friends are important or a lover

I'm kind of confused by what your saying, but are you talking about choosing friends over a lover? because if so I do believe that friends are important, they are always here for us at least the true ones, but if you have someone that loves you and never hurts you or puts you down then why choose when you can have both and whoever has a problem with it then they aren't there to make you happy, only themselves.

well if your lover is also your friend thens its bes of both :) but friendship can last longer than a lover but as i said the best thing to find in a lover is someone who wants to be your friend also :)