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rosesthorns14 @rosesthorns14 (803) • Philippines 9 Aug 12

What does it mean when you ask someone if he/she plans to get married with their significant other and that person answers you with, "No, no need to get married because marriage is just a piece of paper!"? I don't understand...

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kedves I have known people together for 30 years and never married and people married and divorced in 2 years. is the "sanctity" of marriage proven by a piece of paper or by deeds of kindness love understanding acceptance support of two people together? It is not...

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craziestqueenever @craziestqueenever (1819) • Philippines 15 Oct 12

Hello there my fellow myLotters! Lately, I have some personal issues that is mind-boggling. I've been asking myself. I've been asking what's wrong with me? I envy those people who can jive with other people. [b] Should I...

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kedves As far as i can see getting along with other people is not about changing or being someone you are not it is accepting and understanding that not everyone thinks like you or agrees with you. So accept people for what they are and be open minded and I am sure...

23 Oct 12

Magz1989 @Magz1989 (271) • Philippines 23 Oct 12

i am living in a very competitive world where everybody is like hunting is prey. My life is like am am going to quit in this survival to the fitness game. Here in my workplace its like we are fighting over a meat. I am not saying...

animal kingdom

competition

harsh realities

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kedves As far as I am concerned "survival of the fittest" is a phrase used to give people credence and allowance to be mean and nasty and bully others. They do it because they like to bully NOT because of some animal instinct. Animals feed when they are hungry they...

23 Oct 12

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 22 Oct 12

As Nightmare as it look, some one's gotta be accountable to this. It was a Party night and Halloween with so many kids that are going outside and then sleeps over night. then morning, a relative spotted her and...

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kedves I put myself in the place of the parent or relative and if she was mine i would shoot HIM. There is NO way you can mistake a 9 year old girl for a skunk. I think he intentionally shot towards her to scare her as he is a bully and his judgement was...

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PRIYANK1992 @PRIYANK1992 (1677) • India 20 Aug 08

No I have a little sister.Her name is Ankita.I like her most.She is the best sister of the world.She is my best Friend.She is the one whom I love most.

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kedves sisters are the most amazing gift a parent can give a boy :) i have two i love them both :)

8 Feb 12

mavil85 @mavil85 (348) • Philippines 8 Feb 12

if only i could choose some of my relatives i would definitely grab the chance. first, it doesn't matter if they are rich or poor as long as we have fun together during reunions or be even close friends. I am just so sick and...

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kedves well my culture also you respect your elders however it does not make them right and you have a right to stand up and defend yourself. I think it shows great courage and i am sure many people will respect you. But as you sad she is older so when you do it then...

8 Feb 12

fantasticbabe @fantasticbabe (981) • Philippines 16 Jun 11

Most men and women differ when they eat chocolates. Most women like to eat anything sweet and men have almost the same interest. Though most women indulge seen more eating the sweet stuffs. They are different types of person who...

bite chocolate

chocolate

see first what inside before eating

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kedves for me its varies and it's like being with my girlfriend - someday's i am just so hungry i rip it open and just eat it .. and other days i like to take it slowly and savour every single mouthful :)

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bjc66bjc @bjc66bjc (6730) • United States 7 Feb 12

Hi mylotters, I was wondering how you guys feel about the death penality..do you believe is right for a person to be sentenced to the death penality or should they just get life in prison without parole.. A lot of people...

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kedves suffer being fed and watered and cared for? wow that is a big suffering. look at Ronnie Biggs made a mockery of everything laughing at his hideout in Brazil .. and only came home when he was sick because he knew he can be cared for in prison.. people forgot...

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bjc66bjc @bjc66bjc (6730) • United States 7 Feb 12

Hi mylotters, I was wondering how you guys feel about the death penality..do you believe is right for a person to be sentenced to the death penality or should they just get life in prison without parole.. A lot of people...

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kedves I think these days with DNA testing etc it is easier to prove a guilty verdict and if it can be proven beyond doubt then yes kill them, after all the person they killed cannot come back to life after 10 or 15 years .. if you don't like the death penalty, then...

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emma90 @emma90 (530) • Indonesia 8 Feb 12

What would you do if the life of your household is predicted to end (divorce) sooner? Yesterday my sister told me that someone tell fortunes about her household in the future, and the result was very bad. She will get divoce with...

