do you think Friends in mylot are truel friends

@wangkai (797)
China
September 24, 2008 11:53pm CST
No I do not think so.I think friends in mylot are different from friends in real life.In mylot,friend, it is a just name or code.it is not based on the friendship.Perhaps some friends's relations is very good in mylot.However most are not like that. I think that mylot should improve to solve this problem by other ways or methods.You may expressed your suggestions.let us work hard to make mylot better and better. I hope that you can actively participate in it.Good luck to you!
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17 responses
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
25 Sep 08
hi yeah i agree with u-the friends on mylot are different from real life frieds-here u havent met him or her.probably that perso cud`also be faking his/her id,age,etc.also unlike real friends,u dont get to interact much with your friends,also ur friend may be staying 7 seas away frm u and u have very less chance of meeting him/her-there shud be some way of interacting more with ur friend.
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• Canada
25 Sep 08
I've actually made some 'real' friends here on myLot, that I am in touch with outside of this site. In fact, I've even met a couple of them, and have also talked with some on the phone.
@wangkai (797)
• China
25 Sep 08
thank you for your response.i think what you said is right.
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• United States
25 Sep 08
how would mylot solve the problem? anywhere you go you will make friends that arent really friends so i dont think i understand... but as far as if they are real friends i think that that just depends on your relationship out of mylot.. if your mylot friends are gonna be real friends you will be emailing and im'ing out side of the site.. i have made some friends on here and on like myspace i met my best friend so it happens.. just not many people want to
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@wangkai (797)
• China
25 Sep 08
Dear moonlitmagikchild.at first,i thank you for your response.i would make friends with you now.can you tell your MSN numbers or other communations ways.OK?
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• United States
27 Sep 08
thanks for the br
• India
25 Sep 08
Mylot being a global community, its not possible to have mylot friends as real friends, I mean its not that you cant meet up and call and so on. Some members here I feel do get the opportunity to meet up and talk in real life, but for me, all my friends on Mylot are virtual friends. However, I have met some truly wonderful people here and in times of need, they have really been by my side by advising me as per their best capabilities. They are also there thru PMs and I just love connecting with all of them.
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@wangkai (797)
• China
25 Sep 08
thank your for your response.your point is right.As lon as we can contact with people all over the world.But i stiil think mylot need to change in somme ways.
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@steve9737 (918)
• Colombia
25 Sep 08
well, I don't think about people in mylot like real friends, but the ones I had added to my msn I think in then like real friend because I feel more closer to them, and I have shared a lot of things with them, more of people here is just looking how to earn a little extra money so I don't think they are really interested in have a friendship, I do add people to my friend list here because I like to post response to their discussion but nothing more than that, I think I just have talked to one person on here, it was a girl from united kingdom that I added to my msn, anyway she just me to join in some sites that pay for get referrals, so I don't think I will ever get a real friend from mylot, but who knows, maybe there is someone that I will meet and I will like to know more about.
• United States
25 Sep 08
Hi wangkai.As of right now, I havan't met anyone on here that is a "true" friend. There maybe a "friends" list, but in reality these are not my friends,at least not yet. I think there are possibilties to make good friendships here.We are getting to know about one another through discussions and posts and finding things in common with one another.I think if you really get to know someone and speak to them through the messages rather than posts alone,yes I could make friends here. I think a friend is someone whom is there for me as I am there for them in any time of need.Someone to share thoughts and ideas with and someone who does not judge me, and accepts me for who I am. It's nice to be able to share time physically with friend,true, but it is not necessary. But as I said I haven't built this kind of realtionship on Mylot yet, but I am hoping that I can eventually. And, I think it will be possiblee because alot of people that have spoken to me through discussions seem very friendly!
@wangkai (797)
• China
25 Sep 08
yes.as you said. in mylot we can talk about the interested topic in common with.we will become a true friend in gradually.thank you.can you tell me other contact types.let us make friends.
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@rainmark (4302)
25 Sep 08
Friends here in mylot are true? that depends on how you make friends to them and how you gonna work it out.Some friendships develop from chatting and in forums and they are good friends in real so why not try here and make friends. Happy posting.
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• Canada
25 Sep 08
No I don't think you could become true friends with someone you have never met and probably never will . Like you said it is a nameless face with a username or code attached to a name that responds to you . I beleive that we have different kinds of friends in life as some are true friends , som are close friends and on here they would be considered Mylot friends .
@wangkai (797)
• China
26 Sep 08
Wish your family happy foe ever.happy mylot for ever.
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
25 Sep 08
Hi wangkai, I have definitely made some 'real' friends here at myLot. I've talked with them on the phone, and have met two of them. It's really wonderful to be able to do this. Of course, there are many that I'll never have this type of relationship with, as we don't have much in common etc. Some are just too far away from where I am, also. However, I find many on my friends list, to be very warm caring people, who are there for 'me' with a kind word, or advice when asked for. I hope you find this to be true here too. I'm just wondering, what do you think 'myLot' should do, to make things better in this way? Have a great day.
@wangkai (797)
• China
25 Sep 08
thank your response. then can you teel me your contact types out of mylot.
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• Philippines
26 Sep 08
They can be true but it will be depends on them and in you. Me, here with my friends, I am true with them.If they had hurt me I will tell them through message or by discussion so we can talk it over. We can have a true friends here, if you just open your heart and accept the friendship, but anticipate the hurt as it is expected to be felt by anyone here. But don't give your 100% trust because it is really hurting and this is so hard to regain.
• China
25 Sep 08
sometimes, you can think about this question in another way.frankly,there are some differences between the two relationships.but in mylot,you can ask many friends for help to solve your problem,and in reality,friends you can turn to are limited.what is more, you can learn more from mylot,there are many interests you can make option,so,no matter you are in net or in reality,just enjoy the exitence,and trust what you think is trust,you will feel happy and feel the world is simple ,coz i think simpilty is the best.in sum,enjoy your life and cherish your friends.
@wangkai (797)
• China
26 Sep 08
thank your support and your views.
• Singapore
25 Sep 08
They can be friends but not a true and real friends, maybe in times when you are long then you can be friends.
@ddp_dev (184)
• India
25 Sep 08
i dont have any friend on mylot so icant reply to this .can you become my friend
• China
26 Sep 08
I think that everyone have same intresting they can be friends ,we can be friend without face to face.
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
I'm new here, I'm not sure if people here in mylot can be great friends but I really hope these people are true and would offer true friendship as well. I am determined to make an active place here in mylot and make my stay worthwhile, so I might just as well find true friends.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
25 Sep 08
[i]Hi wang, This is a forum and people are here to earn and having or talking with people all over the world is a great bonus...I don't think Mylot should try to work on this issue...We can always find true friends here as long as you will extend your conversation outside this site like you will call to each other or chat and then decide to meet if possible, so, this site can be a source of true friends also once we will take time to know these people and of course we will meet them in person@[/i]
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
you can't call mylot friends your "true" friends because you haven't met them personally... i strongly believe that true friendship is based from experiences you had together... you know, being there for your friend whenever he/she needed someone to lean on..
• Jamaica
26 Sep 08
i think everyone is a good friend from start cause that's the only way you meet them. after they see the person you are they change.Only trust can lead someone to mistrust.