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daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 21 Jun 09

I notice that most people in Asia prefer to just sit in a meeting for the sake of sitting in. Thus, they normally don't speak out or voice out their opinions during the meeting. They just want it to be over as soon as possible....

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daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 I like the part "you should not be unhappy with what others have but happy with what you have". In other words, one should feel content because no matter how we feel, we're a lot luckier than a lot of other people in this world.

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 Mm, don't you feel tired after a while?

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 Yes, it is unhealthy but most of us cannot run away from comparing once in a while. I still believe there should be a balance. Too much of anything is unhealthy.

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 Maybe it's because grass always looks greener on the other side? To some parents, other people's kids who score better are always better than their own kids. This can be very bad for the child's development since he/she is not appreciated well enough.

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 I think the best thing to do is to make it a race against yourself, not against others.

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 Maybe you should talk to your family about it?

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 Hmm but why do you want to compare health, ability with others? Everyone is different. No?

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 Actually not many people do that. I do know few girls who love to compare their current boyfriends with their ex-boyfriends. I told them this is very unhealthy and they should just accept people who for they are.

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 Everyone is unique and I do believe that everyone is talented, just in different things. So what one thing is good for others, it might not be good for you.

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 Goal setting is a must but set the goals because you want to achieve them, not because someone else has done it.

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 I think we should teach the younger generation how to strive to improve themselves, not to compete with others. Be content and be grateful.

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 Thanks for sharing. It's true that sometimes, we need to compare with people who are working harder than us, and we should try to work as hard. But if you know you are just different, then comparing brings more harm than good.

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 Yes, content with what you have and who you are is very important.

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 I think we can make the people around us happy in many other ways.

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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daydreamer20 Yeap there's a Chinese saying which sounds something like "there's always one mountain higher than this".

26 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 25 May 09

Do you compare yourselves with other people? Some of my friends love to do that. I'm not sure if it's the Asian culture or not. They tend to compare who has the bigger house, bigger cars, staying in posh areas, who has the best...

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hiddenwing @hiddenwing (3719) • China 20 May 09

I guess we should make the best of the time when we wait for a train, a person, a movie, etc. When I wait something so badly, it seems that a second changes to an hour! Apparently, the time hasn't been made full use of! Time is so...

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daydreamer20 Normally I will just read my books or jotting down notes on my old Nokia phone. I was hoping to get a Blackberry or Nokia E71 so that I can type faster but due to financial constraints, I cannot do that yet. LOL. But yeah, I won't just sit or stand there doing...

20 May 09

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daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 19 May 09

Nowadays we have more and more viruses appearing out of nowhere - bird flu, H1N1, etc. In my country, we have several outbreaks in few locations and most of the cases are caused by deadly viruses and they are not H1N1 related....

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daydreamer20 It is definitely not the main factor. But I believe the pollution and the global warming or green house effect do have a role to play.

20 May 09

daydreamer20 @daydreamer20 (1688) • Malaysia 19 May 09

Nowadays we have more and more viruses appearing out of nowhere - bird flu, H1N1, etc. In my country, we have several outbreaks in few locations and most of the cases are caused by deadly viruses and they are not H1N1 related....

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daydreamer20 Thanks for the link. I'll read it when I've more time on my hand. Thanks again.

20 May 09

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