why do foreigners just LOVE ladies from the philippines?
By punkix
@punkix (658)
Philippines
September 30, 2008 2:12am CST
i know you have to agree coz you have seen a lot of old white men with their filipina dates or girlfriends but not just filipinas but the "native" ones right? sometimes you see them with not just one but 2 or more girls with them! hahaha they are just crazy for the "natives"! but us, we like the light colored skin, blond haire, brunette, spanish looking, etc. i live near p.burgos where the red light district of makati city, and man the number of foreigners just keep on flowing and you can see them everyday even on sundays!
one thing i know is that they love them because of their color and that tehy all know that filipinas are so caring and loving people. and its like us filipinos, we like it more foreigners too, we find beauty when it is light colored skin and especially when its a filipina with mix nationality. we find foreigners attractive and beautiful and so as the foreigners, they find dark colored skin women attractive for its not common in their country :)
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@Cunning_linguist (104)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
Well, regardless of the reasons why foreigners love Filipinas, one thing is certain: that the offspring of a Filipina and a foreign man, especially Caucasian, is bound to be good-looking. I've seen this happen a lot. Maybe it's nature's way to even out the differences between the two races. :-D
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@lilyoungfella (1196)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
Don't get me wrong on this but Filipino features are some sort of unique in the eyes of foreigners. And that is also the same in our case. What is average looking for us is beautiful to them.
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@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
I just had to stop and do a double look with the topic. I had to laugh out loud. No offense! i guess it's because of the color. And I guess it's how "exotic" these Filipinas look to them. I'm not kidding! This is what they really see when they look at these Filipinas.
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@torchablazed (3218)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
The beauty of the Filipina captures the heart of whoever looks upon them. lol. Actually, there are various reasons on that some are true while others are myth, top of those reasons are; Filipino ladies are domesticated they love the home, they love to take care and look for the husband, stuff like that. Well, it is true to many, quite sad. For the side of the Filipino of course is that they have to hunt for foreigners on that thought that they can elevate their status quo. I guess its a give and take concept of self interest.
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@punkix (658)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
yeah thats sad, today most filipinas marry a foreigner to elevate their status quo or to take them out from poverty yet they still get that because the key is that filipnas are caring, thoughful and its okay for them to be home bound and foreigners do like that. they do the right thing but because of poverty, their intentions are not pure as it supposed to be
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@sandymay16 (1617)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
hmmm maybe because of the color of the skin and Filipinas are really beautiful including me LOL. I have friends who marry foreigners because of comfort, it's sad really, but there are still who say it's love like my cousin because the foreigner she married is not rich. I have online foreigner friends men and women say Filipinos and Filipinas are very good when it comes to families and relationships within the families.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
30 Sep 08
Well, my husband said that they like filipinas because filipinas can make a good wife. Aside from that, there in Florida, everytime he saw a filipina he really finds them attractive.
I marry a man from Florida and i love him because everytime we are together, he made me feel i'm the most beautiful woman in the world. They are very generous and thoughtful. Aside from that, when I am with my husband, he rarely look at other girls, where as in filipino guy, when they saw a sexy lady, even in front of their girlfriend they still look other girls(that's what i have noticed everytime I went to the mall). Eversince, i really dream of a foreign guy specifically caucasian.Now thank God I really have found one!
@punkix (658)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
that is so sweet. well i guess there are emotions or attentions a foreign man can give a filipina that a filipino cant give because of preferrences i guess but as the looks if it, you are lucky that you have met a caucasian that loves and respects you a lot. Goodluck! :) you guys have kids now?
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@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
30 Sep 08
Thank you so much. Right now we don't have kids because we just recently got married and he went back to florida now to do the paperworks.
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@TessWhite (3146)
• United States
1 Oct 08
Not all men feel this way I know. I know my partner gets fed up with the never ending messages from so many philippine women declaring their undying love for him - even in the first hello. Alot of my internet buddies feel the same way. It becomes really annoying. Its like these total strangers think the guys are going to marry them after just one polite chat. As for us women, unfortunately its often the men from India that message us for much the same reasons. Not all of the men from over there are like this, but I know I have been asked some very rude questions when trying to carry on a polite conversation. Thank goodness yahoo has ignore capabilities.
