OMG... I think my fiance is cheating!!

My husband has females on his that I don't know and they are single as well. Do I worry about it no. Why? because I trust him. We've talked about it in the past before we even built a myspace. Just because a man or a woman have single men or women on their myspace does not mean they are cheating. Maybe you are over reacting a little bit but some do. Especially if you have been cheated on in the past and if thats the case you have to remember not every man is going to cheat on you and not every woman is going to cheat on her man. If myspace is going to freak people out how is it going to be in real life. husband or wife can't have fiends that are single? Will this mean you have to walk away from friendships that have been there along time once you get married? Has you fiance cheated on you in the past? If not then you probably dn't have anything to worry about. Sometimes when you have lack of trust it can make things worse in the long time. If I was in doubt and trusted and had open communications with whom ever was in question I would talk to them calmly. But if trust isn't there and open communications then you have more than myspace to worry about. huggles and congrats on the engagement.

That is the trouble with these social networking places, anyone can talk to anyone. My hubby has myspace and facebook and he has loads of single girls talking to him, at first I was concerned about it but now I am not so bothered I know he is not up to anything and if he does well, he does. I have myspace and I am always getting single men chatting to me, sometimes I talk to them, sometimes not. My hubby knows and he also knows that I am not looking for anyone else, goodness knows he is enough for me to handle! I guess what I am saying is that he may not be cheating, and it may just be friendly chat, I mean I know people flirt but a lot of the time it is harmless. If you are really worried try and talk to him, don't let the fear of it build up in your mind as it can really make you ill. When I first saw all the girls hubby was talking too I had all sorts going through my head but I just talked to him about it and he told me who they were and he even let me see what he was putting to them, he deletes all his messages and stuff too.

I can't say for sure because just because they are single doesn't mean he is chetaing on you. You said he is talking to them and then you said he deleted everything so what is it exactly that you saw? What did he talk to them about? He might have deleted it just so you didn't see it and over react Have you tried asking him and see his reaction? I think if he lies you would be able to know that My husband and I both have male and female friends online and we never reveal too much information online either so these people stay online friends, nothing more Maybe you should first try talk to him

Do you think when you flared up or be carried away by it it will help you with this situation? Cool down! I think you should realize that men can play around but we can only love only one woman. I know your feeling really bad. Now ask your self how much do you love him now? Would you love him for what he is? Accept everything about him, I know it's foul. Just cool down first, and when you mellow down, that's the time you talk and be open with what you feel and letting him know that you know his mistakes. Now it's up to you would you let it go or setting it free? Remember that your not married to him yet, their is still time for you to think it over. Have a nice day!

My friend why are you over reacting. Cheating over the internet is nothing. I think that you are insecure and need to look inside of yourself. Do you love your boyfriend enough to see it going through something like this and don't ask him about it. I remember when I just started coming back on the internet and I met a man who was packing me with alot of lies. I know that he has his wife and I just say something to him and bam the internet communication is gone. You see it is alot of lies tell over this internet and I am telling you don't make this foolishness comes between you and your boyfriend. Look inside and see the years that you have built and how far you have come from. Don't make the devil steal your joy my friend. Forget about those girls over the internet. If in the event you see him started doing the things that you know he don't normally does then you have a nice little meeting with him so that he understand his self. Stop panicking.

you are innocent. i hate the man who is not faithful to his lover. don't worry, he is not your all. i think you'd better cold your head, think carefully whether he is the most suitable man in your life. if not, please open your bright eyes, there is better man who is more suitable than him. i'm not advising you depart, but as a girl, i hate cheating too.

well, its normal to over react.. but i think its too early to react that way yet... i think its better if you sit and talk about it... just be honest with him, tell him how bad it makes you feel.. and if he's honestly innocent then he'll do something to make you feel better... :p

dont panic my friend..just be cool..give him the time to explain himself or whatever..hear his side of story..sometimes girls or women that being jilted creates noise or let you feel their presence and be aware of it..which means of course misunderstanding in your relationship..

