Have you found your Soulmate???

I found my soulmate in 1982. I was in the Air Force and wanted to fill my evenings since mostly all I did was date once in a while and fish. Not that there was anything wrong with either, I simply had time on my hands. I went to work for KFC as I had done that before when I was a teen. The assistant manager and I did NOT get along. Having a full chest of hair that stuck out of the top of my T-shirt, Sheila would call me "wolfman" to the other workers. Not liking her and finding her snipping at me, I endearingly called her "the B." We went on like this for months and she would salt my coffee and I would purposely over-cook so she had a higher waste. Ooppssssss...;) There was a rash of robberies going on at that time. Managers leaving their place of employment late at night with the stores cash to deposit were being robbed. I started hanging around because though we did not get along, I didn't want to see her hurt. We began to talk now and then and one night she asked me if I wanted to join her and her friends at the bar. I said sure and went. We talked into the night and danced 2 times. After the bar closed I asked her if she would like to go get some breakfast at an all night place. She said yes and we started doing that every night. We talked until near dawn and then I would go to my place and get a couple hours of sleep before going to the Base. Over time, we fell very In Love and in Sept of that year, after 5 months of dating and becoming best friends, we were married. She was the best thing to ever happen to my life. We spent 24 years never once saying a harsh word to one another or being angry with each other. A love like this was absolutely heaven sent. As some of you know, 1 year after we were married, Sheila developed Muscular Dystrophy. Our life became one hospital after another, weeks and months and years of her in the hospital. Coma's and 15 times being told she would not live through the night became just words. She always survived and went into remission many times, sometimes for a couple of years. We had 2 beautiful daughters and lived our lives out in the country surrounded by beauty and Love. Sheila became the everything of my life and I stayed soooo in love with her even when times were tough for her and I. Tough, but never ever bad. What made her my soulmate? We loved unconditionally. We love whether she was healthy or sick or walking or in a whelchair. We loved intimately when we could and by our hearts and touch when we needed to for her. She was and IS my forever love. Sheila went to heaven on March 8th,2006 after battling 2 Muscular Dystrophys, several heart operations, scherladoma, lupus, a coma for 60 days from burned lungs and one for 35 days. I never left her side and held to her always. We had issues{{I had Issues}} because I had seen her hurt to many times over the years. I had a breakdown and the Bipolar was kicking my butt but never in 24 years,{{She was given 5 to live}} did I ever fall out of love with this beautiful lady. Soulmates because we were best friends long before we were lovers and husband and wife. I will hold her hand again one day in heaven and our forever will simply continue. I Miss her sooooooo much but would not have missed it all for anything... THAT is a SoulMate..... Darrel

I don't believe that there is a soulmate for everyone.The Reason is very simple, there is no another character in the world like you.Believe it.

Yes I have! My wife and I are madly in love and she is my best friends as well. We have absolutely no issues in communicating with each other, have no secrets between us and share many of the same tastes in music, movies and food! Sounds strange but I felt her presence before I even saw her and loved her the second my eyes met hers. We have travelled and lived together in a number of countries now and been through every challenge imagineable yet are stronger than ever and continue to GET stronger! We are from opposite ends of the world and from different cultures but are most definitely meant to be together. I am very, very fortunate.

Hi my friend! I love the way you define "soulmate". That's great. And yes! I found my soulmate and he love me as much as i love him. I'm not perfect but he love me so much, he always I'm always the most perfect in his eyes. He's not a perfect guy but he's the most perfect person I had ever met.

And if not, what should I do? okay, never mind. The search is actually very much on. Finding a soul-mate is like a journey. You have to know yourself completely to know when it's your decision to identify that perfect soul-mate of yours. For me, the journey still continues. Hoping to hop right back here if I do find someone. ;-)

I agree with that definition compltely. I met and married my soulmate and as of this past Tuesday we were married 25 years. It has not always been a honeymoon around here ! LOL But we are most certainly soul mates. I'm glad you found yours!

Yes my friend i am very fortunate to have my Soulmate.Now she is my sweet wife,we shared everything no secret at all between us.I am a South Indian and she is North-east,our community is different,different language.....but that doesn't matter.She learned how to cook South Indian foods for me and make everyday.Sometimes we fight but after 5-10minutes either she or me cool down and become normal.

Yes. I believe my partner is my soulmate. I love him exactly as he is and he will always be perfect to me no matter what he does. He would probably roll his eyes at that but it is true. I am aware that he is human and he is not perfect, noone is, but he is perfect to me and that is all that matters.

I don't really believe in soul mates. Mainly because I know it is quite possible to love more than one person in a lifetime. Plus, since I believe in reincarnation, the idea of being with that same soul each life doesn't make sense to me. I think people can find a mate that they feel is their best match. I know my mom and stepdad had just such a marriage. They loved each other the 21+ years they had together, and my stepdad still grieves for her. But, for some of us I think its possible to love more than once in our lifetimes. As for finding my perfect match, even though I was married for over 20 years. I haven't found the right one and doubt I will this lifetime. I AM in a relationship but its not what I would choose if I were to go out searching for the right person.

