Should kids really have homework?
@1111appleblossoms (169)
Canada
September 24, 2008 10:35am CST
This really bothers me. As adults we always hear 'don't bring your work home with you', and 'when your at home it's family time' but our children who sit in classrooms for 6 hours a day come home and have homework. They're already tired from doing school work and from sitting at a desk. I think that when they're home from school they should be able to play and not have to study and answer more questions. I know there are benefits to having homework but I just think 6 hours at school a day is enough.
I don't mind helping with homework, I like knowing what they're learing about. I do have to say that some of their big projects like building a bridge that will hold 10 textbooks, or drawing a map of their city is geared a little more to adults.
What are your thoughts?
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
24 Sep 08
I absolutely agree with you. When the kids are younger and they have homework it is like torture to them. They ahve just spent the whole day in school only to come home and have to do more schoolwork! It is crazy.
then when they get older like in high school, many of the kids are involved in sports and work. They hardly have time to sleep once the get home from work and then get the homework done.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
24 Sep 08
I know what you mean about the torture. Very often kids don't see what it profits them (and often us parents don't see, either ... I sometimes wonder how 'professional' teachers really are! So, they are human, too, and their schedules say they have to set homework so they do!)
I have been a parent and a teacher (though, thankfully not one that had to set homework) and the husband of a teacher.
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
24 Sep 08
My daughters school had open house last night and she still had homework. Now that made no sense to me. We had to be at the school at 6:15 for a get acquainted dinner and then open house from 7-8. My daughter usually goes to bed at 8, so there was no down time for her.
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@1111appleblossoms (169)
• Canada
24 Sep 08
Mine come home and don't want to sit still, they want to go outside in fresh air and play, ride their bikes, etc. not do more schoolwork. They sometimes have after school activities or family things and just don't have the time to finish their homework so when they go to school they have to stay in at recess to complete it. Ours had an open house also and luckily there was no homework that night!
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@luckykat1280 (50)
• United States
24 Sep 08
I don't agree with homework either. Well at least not as much as they are getting. I remember when I was a kid I would have mabey a page a night. They come home with so much homework now that they are doing it for 3-4 hrs a night. It is insane I don't get to see my children much because of it. I think schools need to rethink their homework policies. Have a great day all!
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
24 Sep 08
It certainly depends on the age. If they are studying for exams or have a term paper then up to 3 hours is quite acceptable. Normally, half an hour a night at Primary age (7 - 8) building up to an hour and a half at 11 or 12 would be good. Some teachers, though, have a very poor perception of how long the homework they set actually takes. It's a matter to discuss between parents and the school.
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@1111appleblossoms (169)
• Canada
24 Sep 08
I can agree with a page a night but sometimes they come home with a ridiculous amount of homework, and they don't have time to burn off energy and get a little exercise because of it.
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@sid556 (30959)
• United States
25 Sep 08
I think 3 hours a nite is a bit much considering they get up early and start their "work day" at 7;45 am and do not arrive home due to bussing until 3pm. by the time they have a snack, eat dinner, figure out what they are wearing next day, shower...how much time is really left? If they are into sports or any other extra curricular...there is actually no time for much of anything...it's all slotted out. I missed so much time with my girls in growing up due to the pressures of school. Some nites I just would have loved to hang out and maybe watch a movie with them but I could not......there was dinner to fix and showers to be had and then homework. One of my girls was into sports and so I i had t o run back and forth...often we didn't eat until 9pm and still she had homework. Of course she grew to hate her sport..& why because it allowed her no time to be with friends.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
24 Sep 08
Yes! Learning is a full time job. Your kids don't stop learning when they come home and parents should be involved in their learning process (I think I actually learnt as much or more when my kids brought homework home than when I was at school!)
There is a world of difference between the kind of learning that kids do in class and the kind they do on their own at home. It's often a chance for them to turn around and be the teachers (without them realising it) because they have to explain the concepts and information they have learned to us dumb parents! Having to tech something is one of the best ways of learning I know.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
24 Sep 08
I do think that they should have an hour or two relaxation after school and before starting their homework.
