Does frienship interfere with with studies ever...

@arthi_88 (1516)
India
September 28, 2008 11:24pm CST
My friends have always been supportive....But my brothers friend always disturbs him during the study time and though my brother doesn't want to go with them he can't afford to lose their frienship as he will soon join thier senior residential house with this friends...If he doesn't have friends then he will feel real lonely..but again he doesn't want to spoil his results...
5 responses
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
Well, I guess it depends on the friend. Sometimes even the best of friends can interefere with studies, one way or another. Maybe when you do things together. Jamming for example. Hahah~ I know this, because I went through the effects of it. It was saddening~ Good thing we made a schedule, when to jam and when not to. Haha~
@arthi_88 (1516)
• India
1 Oct 08
It does depend a lot on the type of friends you have..Having little bit of fun at times is not bad...even we do it...bunk few classes and othes but a way of fun shouldn't become a habit......What say? Enjoy..
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
29 Sep 08
It depends upon your friends. If you go to a friend who is happy go lucky, and who doesn't mind whether about his studies, well, definitely he will interfere your studies all the time. But if you're friend wants to study and is serious to her studies, you too will be encourage to study. Our friends have a big factor in influencing us. We often wants to be with our friends than to be with our family sometimes. In our friends, we could be with ourselves but if you are with your family, sometimes you pretended to be a good person and you're afraid to commit mistakes in front of them.
@arthi_88 (1516)
• India
30 Sep 08
His friends are basically good boys but reluctant to study because of their football game.Still they should understand each others point of view. Thanx.Happy Mylotting.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Sep 08
it matters on the kind of friendship do you have. we have different kinds of friends and we must be careful in choosing our friends. you must be aware what will be the result if you and your friend focus on the things that many considered it as waste of time. all of my friends understand my situation, being a students and working everyday to support my studies, they don't disturb me when i am studying.
@arthi_88 (1516)
• India
30 Sep 08
As i sad my brothers friends are a little happy go lucky type....so they do interfere with his studies and they think its cool.
@amlegend (945)
• Pakistan
29 Sep 08
sometimes yes it can but still friends have their place. like in exams days if you are working hard and suddenly the phone rings and your best pal ringing you up and says "how much have you covered" etc etc then it is bad bad. friends never know when you are busy or not they just want to have some time with you so, if you are working hard or busy do let them know and i can bet they won't disturb you
@arthi_88 (1516)
• India
29 Sep 08
yup my friends don't disturb infact they help me out in my studies...but my brothers friends seems to be a different sort..anyway Thnx...
• India
19 Dec 08
i agree with you. Sometiome it could be happened with me also. buti want to manage that time. after all frieds have a importance in every body's life. They help us when we need. so dont take rension about this.