Do you still celebrate the traditions of All Saint's Day and All Souls DAy?

Philippines
October 9, 2008 4:15am CST
Most Filipinos usually celebrate the 1st two days of November visiting the departed loved ones. Those from big cities and places far from their homes usually go home at this time and usually it's a holiday. Airports and piers and terminals will be crowded and highways have congested traffic as each one rush to make it home. But this time, there's no holiday because it falls on a Saturday and Sunday. Would you still go home and celebrate it with other members of the family? or it's just another normal weekends for you? I hope to visit a day before to the city cemetery to avoid the rush of the big crowd. We usually light candles at home in memory of departed loved ones in different places.
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• Philippines
24 Oct 08
yes, my family will still be observing all souls' day. we go to the cemetery every year and visit the tomb of my uncle and grandfather. also, every year, we spend the 2nd day of november the Flame of Courage monument. that is where we offer prayers and flowers and light candles for my uncle who involuntarily disappeared in 1977. we gather at the monument together with other relatives of victims of enforced disappearance, because our loved ones are still missing. we don't know where they are, even if we do know they were most likely killed. we don't know where they were buried so we couldn't give them a decent burial at a cemetery. the Flame of Courage monument serves as our sacred ground where we not only mourn the disappearance of our relatives. it is also where we thank and pay tribute to them for unselfishly risking their security and ultimately offering their lives for the country. it is where we celebrate the kind of life they chose to lead. and it is where we give each other strength and courage and hope as we collectively search for justice.
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
hi, it's very sad when loved ones depart but more sad if they disappeared without any reason at all. And it's still happening up to now and I think it's much worse. May we find peace that is the genuien one.
• Philippines
26 Oct 08
it really is more difficult...the youngest brother of my uncle who disappeared was killed by gunmen. it was very painful, especially for my grandmother. she lost weight and never quite recovered. but according to her, no matter how painful it was that her youngest son was gunned down, it's still much more painful when her other son disappeared. because of the uncertainty, the fact that there's no closure until now, and that he wasn't even given a decent burial by his family. thanks for the best response, by the way.
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
I will be visiting my mother's grave on the first. I have to fly from Manila to Gen San on that day. I have to say I hate my schedule because I am on a review mode and not even a single holiday just to commemorate all soul's day has been announced.
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
Yes, it would be nice if the Friday before that or the Monday after that is a holiday at least it will give time for most to travel. That's a long way for you. My brothers are also coming home and we will visit our mom's grave. Goodluck and Godspeed.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
My father is buried in Bohol and I am here in Manila, my gf Mother is buried in Quezon province and his Dad is buried in Bacolod. But My gf still goes with cooking food for her parents on November 1 and light candles for them in church and at the outside door and give them food, this I don't understand why she cooks for them. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
The Chinese are like that, cooking food for their loved ones and sometimes leaving behind the food in the cemetery.
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
I still would go home this year because my parents will be coming with us so it would be a reunion of sort. I have to take a 5 day break from the office to also visit my grandparent's remains, and my younger brother too.
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
hi, yes during this time it's also the best time to have a reunion. good luck.
@Alnitak (423)
• Italy
9 Oct 08
We've always done the same with no other particular ceremony than the mass in the cemetery but a few years ago they started to do Halloween parties in the big cities and now we are importing this USA tradition. Children are also going to their neighbors to do the "trick or treating" thing... I have to say that I find it pretty lame :P Every country has its own tradition and they shouldn't be "imported" just because shops are starting to put pumpkins in their windows.
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
Yes, same sentiment here. I always say to my nephew that it's not a Filipino tradition to go trick or treating, there's more to it than all the fanfare. Thanks for the response. HAve a nice time.
• Philippines
26 Oct 08
hi sandymay it will be a normal weekends. since the cemetery we visit is just near. maybe on november 1 we will just lit some candle then pray, then have bonding with the family. then on november 2 we will go to another cemetery, lit some candle and have bonding since that cemetery is kinda big and not so crowded. take care
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
26 Oct 08
At home we still do that.We go to the cemetery early in the morning and stays there till sunset.This has been a common practice in our family for quite some time.We do not usually leave early because some naughty kids might play with the candles or even take the flowers and place them on a different grave.besides this is our way of paying respects to our family members who are not with us anymore.During this time we also spend time together to eat(like a picnic),talk about anything under the sun and hangout.Too bad October 31 and November 3 were not declared holidays,I could have spent more time with the family. Anyways ,happy halloween and happy posting!
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
Though it is on a weekend, I still would be home on November 1 and fly back on November 3. :D