Do keep an eye on the school's guidelines for homework. Depending on the age, it should not be more than an hour or an hour and a half a night. If your kids seem to be struggling, then take it up with the school. It may be that one teacher is expecting more of his/her pupils than is reasonable or it may be that your child is having a problem which could be easily straightened out with consultation.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
26 Sep 08
Having a little something to reinforce what they learned at school is one thing (and to show the parents what they are doing) but I disagree that it should take this much time. I am talking 10 or 15 minutes from one or two classes, not an hour, not two hours. You're right that they don't stop learning, my daughter learns all the time, but it's from LIVING, not just from preschool! Living includes things you don't learn at school, and it also includes the extra curricular things that she does that she will ALWAYS do because those to me are more important for balance than a pile of homework. If she has ballet, she will go to her ballet class, forget about the homework. If she's tired, then she can take a nap and not do homework. I am not going to take her one chance at childhood away for the sake of some stupid person who came up with the idea of homework. I will now refrain from saying anything else nasty lol.
@1111appleblossoms (169)
• Canada
24 Sep 08
Learning is a full time job, and I also learn from them when they bring home their work. Good point!
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@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
24 Sep 08
The difference is that children are learning, and in order to learn, they need to repeat exercises, practice, and make it a part of their daily lives, not just work on it for 6 hours and then forget about it the rest of the time. Adults generally talk about 'don't bring your work home with you' in a different sense. It is usually referring to letting stress and problems at work cause you stress at home and allowing it to interfere with personal relationships. Adults generally do not need to bring their work home with them in order to be successful at their jobs. Children, in contrast, generally do.
Have you ever attended college? Do you think the courses you took would have been as effective without the exercises and projects you completed on your own? I doubt it. Doing work on your own reinforces the lessons you learned in class and helps teach practical application.
Education these days is seriously lacking, and children are allowed to be lazy and are not held accountable for their actions or expected to handle any responsibility. That does not prepare them for the real world. Homework does. Do not underestimate the value of homework.
That said, I do feel sometimes there is too much homework. It shouldn't take up a majority of the day after school. I think about an hour is plenty and any more is excessive and fosters a resentment for school and responsibility.
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@betsyraeduke (2670)
• United States
25 Sep 08
Hmmm...those are some pretty good points. I never really put that much thought into it before. My kids are only in the 1st and 2nd grades, so they don't usually have very much homework yet.
When it comes to homework in general though, there are some big differences that I notice between the experience of children of today and my own.
1. When I was in elementary school, I never had homework, everything was done and turned in during school hours. My kids on the other hand, do have homework on occasion. (That is not to say every elementary school worked that way back when I was a kid, but mine did)
2. Even during throughout my middle school and high school experience, with the exception of multi page reports which a student would obviously have to spend some time outside of class working on, my teachers never specifically assigned "homework". I did have homework sometimes during those years, but it was only when I was unable to finish assignments during the time allotted for them in class. And all my teachers always gave us some class time to work on assignments.
(Again, I am not saying that all schools were like that back then because I don't know, but mine was)
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
26 Sep 08
My experience was like yours - and I even took accelerated classes! I am planning to do whatever I can to ensure my daughter either gets class time - or I will just bottom line refuse to do anything extra. If she passes the tests, then she knows the stuff and there's no need to rehash it over and over and waste time. You don't get wasted time back.
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
i think you are right they are tired from school and still when they arrive home, they will just eat dinner and do the homework again. but this kind of activity can also help our child to be more responsible to the things they assigned to them. i guess we have to give them courage for all the activities they have.
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@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
24 Sep 08
I never had a problem with the amount of homework my kids had, I don't see anything wrong with kids learning to have responsibilities, and homework is part of that. Now I'm not saying they should have 3 chapters in every class they are taking. But, we all know that graduating high school is important, and it's also important these days to have a college education, and they will have plenty of homework in college. I think that would be a shock to the kids, if they never had homework and then go to college and all of a sudden they do have 2 chapters in 5 classes to read and do work in. I think the amount of homework should be age appropriate, but I don't think it should be done away with.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
26 Sep 08
In college kids should understand that they have moved from being taught things in class where you DO work in class to just going to class to listen to lectures and you do everything else on your own. That is how college is different. You pay for it, that's how it is. High school, junior high, and elementary school is NOT like this. When kids are younger, they don't even have the capacity to just work on their own like in college. Expecting that or making them practice when they are younger is ridiculous, it's a developmental thing and they are not ready.
In high school maybe they can move toward that, but before then? I don't think so. Some kids always work independently, I was like that. Others struggle in college because they just can't learn/work that way and use their time effectively.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Sep 08
I agree that children should have some homework, but I disagree to give them heavy homework. Here I think the children have many homework and they hardly have spare time for their own interests. I remember when I was a pupil in the primary school. My teacher told us that it was suitable to give pupils homework to finish within an hour.
