CAdreamer

@CAdreamer (118)

United States • Age 45

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this hurt my feelings

poetkelly @poetkelly (79) • United States 23 Oct 08

I do volunteer work for the juvenile court, and today I had to call my supervisor to discuss a case. Now, I should mention that I do not have a lot of friends, and I like my supervisor a lot and have thought of inviting her to...

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CAdreamer Hun it always hurts to be rejected. And she probably didn't know you liked her. We all have fears and such, but what makes it easier or seem easier for others to make friends is that they dont let their fears control them. I am one that can strike up a...

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Is A Person's Past Important or Relevant In A Current Relationship

soul_life24 @soul_life24 (18) • United States 23 Oct 08

A co-worker came to me today about a problem he was having in his current relationship. To me he is a good guy, a hard worker, punctual, and does what is asked of him. I've went to bat for him when our job tried to stiff him on a...

discussing yourself

relationships

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CAdreamer Yes a person's past is important. I understand not telling all about oneself at the beginning, but it seems that if she had a key and was there cleaning his home, that the relationship had progressed to another level. She is upset probably cause she feels like...

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What would you do if the one you love says they dont love you.

Selkertic @Selkertic (9) • United States 23 Oct 08

Im in a big mix up. my girlfriend ive been dating for 5 years now has finally pulled the plug the bad way and said she doesnt love me anymore. I really dont know what to do now cuz ive planned so much and now everything i fell...

breakup love help

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CAdreamer I am so sorry this happened to you. I have been there, and now am in a relationship with someone who adores me, yet I still have the fear that he too will leave and stop loving me. The only thing you can do is to take the time to get over her. Don't jump back...

24 Oct 08

Should smoking be banned?

sudhajosyula50 @sudhajosyula50 (3808) • India 23 Oct 08

This year's World No Tobacco Day is on 31 May, a day set aside to highlight the dangers of smoking. The focus this year, according to the World Health Organisation, is on tobacco and poverty. According to the WHO, smoking...

banned

cigarette smoking

kenya

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CAdreamer I am a smoker and it was my choice. I don't think that anyone can tell another what they do to their body. People talk about personal choice and human rights. Well isn't it a human right to choose what you put into your body. Geez, smoking isn't the only thing...

24 Oct 08

Do you think time passes by too fast?

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 24 Oct 08

About 25 years ago, I was still trying to learn how to walk (not that I can remember much) and how to talk. I stuttered a lot last time and only managed to talk properly after 5 years old. And now, I'm a full working professional....

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CAdreamer We all have this type of feeling. Part of the reason as childern we feel like time passes so slowly is cause we haven't lived that long. As we get older more of our lives have been lived. So when you look back it doesn't feel like it was that long ago, cause...

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Meeting An Online Friend For The First Time

soul_life24 @soul_life24 (18) • United States 23 Oct 08

I have been talking with this woman for over two years now and we connect very well. I enjoy talking about everything from life to what either of us is having for dinner. I never thought or intended for myself to care and have...

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CAdreamer Yes it is normal to have this gamut of feelings. I myself am in an online relationship and my feelings go all over the place. The reason you are nervous is cause like all of us you are human. We all want someone to be with in life, and now adays with the...

24 Oct 08

My papa has a girlfriend!!!

my2boys @my2boys (821) • United States 22 Oct 08

My four year old son told me that my husband (his father) has a girlfriend. He said that he took my son to her house and that she came to the hospital when I recently had our second son. My husband tells me that he is just making...

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CAdreamer Actually no kids don't make things up like that. They might lie about taking a cookie, or when they know they did something wrong, but kids don't lie. Not like that. I know I was a daycare teacher. I have studied the way kids develop, not until they are about...

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Cell Phone ( Battery)

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 21 Oct 08

How often do you charge your cell phone? I have heard some people say they put their phone on the charger every night. When I purchased my phone I was told if I put it on the charger like that every night it would damage the...

life of the cell phone battery

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CAdreamer I leave my phone on all the time. So when it gets down to one bar for a charge then I put it on the charger. And yes if you just charge it all the time when it hasn't been used up then it will weaken the battey. As long as you keep track of how much charge you...

22 Oct 08

seriously, why does god allow this to happen?

jarael @jarael (665) 22 Oct 08

i believe in god and guardian angels and i pray but one question has always bugged me. im a survivor of child abuse, i once asked a priest if god loves me why did he let it happen? if my guardian angel is there to protect me, why...

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CAdreamer Hun I too was abused when I was a child. I have gone round and round in my head on why did this happen to me. I felt the same way you felt. I don't believe in a god persay, but what we have to look at if we are believers is this. We all have free will, now god...

