Does your husband clean house ? How do you feel about it?

A big YES! My husband clean the house,cook breakfast,lunch and dinner. Wash clothes and dishes.Clean our back and front yard. I think theres nothing wrong if your husband does sometimes do all this kind of job because now a days it should be a two way process especially if your a working mom also. Helping each other inside and outside the household for both of you i think will lighten all your loads. Maybe in order for you not to be hurt if your husband does cleaning maybe you better talk to him. You should have open communication because its very important in a relationship as husband and wife.

Yes, my husband cleans the house but only when I asked him to do some chores. Its a good thing that you dont have to ask your husband anymore to do some household chores. You'll have more problem if he's lazy when he's in the house and just expect you to do everything.

I am not marry yet. I just want to read the response so that I will know what to expect. ^__^ IF I were you, I would be happy that he did help out with the housework. But that's just me. I don't like to do housework. I am very much lazy. =D

My husband does all of the outside chores and always takes out the trash. Inside he usually just does laundry. He will help with dishes if I'm busy and they pile up. He'll vacuum on occasion. Other than that not too much.

if my husband is having off or if i am cleaning the house on weekends he will help me out in cleaning the house and also looking after our son. he helps me vaccuming, laundry and feeding my son and also giving him but i just see to it that he dont do more of work so that he gets tired of and i just ask him to do a little only or only one work among the mentioned one above. specially on the weekends i have more work of cooking, cleaning and taking bath, giving bath to my son and all and hence he helps me out and i feel happy that help but i cant take the advantage of that hence i just tell him to do any one work and the rest i do a little little daily. in this way i just complete my work too. yes i know it is so difficult that they go out for a job and then come home and help in cleaning is not so easy and hence i never expect from him any work on the week days and only thing is he does some kitchen shopping in the week days if required.

I can see how that would make you feel bad. I was a stay at home mom for a little over a year and cleaned the house and took care of the kids all day long and when my husband came home he would help clean up too. It made me feel bad then. Now we both work, he has two jobs to my one and he will still come home and try to pick up the house at the end of his 16 hour day. It makes me glad that he wants to help out and at the same time feel guilty that I was not able to get everything done by the time he got home.

We do our house together with my husband, because I think that cleaning the house is our mutial responsibility. We usually do it on weekends, it is fun and we love to spend time together like that. I feel good when my husband helps me around the house. I don't want to do it alone, it is so much work.

My husband clean house as I do. He clean the kitchen, throw grabage, clean the litter box of our cat, etc. Although I don't want him to work when his at home because I knew how beat he is at work he still try to cleans inside the house when it seems to be dirty for him. He is a clean freak person than me, which is I am glad. I feel happy for that because he still tried to clean our house once in a while just to keep it clean.

hi tosharichards,my husband cleans house very rarelyi.e. when some guest are comming unexpectedly then only. otherwise when he here he thinks he is on vacation becoz most of the time he's sailing.but this doesnt make me any difference.i love to keep my home clean so i always clean it whether my husband is here with me or not.you are lucky that your husband helps you in domestic work.

My husband sleans the house if i am sick or if i ask him to. He works 80+ hours a week so that i can stay home with the kids. So i try to keep the house clean and let him rest when he is home. But he does help out. When i was pregnant i was sick day and night for 3 months. I could not get out of the bed. He cleaned the house during that time. I feel good when my husband helps me around the house because I know a lot of people whose husband will not do anything around the house no matter what.

Yes my husband cleans house. He doesn't take on any serious tasks or anything but he will wash the dishes if needed or dust the furniture and he does make the bed every morning. He was in the army for several years so I think that's where that habit came from. It doesn't bother me at all. I never criticize a job he has done. I just wait until he leaves and redo it! LOL

I'm not suppose to answer your question.Because I'm a man.But I feel that your husband is very sympathetic to you.By helping your work he is being delighted. Husband and wife both should be sympathetic to each other. Then peace prevails in a family.You are both good wife and husband.It is an exampl for any family.Thank you both.

I think that you're extremely lucky to have a husband who is willing to help around the house, but I also understand the guilt. It seems like he should be able to come home and relax with his family. Maybe you could tell him that you really appreciate his help but also that you want more quality time. Perhaps you could put a time limit on his household duties, like one hour a day.

yes he help me in my household chores. were both working. so when he's free he will clean the house or even cook our foods...what he hates though is ironing our clothes...but in every household chores, he tried to help me as much as he can.that makes us a teamplayer in everything we do.so dont get upset with your husband.maybe he's just trying to help you and give you some rest..isn't it romantic...

Not very often! I wish he would help me in the house more as he is not working outside the house right now.

Yes my husband cleans the house...not as much as I do but he does help out. I never really need o ask for help just on occasion. There have been times that he has done something that I thought could have been done differently but never say anything. I just really appreciate what he does and would not want him to think I was criticizing him.

I am a husband and I do clean the house. I hate having a dirty house. With kids I expect it to be messy but I will not let it be dirty. I also clean all out. When I start cleaning I clean everything. I scrub and vacuum and go crazy. If I am going to do it I want to do it right.

My husband does not clean the house since I am at home more than he is. I'm fine with it. When we were both working full time, we would both make attempts at cleaning, since both of us were gone so much. I actually enjoy keeping a clean house.

My husband is a better housewife than I am. Sadly he is working full time and I'm not. So it's down to me. So I do most of the cooking, all of the cleaning and washing but I'll be honest, I don't like it and it isn't a priority for me. If it's a choice of spending time with the kids doing something creative or dusting - guess which wins? I'm not saying our house is filthy - it's not, but it isn't as clean as it could be. Sometimes at the weekend, he'll clean up something that has been bothering him, like the kitchen cupboards, or the cupboard under the stairs, and then it's just best to let him be. He'll go at something full on for a few hours and then be all calm afterwards. I used to feel guilty that he was doing it, or that I should have done it, but now I'm like, well if it bothers you that much - go for it. I think we have it sorted!

My husband and I came to a decision better than 20 years ago when we moved in together. If one of us is not working the housework is that person's responsibility. So after our son was born and I gave up my job, the housework was my job, after I went back to work part time we split the chores. Now on the days I work he cleans and on my days off, I clean. The only thing I don't let him do is laundry, he doesn't remember to sort it and I don't like everything turning out pink. But right now he has to cook supper 4 or 5 times a week. I do try to make casseroles or things that cam be precooked and then warmed up on my days off, but he's a much better cook anyhow so he doesn't mind doing the cooking as long as I do the grocery shopping.