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@apples99 (6556)
• United States
25 Sep 08
Well I didn't like homework when I was little ether, but I guess its necessary for kids to have homework so they will be prepared for the next test and so there little minds can remember the things they learn in school, but I bet a lot of kids would love to give you a high five right now lol.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
26 Sep 08
Why is it necessary? A lesson is taught in the classroom. The kids should do a class assignment that pertains to the lesson taught. IN CLASS. The next day they practice again. In class. Then on to the next lesson. Repeat. On Friday, have a quiz to see how much they remembered. I have nothing against them studying what they have learned at home, but again that might take 15 minutes with mom or dad. Not an hour, and there wouldn't be anything due with a deadline so they have to freak out if something wasn't completed!
@JayalakshmiAneesh (11)
• India
25 Sep 08
I do not agree with the habit of kids bringing their work to home. In schools the teachers should find time to do the kids' studies there itself. No kid should be allowed to do homeworks. After about 6 hours sitting in class, they will be tired and also not interested to do homework. They will be interested in playing after coming from school. Also the homeworks really bothers the parents. They have to sit with the child and help him in doing the homeworks. The kids will also be irritated and lose interest in studying. so my opinion is that kids should not be given homeworks.
@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 08
actually i do agree with u completely...although i'm still single and not married yet to experience such a thing with my kids, beside, i just graduated from the university...but i do experience such hateful situation with my youngest brother who goes to school from 8 am and back around 4.30 everyday..he takes his late lunch and the fights start between me and him or between mom and him as he doesn't want to do the homework and prefers to play outside with his friends...he is actually has the right to feel stressed...
it is such stressful situation as i get so angry and tired from classes and get no mood to face his naughtiness and refusal to do the homework...i usually end up forcing him to stay up late with me to fnish up..
it so stressful for kids to face stressfulness and depression in a very young age!!
Smiley,
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@livefree_diehard007 (115)
• United States
25 Sep 08
I agree with you and that's my mom thought as well.......
sometime homework doesn't make sense....like they are out of the subject..
@angelsdozens (29)
• United States
25 Sep 08
I agree that it seems like the amount of homework I kids come home with seems a bit much. It kills me that they get 3 months out of school for the summer without so much as weekly reminder work, but the teachers hate to send them home for 16 hours without giving them homework.
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@annettenasser (2992)
• Kuwait
24 Sep 08
Honestly homework is really to be done at home together with our parents or guardian. speaking of family time, we can have our family time while doing the homework for the meantime until its finished and understand.
thats why its called home work, we have to help and guide them to understand their home work.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
25 Sep 08
i have recently heard that a child in grade school should have as much homework as the grade they are in school - ie grade 1 10 min, etc- middle school an hour and highschool 2 hours. as for my kids, i let them go out during the nice weather after school and they do their homework after supper. they usually dont have much (although my daughter in high school has more than my 11 year old - she gets most done in class).
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
26 Sep 08
As long as they have enough time to reasonably complete things in class, I don't think it's overboard. The problem is that some kids consistently don't do ANY of it in class and that's why they have so much to bring home. Of course I do not know if they actually GET time in class. My older daughter graduated in May and she did tell me she got time in class to do most things - except research and complete projects unless they were group efforts with other students. Her teachers did tell me they did not assign homework, they would give an assignment in class but the kids had the class period to complete it. If they didn't finish it, it was on them, these were high school juniors and seniors, you'd think they'd use that time so after school they could go to friend's houses, play sports, work, etc.
@GemmaR (8517)
•
25 Sep 08
I think it is important for children to get homework. It's important for them to be able to manage their time effectively. Also, the amount that gets tested in the end of year exams these days is rediculous, and the teachers need to set more work so that they know the areas that they need to work on with the class.
I don't think primary school children should get much homework; maybe 10 maths questions and 10 spellings to learn every week.
I am in sixth form college at the moment, and we have to do 5 hours per week per subject of additional work. I am doing 3 subjects, so that means that I have to do 15 hours per week additional study to the 13.5 hours I spend in college each week.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
26 Sep 08
College is different. Everybody expects college to be primarily lectures from professors and then you do ALL your research and assignments on your own, by yourself, away from class. I do agree that kids need to learn how to manage their time effectively, but this doesn't mean they should learn concepts at school and then do 2 or 3 hours of work at home. Children are not at the level of college students, and I'm not talking just academically - I'm talking physical and physiological. A five year old may not even have an attention span to sit and write out 10 words all at once. That's a drop in the bucket to a college student, even most middle school students.