@punkix (658)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
yeah i know it all depends coz finding love over the internet has slim chances of finding a true love, like in any other places, there are also filipina hookers who just needs the money and support that they would do everything, but if you are able to find a good filipina, you will know what i am talking about. cheers
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
I think it's because it's natural for our women to have a very strong appeal. The innocence coupled with beautiful looks as well as a pleasing personality is what actually makes our women attractive maybe to all. 
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@rainmark (4302)
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30 Sep 08
I smiled while im reading your discussion, about the statement of "old white men with filipina dates", that's best described "DOM" right? i don't care about them, that's there business. I think foriegners likes flipina because we are "exotica" 
Im married to an YOUNG 
englishman hahahaha and he said to me that his friends said " when you married to filipina, filipina do everything for you and care alot for you, they clean the house, cook your foods, wash your laundry and etc." and he disagree because most of the time i never do those things to him, instead he do the cooking, the cleaning and sometimes taking the baby to bath and etc while im sitting in front of pc doing myloting and reviewing hahaha. Im just spoiled bratt. I love mylot 
Im married to an YOUNG englishman hahahaha and he said to me that his friends said " when you married to filipina, filipina do everything for you and care alot for you, they clean the house, cook your foods, wash your laundry and etc." and he disagree because most of the time i never do those things to him, instead he do the cooking, the cleaning and sometimes taking the baby to bath and etc while im sitting in front of pc doing myloting and reviewing hahaha. Im just spoiled bratt. I love mylot 1 person likes this
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
30 Sep 08
same here rainmark! my husband always told me that i'm the boss even if i stop him to call me like that but he still insists especially when teasing me.
@grandpa_lash (5225)
• Australia
30 Sep 08
Well, if I had the money and the health to wander round the world sampling exotic beauty, I'm sorry, it would not be the Philippines, lovely as I'm sure it and its ladies are. For me it would be Japan, the beauty is just that little bit more understated, or is it subtle that I'm looking for, but for a fat old whitey, plenty exotic enough. And perhaps they would partake of the same traditional approach to looking after their man? LOL.
Lash
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@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
1 Oct 08
Some do fall for the skin color while others like the filipina "wife" quality. Filipinas tend to be submissive, domesticated and timid unlike caucasians who demand a lot.
And yes, you are right. They get tired of seeing pale colored skin. It's very common to them. Same thing with us...we prefer white skin coz brown is very common skin color to us.
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@smacksman (6053)
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30 Sep 08
I can see that ladies from the Philippines are beautiful and I know from friends that they have a traditional attitude that makes them wonderful wives and mothers.
What I have also heard, but alas have no first hand experience of, is that they are also fantastic in bed. haha! Is that true?
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Sep 08
to be unique they expound their mind to discover outside beauty from their own country or might be they want to try filipinas love and affection. you are right filipinas are very caring and loving to their husband and some also a martyr to their companion and might turn to slave. filipinas are so beautiful and attractive that is why many foreigners admire their beauty.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
20 Dec 08
I am a filipina married to an american.I asked my husband about this and he said at first he likes me because of my intelligence,my height(i'm very tiny woman),my color,etc,etc.He just love all of me.Isn't that wonderful
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
1 Oct 08
Well, I am also a foreigner but I am not white American and I meet my wife for 10 years now here in Kuwait and I am a local Kuwaiti and we already have a daughter which is a year old and 3 months now and I also visit your place in the Philippines and my wife and I are opposite I am more on a Filipino complexion compared to my wife because she is white because she is half chinese "mestisa" as they called...and I do loved her for she is very caring and loving person.
@enavnai13 (509)
• Philippines
4 Oct 08
probably because they don't have the color filipina's have so they find it very attractive... just like you said... and it's true that filipinas care and love differently... much more than americans... like what others say,,,
"iba magmahal ang pinoy!!!"
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
4 Oct 08
i dont think so punkix,heheheh, being a filipina, i love filipino more rather than having a foreigner, or a boyfriend who happen to have a foreign look, i just love pinoy more for a very important reason, pinoys are more loving than anyone around the globe, and i think they are caring too,
but i dont contest what youve said bout the foreigner who loves filipina more, or the native one's cant help them to, anyways pinays are really lovable like me,lol!!!im proud to be filipino...HAPPY POSTING!!!
