are you belive in love at first sight??

@yadav8797 (1211)
India
September 26, 2008 1:16pm CST
friend,i am believing in love first sight ,are you believe in love at first sight?? are you have experience of this ??do you fall in this way?? hows your experience of this??do you got your love of first sight or not?? is your love successful??how much is this successful??tell me in detail with experience
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@braveand (12)
27 Sep 08
I don't believe in love at first sight.Because it has never happened on me.So i could tell you anything in detail,while I want to tell you that love at first sight is not real love.It happened in short time and broke soon as well.Friend,I kown that in everybody's deep heart,we all aspire it,await it.But,I Think it is really unbelievable!
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@lizard211 (240)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I do not believe in love at first sight. The first time I met my husband, I immediately picked him out of a crowd of like 50 people. I was very attracted to him and I suppose someone could say love at first sight. However, at that time, if you asked me if I would give my life for him - my answer would have been "What, you're crazy!" If someone asked me at that time "Would you be willing to stand by his side through thick and thin?" My answer would be "No". To me, love is like a friendship. When I first meet people, I do not consider them friends but with time, they could very well be friends. I am happy to say that my feelings and love for my husband has grown over time. It hasn't been all good times but the bad times make us stronger.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
26 Sep 08
I'm inclined not to believe in love at first sight.. but I do think there is definitely infatuation at first sight.. and who knows? Perhaps it works out and endures! If they are compatable and have some relationship skills.
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@ellie333 (21016)
26 Sep 08
I believe in love at first sight. When I was twelve (everyone said it was a crush but I knew) a guy walked into our local youth club and I just knew. I was puppy dogged eyes over him for years until we eventually started dating him when eye was fifteen and we were still together until I was 23. Won't go into details but something happened and we went our separate ways and even now years later I found out last year that he had contacted someone asking about me. Ellie :D
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@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
26 Sep 08
Of course, I do believe in Love at first sight because I truly experience it when i am a guest in the Hotel before in which it is my wife who is the Host of that day and after seeing her I always go to the Hotel and go to their coffee shop or sometimes in the Restaurant for she is the person who manage to run the area as a Flooor Manager in JW Marriott Hotel here in Kuwait.
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@4magoo (396)
26 Sep 08
:-) I met Jackie when I was 20 and she was 19. I was a young officer and headed to Vietnam. I was to go on leave in 4 weeks (28 days). I threw a party for frieds going to Vietnam and she was at the party. We went out the next day and then the next day. By the third day I knew I was in trouble. I tried to call it off and she cried and said let's just see what would happen. Well we were engaged to be married before I went to Vietnam. We wrote every day that I was gone. We met for one week on R&R in Hawaii and hashed out all the things that couples hash out over weeks, months and years. We were married one week after I got back. It was a classic case of "love at first sight." She was 20 when we got married and I was 21. That was 39 years ago. It wasn't always easy as we were different in many ways but we stuck to it. What a wonderful ride.
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@miryam (6505)
• Italy
27 Sep 08
sorry, but i dont believe in love........no in a firs, or ultimete sighy it's only a fate.. bye myryam
@yadav8797 (1211)
• India
27 Sep 08
friend, why you not believe in the love at first sight?? love is the greatest gift of god??are you not believe in loving or any other matter,tell me in detail. friend,are you suspicious person??can you don't trust on anybody??
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Sep 08
I believe it and I experienced it. It's a strange feeling as I loved him at first sight. Unfortunately finally we broke up. I love China
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Sep 08
Yes, I am.
@yadav8797 (1211)
• India
27 Sep 08
hi youless. first of all thanks for giving response on my discussion.its nice to see your response friend. i like it very much that you love your country.its very nice that people are there who loves there country. i like it. i love my india. friend what can you do for your country??is china your first love ??tell me in detail hi braveand,where ar you belong to,whats your country??
27 Sep 08
are you Chinese?
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@munna007 (227)
• India
27 Sep 08
i believe that love can only be at first sight....
