Who will you choose?The one you love or the one who loves you?

of course the one that i love, better if we found someone you love and he love you.. coz i think that is true love..do you believe true love

Hi JOIEMARVIC, Hehehe I don't have "the one i love" anymore, So i feel free to choose "the one that love me" Naaah, not confusing as we though Happy posting always !! oxoxox'dian from Bali island.

Its better not to love someone and wait till some one loves you truly. Then its easy to fall in love with that person eventually. It saves a lot of hassle and is a very practical approach.

I had made the same discussion like this before.. But anyway, for me it depends upon the situation.. If the one I love doesn't love me then of course I will not choose him since I don't want to be unfair with my self.. I don't want push my self to him even I know from the start that he don't love me.. On the other hand,I will not also choose the one who loves me if ever I don't love him too.. Since I don't want to be unfair for him also.. I believe that my heart can't be teach no matter ho many months or years we will be together especially if there's someone who owns it already.. I don't want to be with someone whom I don't love.. I will just let our life miserable and unhappy.. I know that he can still choose someone that can love him in return also.. I am not the only girl in this world and he deserves to be happy... I want to spend my life and my time to one I love and he also love me because I know that what makes us both happy.. Well, what if the one I love and the one who loves me is just one person then definitely I will choose him..

this is indeed a classic question and my answer would be the one i love because there will be satisfaction that i have chosen one whom i can trust choosing a girl who is i love with me well it is a bit risky as she might e playing fake and acting it and doing it for her own benefits ,she might be a fraud who knows humans have different faces at different times .do not trust anybody blindly!happy lotting .

i will choose the one i love..i would do anthing for her to love me back.if he doesn't,i'll just continue loving her.

Hi Joie, definitely I would prefer to choose the one whom I love. I would always feel happy and content to stay together with him. You know a person would always feel happy and willing to scarify almost everything for the benefits for the person whom he truly loves. In return if the one to be loved does really love me he would feel the same way as me unless he doesn’t really love me. Of courses he won’t feel as what I do for he doesn’t pick the one he really loves. posting and have a nice day.

I suppose this question can only be answered by those who think of these things. I prefer to do the things that I want. It is flattering to have someone love you but this has seldom made me decide on this level alone. Cheers!!

Id say the one who loves me because i wouldnt want to choose someone that i loved and wasnt being loved back so yes id choose the one who loved me

It's got to be mutual, for me! Either or, won't do it! Either way, it's not love, it's possession.

Its very confusing but i would choose the one who loves me. Because what if ill choose the one i love but he doesnt love me? so its much better to choose the one who loves me though i dont love him but i know you can learn to love right? and learning to love someone takes time and some of it really lasts.

A very classic question but my answer have always been classic too since it has been my answer for years now. I'll choose THE ONE WHO LOVES ME if and only if the one I love doesn't love me back. It is very important for me to be loved as I am full of love and it's easy for me to give love especially if the man in question loves me so much. I don't think I have the heart not to love someone who cares so much and loves me unconditionally.

I prefer to choose the one who loves me coz I know that he loves me deeply. and I know that I will learn to love him.

i prefer to have the one i love..its a little bit selfish but its what will make e happy to be with him and just love him...while with the one who loves me i don't wanna be selfish to have him and let me love me while i cannot give love back to him.

i think i would choose the one i loved.

ill be choosing the one that i love because for a relationship to workout the most essential ingrdient or factor is love. How could our relationship grows if i dont choose the person that i want to spend the rest of my life, if i choose the person that loves me i think itll wont last that long.

I may choose the one I loved.There is no reason to love anyone,if there is a guy i loved no matter he is beside me or afar ,i'll be happy.Giving my love ,and not ask for return. If a guy i loved but he does't love me,i'll not let him to know.i'll just beside him and give him what i have silently.It's also a beautiful thing to me.

I have experience to both. I choose the one I love but it didn't mean he doesn't love me back, it's just that I love him more than he loves me (I guess). Our relationship last for more than 3 years but it didn't survive any longer. When I choose the man who loves me who waited for 6 years, there's no reason for me not to fall in love with him because he will do everything just to make me happy and stay with him. I wouldn't have known that he is the right guy for me not until I opened my heart to him. Now, we are happily married for almost 2 years. Relationships don't exist without love, right? But also even with the presence of love, it always depends on the two person on how they will handle it to survive. Therefore, whether you will choose the one you love or the one who loves you, they are both right.

i will hope the one i love will also be the one who loves me.