Are you welling to wait for LOVE?
By eve301345
@eve301345 (658)
Philippines
September 24, 2008 8:12pm CST
Some people specially in the old days they are welling to wait for years for there love ones. But nowadays it doesn't seems to be like that anymore. Lovers who have to go in separate ways for a while easily forget their promises. They find another person to ease there loneliness they feel and forget the previous love easily. Do you think it is still possible this time for a promise of love to be fulfilled?
Do you still make promise to your love one? Do you intend to hold into this promise? For how long?
Thanks for your time Myloters
Happy Myloting
15 responses
@tushark1 (117)
• India
25 Sep 08
Now a days no one will wait for anyone, it may his/her love. I have seen some such cases that i could not believe that this could happen. But yes This could be in this days.
As per my thinking i will wait for certain time for my love and will try to make all good.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
I think it depends on how deep you love each other. Even your near or far their is always challenges and temptation to face it's how you face it. I know it's to hard to say I will do it or keep a promise but it's how you show it that your serious with the relationship even your near or far. As long as their is communication. Relationship fades away when one close their mind and wont listen. In love you don't ask for a return. No relationship is perfect cause were just human. For me it's better to feel love then not having love at all. Life is so simple it's just up to us if we want it to be complicated. If it's really meant for you, no matter if your near or far. Even you set it free if it comes back it's still meant for you. It's only time can tell.Nothing is permanent in this world just yourself. Have a nice day!
@miamilatte2006 (231)
• United States
26 Sep 08
well lets see. In 2001 I was dating this guy ( we'll call him Joe) he was very handsome and athletic and it made me skeptical and I figured he could not be a guy that I would be able to settle down and be comfortable with so i didn't take our dating serious. He and I decided to try and date anyway and it worked out well until he called one day and said that he decided to go to the Navy. I am one that prefer not to date military men or officers of the law or firefighters because of the high risk of their profession. Anyway, I decided that it was best for us to go our seperate ways and we did. I got into another relationship in 2003 and in 2005 had my first son. That relationship went sour and left me a single mother. On November 25, 2007, i was on myspace and decided to search for "Joe" and to my surprise he had a page and was single. So i sent him a message and he still remember me as well as my home phone number even though I had moved from that location is 2004. So we decided to go out one night and we have been together ever since we even got married June 24 2008 and I just gave birth to our son August 26, 2008.
So to answer your question, Yes it is possible to have that love fulfilled even when you don't ever expect it to happen!
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
25 Sep 08
[i]Hi eve,
I am the person who is very committed and who really persevere..I thank to my Dad and Mom who were my idol for being very genuine and true to their love and promises to each other!
SO, I can wait and I am willing to wait..I was far from my hubby for more than a year and never in those times, I think about trying another man to fill up my loneliness...We talked a lot each day and we both love to each other!
SO, I am very positive that this type of love still exists..though, there are also people who failed due to temptations![/i]
@melvelasco (356)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
I think for my experience i can say i did wait for love. When me and my husband are in relationship of as girlfriend & boyfriend we did that...We've stayed at that way in four years not in a serious relation but we had that commitment that we had that relationship because both of us are studying. . we've waited, then aside from that we separated for 2 yrs i went to Davao then while he was assigned to Malolos for a military training. In other words almost two years we parted. But after that long years we come to an ending of marriage and now we had already 5 sibling. And it's because we love each other and we promise to our commitments.
@darlynkianne (54)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Yes i am willing to wait for the one i love and make promise to wait for him. I have my long distance relationship.. he needs to save a lot of money before going home so i need to wait for him for many years as long as he will come home
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Long distance relationship is the hardest situation in a relationship but I believe anything is possible when it comes to real love.. If you really love someone then distance won't make you forget about the person you love. A relationship that is built in true love, faith and trust with each other is strong enough to overcome loneliness and the longing for each other. True love can wait I believe.
Ciao!
@sweethomecatring (1563)
• India
25 Sep 08
I think a lot has been changed now and co-education in the schools are responsible for things in this respect happening in the society. From the previous time, people were loving each other and they in the their association commits to go for the life and they have been successful. Now a days a mere friendship at school level or at work place people are thinking they they are in love and they go to any extend in the tender age and when they get mature and start thinking of the relationships the things are broken with heavy harts.
@kaguvkov (1318)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Sep 08
I don;t think so I can wait for it. If your love one is really interested then you can go for it why wait for s long.
@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
25 Sep 08
i think it still exists.i still believe true love,at least i will fulfill the promise of love i have to the girl i love, i love her,which is the most important.i intend to hold into this promise for ever,even at last we can't be together , i will.
@leicyn (96)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
At first i thought that when someone promise you his love, that would be enough. but i was wrong because now a days for them its easy to forget and find another one. How crazy it is. Some lost the value of real love itself. But for me. Yes i am willing to wait for LOVE. I don't want to hold his promises anymore but still im willing to wait till the Right love come in a right place and in a will of GOD
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
thinking negatively..
promises are made to be broken..
distance is a hindrance in keeping the love alive
why wait if you can settle for someone who is available..
being optimistic..
if he/she is worth the wait,why not?
distance makes the heart grow fonder
promises are meant to be kept..
no matter what choice we make,
the most imprtant thing is
our capacity to accept the after effect
of our decisions..
if you chose to stay in a complicated relationship
and things went out wrong,do something,
if you cant do anything,maybe it was meant to be like that..
decide carefully..
and be prepared for the results..
thats how i attack situations like this..
@cloudy56 (16)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 08
are you about to leave your lover for awhile or just curious? (he..he..just kidding :)). it is very possible (for some people at least). for some others it very impossible. it depends on the couple. in some cases i know, long distance love (if you know what i mean) doesn't last long. why? simply because they (the lovers) prefer to meet face-to-face often (quantity). they sometimes do not think over about their quality of being lovers. some others are just overprotective and this would lead to quarrel. they just can't stand if their lovers are not at their side. they key is understanding each other and hoping for the best for their lovers. (who am i anyway responding to this discussion? i don't even have any girl. however, don't be disappointed. this is just my opinion and i do really hope that this will give you something for your curiosity)