• China
27 Sep 08
i do believe in love at first sight, and i have experience of that. it is not a good experience. he gave me million of his lies, and treated my feeling like a toy,but i like him, and i am stand every bad thing that he did to me. i know i am so stupid. i trust someday he will love me. but i am wrong, we break up. that feeling is so bad, and i am so happy i can go out that situation.even i have that experience, i still trust in love at first sight.
@yadav8797 (1211)
• India
27 Sep 08
hi yyfrancine, first of all thanks for responding on my discussion. i like your reply and share your experience with me. happy to know that you are still believing in love at first sight after so much happen.friend, i am sad to hear about the bad things happen with you friend. its great to see that you are come out from the bad situation.you are a stong girl.hats off to you my friend. hey friend,if you need any help, i am with you.take care.have a nice day happy mylotting
• China
27 Sep 08
god will make us meet some wrong people before we meet our mr right. eraser past, feel better!!!
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
I believe in love at first sight, and I think it could really be possible. but for me, I don't think I will fall for it. I'll never know, of course. But I have to know a person first before I can tell if I love him or not.
@yadav8797 (1211)
• India
27 Sep 08
friend,yes you are right that knowing the person is more important than the falling in love.so ,what qualities you want in your lover.sen me a PM to know each other.there may be we can become good friends by this,tell me about yourself in the PM.your like,dislike,interest etc.there may be i can help you and we can becom good friend.and i will hope you will get your love
• Canada
26 Sep 08
I don't. I believe that love can grow from lust at first sight and people who think they were in love since the moment they saw each other are just fooling themselves. I, myself have never been in love so I guess I'm a little skeptical on the subject.
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@CAdreamer (118)
• United States
26 Sep 08
I do believe in the concept of love at first sight and have even experienced it once. My relationship lasted for 9 years. I was totally in love, so was she, however I could not remain with her because of different reasons which I could not deal with anymore. So finally, although I loved her dearly, and always will, I have found that I am better off on my own. While it lasted though, it was wonderful. Towards the end, I was not happy, neither was she. It just made it all the more reason to not be together. But yes, love at first sight does occur. It happens, and sometimes it works out for the best, but it also doesn't work out sometimes as well.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
27 Sep 08
I don't believe in love at first. When you see someone and you started to like him, it doesn't mean you love him. Love at first sight are often thought as love but the truth is it's attraction. Being in love means you love him inside and out and accepting his positive and negative side.
@yadav8797 (1211)
• India
27 Sep 08
friend,thanks for replying on my discussion, i like your reply very much.friend,but i am disagree with you that love can not possible in first sight. it will comes in many times.sometimes it may be attraction. i think you will looking for someone. i liek you picture on your profile.its nice to see you.if you se you willcertainly fall in love with me at first sight.
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
27 Sep 08
It has not happened to me yetand no proof what so ever yet. I dont think it could ever happen to me.
@eshaan (6188)
• India
27 Sep 08
Only those people who believe in physical beauty,can fall in love at first site, but those who care for beautiful heart, never take sudden decision. Ofcourse the looks are important,if u like the person at first site, then half the way is clear, but then u should understand the person his nature, and if you find everything good, then u can go forward.Otherwise u would have to regret later.
27 Sep 08
Hi yadav8797, I met my husband where at work and few weeks later we went out together then sis months later we were married and that was 28 years ago so yes I believe in love at fist sight. Tamara
@ramangill (1479)
• India
27 Sep 08
no i dont believe in love at first sight,, it is not love.. love is something to do with soul, to body it is lust, so i believe love at first sight is LUST. thanks
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 08
I don't believe in love at the first sight. The first impression someone had before really falling in love is a physical attraction and chemistry between the two people. If there is a chemistry than you might assume that you are falling in love, though actually it is not yet coming to that stage. But when there is already a chemistry between two people, it would be so much easier to be in love each other, and they might say that love at the first sight
• Austria
27 Sep 08
hm, the really interesting thing is, that I almost allways fall in love with persons who R not my type in the first moment... I belive in love at the first sight, but I always had it in a a bt different way. I recognised, that the person was really interesting for me, but on the other side he was not my type. At this way I got to know my first great und probably greatest love and my current boyfriend, Im really happy with. :) greez Manuel