If you can't trust the guy, don't marry him. But the first, you should tell him that you found the chics on myspace and you are upset about it. He may have deleted them because he is really ready to be faithful to you. But you will never know if you don't ask him.then if you don't get the right response or you still can't forgive or trust him, then call off the wedding. Things could get worse.

Ask him. The only way to keep a relationship is through open communication. That is the only way to know anything. Don't wait to hear it from someone else OR find something else on the internet! ASK HIM ABOUT WHAT YOU SAW AND WHAT HE DELETED!!

tlb0o822 as he is your fiance I think its time to talk to him about these girls, as he cannot play the field anymore after you' are married. I think he is being disrespectful to you as his fiancee so I feel you should have this out with him. If heis living with you before marriage, I would kick him out if he cannot come up with a reasonable explanation. If he plays now hewill still play after marriage. sorry but I think the girls should be off limits to a fiance now.

I think it is too early for you to conclude that he is cheating on you. Though its pretty alarming to know that your fiancee had most girls on his page. He might just barely knew this people. I also add people in my list that i dont personally knew i just thought they are descent people and im just adding them because they request for it. If he was just being friendly then there is no reason for you to be worried but if he had change behavior and started not to spend most of his time on you. Then thats the time you will be concern about it. At this point just observed first and see if he acted strange lately. As a women you will feel it if a man is cheating on you or not. We do have this intuition to sense if somethings wrong.

I have recently gone through the same thing. Have you asked him if he is cheating? I over reacted a little, but I think it is normal. Myspace is the devil for relationships. My fiance assured me that I had nothing to worry about and deleted and blocked the girl in question in front of me. It still bothers me a bit. The jealousy and hurt that I felt at that moment. As far what you should do, there are things to take into consideration, has he done this before, is he trying to be overly secretive, what did he say about it, and what is in your heart......

no your not over reacting.. i think your fiance is really cheating on you.. you found out already that there is a girls. boys will always be boys. so i guess you need to stop and think that your fiance is cheating on you. he really does. i think you two need a time out here cause somebody is cheating, thats not fare. you need to think well.

What do you mean he deleted everything? As well he might be adding new people to his myspace. Have you come out right and asked if he was cheating? Just by adding and talking to girls is not cheating. The actual act that follows is cheating? Is he meeting up with them to have secret rendevous? Before you go and over react I suggest you talk with him about it. You might be blowing it way our of porportion. Good Luck.

Dump him. YESTERDAY. He is NOT ready to marry. Consider yourself blessed you found out NOW! Maggiepie

I could understand your reaction.Its normal for this situation.I think you should have private talk and express every feeling you have and if you love each other try to make a compromise and build a better and strong relationship but if you think that really lost your trust and lessen the love you have for him then i guess you should decide what you want to do.

I think you are not over reacting. Your reaction is correct. Maybe you should confront with him and see what he can explain about the new chics in his myspace. From my point of view,I think he is trying to flirt around with girls,but whether he is serious or fool around then you have to ask him. Try to have some table talks with him and sort out your worries. Don't keep this thing silently in your heart,talk over it and tell him how you feel about this matter. If he really loves you,I am sure he will give you assurance of not doing the same thing again. Cheers!

You're not over reacting, what you reacted is normal for a girl who wants to make sure that you are going to marry the right man. I am a jealous person too, and i don't want my husband to be with other girls especially if she is single. Why would he going to talk to them? It isn't fair. We've been very faithful to them. Does it means that if he talked to single girls, you can talk to single guys too? Why don't you ask him that, and do the reverse :) Happy mylotting!

I would probably try to trick him, make a fake Myspace and get to the bottom of it! However you probably should talk to him about it...come to him and ask him what's going on, how he feels about you, and try to gauge if you should take these Myspace girls seriously or not. Talk to him first! Good luck!