would not stay with me! But I guess if we divorced, I would end up being lonely and bitter, but I guess I might try again. I don't know how it's going to go!