I found my soulmate BUT the sad part is we're not together I know I love her and he loves me too but we're better of as FRIENDS... I mean, everytime that we tried to be together it never come to reality, like if I broke up with my relationship he was in a relationship and vice versa maybe it's kinda PLATONIC LOVE but the best part is we always remain as BEST FRIENDS and I know he love his wife and I love my relationship now as well and we never hide this things in our partners and they understand that ours is purely a platonic one I should say.

Hello LadyM. I think and I feel that I've found my soulmate in Boyfriend. Here's a (long) note I wrote for him once. Some of what I wrote are "inside jokes/tidbits". Obviously, I took out his real name and left Boyfriend in its place. [i]Boyfriend gave me Paris on Valentine's day. He gives me flowers just because. He helped me moved into a third floor apartment (no elevators). He accompanies me to San Francisco. He got me playing baseball and tennis. He plays scrabble with me. He watches movies (even when "chick flick" is written all over it) with me. He makes me my favorite blended coffee drink. He eats what I cooked and tells me he likes it. He would pick me up and drive me around if I don't feel like it. He took me to the beach and the zoo, two of my favorite places. He got me a lemur. He takes care of me when I get inebriated. He listens to me even if I don't make any sense. He makes me laugh. He makes me smile. I don't know what I did to deserve all these, but I am grateful. Boyfriend calms me. When something goes wrong in my world, he tells me things will be ok. And I believe him. Because everything is OK when he holds my hand.[/i]

Well yes i have found her... We both are doctor, we met in our graduation college... SHe was one of my best friend who standbesides me in my hard times... She loves me a lot so as i do.... But one thing i must say is you never know when this love thing happens but it just happens, rite??? I am going to be marrying her within a year....

For 9 years I thought I had found my soulmate. However, after years of dealing with her illness, and the fits of anger and neuroses that came with it, I had to face the truth. I knew that no matter how much in love we were, or how hard I tried to be there for her, I could not deal with her outbursts any longer. She was not a violent person, just very untrusting and jealous. It wasn't always like that, but over the years she would remember things that had happened in previous relationships and then transpose them into our relationship. Things that her exs had done, she was claiming I had done those things. After a while it gets pretty draining to have to walk on egg shells so that someone doesn't accuse you of something when they aren't in their right minds. I do believe that she was my soulmate. However, sometimes even being soulmates cannot keep two people together. I left and started my life over. She is working on her life as well. We still see each other occassionally, but I know that I cannot go back. We used to be inseparable, but after everything that has happened, I know that that is no longer possible. We used to have long conversations on different topics, but especially philosophical discussions. We were always attuned to one another in a way that I have never since found with anyone else. I hope to find that again someday. That complete understanding, unity, and yes even passion, which we had at one time. I sometimes fear that no matter who I meet, I will never find that because I expect too much and I will not settle for less.

Hmmm... you been the lucky one to marry your soulmate. I did met my soulmate, and it was a 2.5 years of bliss and pain too, but I married someone else. She was not perfect, never expected that, I loved her with all my heart and soul... well she was scared that I love her too much. Then it was her family being against her marrying someone out of her nation. I'm Romanian, she is south african, both whites, but different religion. Not that I see the inside of any church very often, I can say that I'm an ateist, but not totally, however, religion do not rule my life. Imagine that, praying for something... I don't pray, I act for things to happen. So, we are happily married, my wife is happy, I'm married, don't have a heart, still I love my wife as a partner, friend, companion, etc... Still love that girl ang long for her touches, but life goes ahead, and to be fair, I'm better off now without that strungle of being with her. Then I'm a cold capricorn, been one until I met her, opened up and got hurt, much more better to stay and be a machine, no deep feelings, no tears or non-sleeping nights... That's all

I have not found a "soulmate" for me Infact i have no proof of a such thing as a soul. I have such want and lust for a girl I fell in love with 5 years ago. I still love her and she still does not know. She left with some guy and not a minute goes by that I dont think about her and think of killing him. some told me to get over it and I told them "blow me!"

Hi LadyMarissa I don't know much about soulmates but I have been married for 28 years but I don't know if hes my sould mate because we disagree about nearly everything and we are chalk and cheese,but I think my friend is my soulmate although we don't see that much of each other but speak on the phone to each other. Tamara

I found Him, He is already mine Ha ha ha, I mean for almost 6 years in relationship before we got decided to get married, I'm sure he is the one...In spite of many problems we've been trough still we still together. We give and take each other and we easily get reconciled when we argued.. I'm sure I found my soulmate.

yes, I think I have found my soulmate.It's been 3 years ago since I found her. she's a beautiful girl and I think we understand each other. Although we often get wrangle, but it solves in a day or so. Above that she's not a perfect girl but no bodies perfect, don't you think so?

Call me cynical, but do soulmates really exist or are they a fragment of our imaginations. Can't really believe that there is another male/female equivalent that is preprogrammed as our spirtual otherhalf.

I'd found one and I lost her. The simplest way to tell it is your soulmate or not is you actually like knowing what each other needs without saying a single word. The say when you are close enough there is no need to talk anymore as your heart becomes one. Miss her so much..