Win-Win , Win-Lose or Lose-Lose ?!
By Milanovich
@Milanovich (700)
Egypt
September 26, 2008 8:35am CST
hello every one;)
i have to introduce the meanning of the above three words first..
Win-Win:it is a method in life where you can win and make other people win too..it has no selfish or bad manner but instead all parts which participate will get benfits and win..no one will lose here..
Win-Lose:it is another method or charachter in life where some one want to be the only winner and no other one else can win..he has in his mind that it is unacceptable to be more than one winner..it may be somewhat selfish but in some cases it is the only way to win..
Win-Lose:here is a strange character where if someone feels that he is losing noway then no one will win..we have to lose all if i am not the winner!
the Win-Lose is considered to be the most selfish where you got no profit if you make others lose to so why?!
another case wich is Lose-Win where someone is offering to lose inorder for another one to win..it is rarely to be found so i have removed it from the choices..
so what type of person are you?!
do you think Win-Win ?
do you sometime need to apply Win-Lose?!
or do you always want to be the only winner and if not then all of us have to lose (Lose-Lose) ?!
3 responses
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I prefer the win-win. I don't like to profit (and in fact I won't if I can help it) if someone else loses. I will try my best to be sure that everyone gets something from a deal. I buy groceries, the employees have a job, the farmers can sell their goods, etc. However, if I steal music from the internet, I "win" because I have something free but (as well as risking a lawsuit) the artist is robbed of his profit, his children have that much less security, I've set a bad example for my children if they would find out and I will have a guilty conscience that I'll pay for in other ways.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I just got to read the above comment--I get my notifications through email so I don't see other comments until I make my own. I thought you were talking about money, too.
My position hasn't changed. I still prefer to do things that profit others than myself and treasure my friends and family more than all the wealth in the world. I often say that I'm a very wealthy woman, because I have everything that material riches can't buy. 
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
27 Sep 08
Not intentionally. Win-lose is just wrong, it means someone suffers for my happiness. 
My parents raised us to not intentionally hurt anyone and explore all the options before making a decision so that we could do the most good for ourselves and for everyone around us. It's our family way.
My parents raised us to not intentionally hurt anyone and explore all the options before making a decision so that we could do the most good for ourselves and for everyone around us. It's our family way.@Milanovich (700)
• Egypt
27 Sep 08
so you are applying win-win method:)
haven't you tried ever win-lose?
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@vmksvmks (413)
• Canada
26 Sep 08
I am becoming somewhat concerned that you have many discussions that are talking about money money and more money. Please understand that I am only trying to be a grand, but it is a dream that so many have that can make a fortune on line trust me. After losing thousands and thousands of dollars over 10 years of surfing. I am now or I should say, a monkey is off my back, and the Internet will not stand me him anymore of my hard earned money. Take my lot. I have not had to pay one cent. Yet they pay monthly, and they have done this for years. Now that's more like a site that appeals to me. Good luck, and I hope you use your hard energy for other things that money making schemes. Once more. I'm not being critical. I'm trying to be helpful and supportive of one of my friends at my lot
@Milanovich (700)
• Egypt
26 Sep 08
hello mate:)
i wasn't talking here about any money and i thought it was abvoius;)
i just talked about the character any person can be..these 3 terms are exist in evry one..and every one have to choose which of them resembles his personality..
it is something you are doing every day..it is something related to life not money..
you can say win when you gain a friend and say lose when you lose someone you loved..so win and lose are terms that aren't applied only to money!
money not evry thing that can be won or lost..i hope you got what i mean ;)
