Goodbye little one....
By rangics
@rangics (1334)
Philippines
October 7, 2008 5:56pm CST
Here's my update regarding our ADOPTION thing...
* My sister have finally settled with the mother of the child to RETURN the baby to her. ( we really have no right about this matter and we do know that in the very beginning..we were just hoping and praying for a change of mind but sad to say it didn't happen here...)* Legally, we have not seeked this one because we do not want to prolong the agony of the mother to be with her baby.. All may take a while. Much as we wanted the baby back, we're not losing hope to have the chance to get our own thorugh medical help..)
-- All is well..We know God has it's own reason why this thing happened. We entrust all this to HIM. Thanks all my fellow mylotters for the advices and support and most especially your prayers..We will be missing the baby for sure.. 
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7 responses
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 08
Sad though it may sound but the baby has to be reunited with the mom, as the mom is half hearted and not sincere in the adoption deal. Just pray that your sis will be able to conceive and have her own baby. Miracles do happen.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
It is a good thing to be enlightened about something very important in life. I admire your actions. Cheers!!
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@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
this is really a heart break. i know later this year i will feel this too. my sister gave birth and i am all over him. but i know soon they will be going back to the country where my sister lives. i will not lose my nephew forever but i know that we will be missing him too. your sister's heart is broken and i am going to pray for a quick heal. but there is a lesson learned here.... that adopting children legally is not made like this. if your sister will try again i hope she does it the legal way... not with just a middle man or a bridge. Goodluck for your sister and like i said i will light a candle for her quick healing of her broken heart
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
8 Oct 08
Hello rangics, things do happen for a reason and this incident was not a coincidence. Lets hope that your sister will be able to have her own child. I know hoe much they waited for this baby but maybe this was not really meant for them.
Have a nice day and take care!!!
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@xcammiex (272)
• United States
8 Oct 08
I know it must be heartbreaking, but it's the right thing to do.
I'm not very religious, but I do believe in karma and the fact that your sister was selfless and did the right thing makes me think that she'll get some joy in her life. Tell her I said good luck.
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@jb_vete (323)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
Hi rangics! I'm sorry for your sister but it's so nice for her to have sacrificed her happiness for others (for the child's mother or family). She in her heart has accepted and love the child as her own. It's such a selfless act. I'm sure there is good things are to come in exchange for what she gave up. She may have given up her motherhood but one thing is for sure, she proved to know how it is to be a mother. cheers to that!
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