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questioning my authority???

despompa @despompa (472) • Philippines 21 Oct 08

last night my husband and i decided to talk to her sister to inform her of her wrong doings in case that she doesn't know what she has done wrong. while we are talking, my husband talked about the expenses in the house because i...

questioning my authority

shame on you

sister in law

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CAdreamer Some people in this world will never see that they do anything wrong and will never see how much others do for them. They are the type of people that take and take and take, and if you call them on it they find a way to turn it back on you. I know family is...

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finding the right person...

Nhey16 @Nhey16 (2518) • Philippines 21 Oct 08

when my husband and i were in our gf/bf days, he always tell me that im the right one for him coz when he saw me he was attracted at once and he felt that im the one whom he'd marry. sometimes, i wonder how does a person would...

finding true love

love

right person

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CAdreamer I am happy for you hun. You have found what I am still looking for. All my relationships have ended badly and there is no one it seems right for me. Perhaps someday I will find that. But to answer your question I don't think there is a way to know for sure if...

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Do you back and get it?

Amber @AmbiePam (91681) • United States 21 Oct 08

On my way back home from a doctor appointment today, I picked up my mom and we went through the drive thru at Taco Bueno. When we got back to her house we discovered part of her order was missing. Both of us were annoyed with...

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CAdreamer If you can't get through to them by phone, yes I would go back for it and raise a stink too. You paid for it and with things the way they are every dollar counts. I hate that people today at those places are so careless. Most of them work there cause they...

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When you can't achieve success in life Do you think life is waste?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 22 Oct 08

Recently I am observing that life i snot treating me in good ways. there are times when I really feel bad. It seems there are something related to career that I will never achieve whatever way I may try or work Hard.Its something...

waste

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CAdreamer Sweetie, success is not based on what you do in your career or how good you look. Success in life is based on how you life your life and at the end of that life what you have. Look around you at the people in your life that matter. Now imagine if just one of...

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Why are you so rude?

KATRINKA @KATRINKA (1624) • United States 21 Oct 08

I work in a call center, and I do love my job. Yesterday, however, was one of the worst days. I was literally verbally abused all day. I heard so many variations of "go ____ yourself." All of the rude callers were people who did...

verbally abusive people

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CAdreamer I used to work for a phone company so I know what you mean by this. I also though am one who has gotten calls from bill collectors. I don't agree on the swearing and rudeness at all, but with things the way they are today with the economy people are upset with...

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Rascism is alive and well in my town, and I'm a little shocked

estherlou @estherlou (5015) • United States 21 Oct 08

I guess I've lived a sheltered life. I'm 58 years old. We recently got a new owner for our cake shop. She happens to be black. Our shop has been in business for 20 years. I've worked there, decorating wedding cakes, for 17 years....

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CAdreamer I know what you mean. I grew up with a black presence in my own family, so I always just thought nothing of it. It wasn't until last fall that I found out how truelly prejudiced alot of people are. I have been all over this country this past year I am now 33...

21 Oct 08

What's Your Name?

Rosekitty @Rosekitty (19368) • San Marcos, Texas 20 Oct 08

How are you with names and faces? Has someone ever called you by the wrong name or confused you with someone else? I see alot of people everyday..some are regulars..well alot are and some are newbie's since this is a college town...

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CAdreamer I am great with faces, always have been. I never forget a face. Part of that is cause of the way my memory has always worked. My mind with anything that I see grasps on to it and never lets it go. But if someone just tells me there name it takes me forever to...

21 Oct 08

how can i forget that guy????????

stillloveyou @stillloveyou (30) • Philippines 21 Oct 08

i worked at internet cafe...then i meet this guy...he played online games so i saw him everyday and he alwalys occupied the unit that in front of me..then we became friends...he asked for my number and we exchange messages... he...

internet cafe

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CAdreamer Awww sweete, this is something I hear about alot. I myself am in a relationship from online. He is younger than me and lives in England. Something I know about life, it is too short to be afraid of connecting. Yes with any type of relationship there is the...

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Are You Superstitious?

EAStanley @EAStanley (2688) • United States 21 Oct 08

Is anybody here superstitious about anything? I am asking because I am closing in on my 666 post. (This is NOT a "bragging" or "milestone" post, please let it stay active!). And, of course, many people see 666 as a bad number....

superstitious

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CAdreamer Me personally am not superstitious. Things always happen for a reason. But the reason most people get weird about certain number is cause of things they have been taught. It is like with black cats, and certain phases of the moon. Most of the things people are...

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