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kedves If i was her i would laugh and tell the husband what happen but secretly i would be watching him for a reaction. if he laughs and makes joke easily then she is safe if he stutters then tell her be careful :)

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otakumarie @otakumarie (48) • Philippines 8 Feb 12

I really got to thinking myself that why do we necessarily have to lie to someone. I mean is it a necessary evil in our life to put up with? Well I do lie for some reasons and for some other times. why do we lie when we basically...

choosing

lying

lying for someone

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kedves no one can ever say they will never lie because if they do then that is a lie. i accept that at certain times it is justifiable to lie or at least amend , bend or withhold the truth as it may cause further harm or heartache. but if you are lying just for...

8 Feb 12

samd87 @samd87 (327) 6 Feb 12

I hate when people ask what you do and then when they find out I'm a stay at home mam they say 'just a Mam!' One of my friends posted this on facebook and I think it's great and absolutely true, so this is for the mam's! Just a...

mother

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kedves wow so funny and so right :)

8 Feb 12

mavil85 @mavil85 (348) • Philippines 8 Feb 12

if only i could choose some of my relatives i would definitely grab the chance. first, it doesn't matter if they are rich or poor as long as we have fun together during reunions or be even close friends. I am just so sick and...

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kedves The thing about being related is that the bond can not be broken easily or that is the premise. So remember it works BOTH ways. If you have to listen to her because she is a relative then SHE has to listen to you for same reason. So next time it happens just...

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Lilysesame @Lilysesame (3) • Egypt 7 Feb 12

My husband and I get into arguments about hi friends. I live in Egypt and he is from here and I am from an English speaking country. He is 20 so keel that in mind. He tells me I have to listen to him no matter what and I haven't...

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kedves I am not sure i understood where you live or either nationality. however I do understand a control freak who just wants a woman at home for HIS needs and nothing else. best advice i give you is pack your bags and run like hell or live your life as his legal...

8 Feb 12

otakumarie @otakumarie (48) • Philippines 8 Feb 12

When someone is hurt so badly,we always hear the hackneyed line:" I can't forget and forgive him for his mistakes because I could still remember the pain he inflicted on me!" Well I tell you what, that is totally wrong!the...

brain

human pain

pain and brain

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kedves ok i am not a doctor so do not know whether that statement is true but i believe the brain is the translator if you like and when something happens it translate the message and lets our body know its pain or happiness or what ever it feels. the brain is adept...

8 Feb 12

didi13 @didi13 (2926) • Romania 8 Feb 12

"Cursed is he who trusts in man." Truer words could not write again! Many times my confidence has been trampled. Many times I was only a bitter taste. And yet ... every time, if ever give little confidence. Slowly maybe get to the...

naive

people

trust

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kedves wow ok .. you know one thing i have noticed over the years ? when a woman is hurt by a man she tells everyone how nasty men are how they all break hearts etc etc etc but, most men .. well we tend to brush ourselves off and move on and accept it was her and...

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didi13 @didi13 (2926) • Romania 7 Feb 12

Fear or feel intimidated! And so, prefer to stay around to give such women who threaten their virility! Most men seeking a woman inferior or at least their equal. Why so? They are afraid of the woman who is independent, ambitious...

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kedves ok you seem to lose some of what you are saying about strong women. being a strong woman is one thing .. bending all in her path is just being a b..ch (rhymes with witch) who like to have her own way and nothing matters. being strong and determined and...

8 Feb 12

craziestqueenever @craziestqueenever (1819) • Philippines 8 Feb 12

When your heart is full of hatred, your first idea is to seek for vengeance, right? But I myself won't gonna do that kind of stuff. Instead of thinking and planning a revenge for someone, It would be better If I will make it...

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kedves revenge wo .. is there anything stronger when you are scorned but a loved one.. but you are right revenge in the end only hurts you because it keeps the pain alive and stops you moving on the best way for me personally is i have the initial outburst to...

8 Feb 12

chum24 @chum24 (569) • Philippines 5 Feb 12

i'm not actually body conscious but when it comes in waistline i'm super conscious my waistline is 27inches or size 7 i'm ideal waistline is 24inches and some of my friends told me my waistline is okay and appropriate at my age....

foods

health

waistline

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kedves wow i wish i can be only 3" over supposedly perfect waistline :) but there are so many computations for the way to change your size so i wont even attempt to try. all i say is as others have mentioned, firstly it is your happiness that counts and if you...

8 Feb 12

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 2 Feb 12

Some people say that they respect the good work of social workers in their country, yet they do not want their relatives to work as a social worker. They have the impression that social workers are over-worked, over-abused by the...

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kedves unfortunately you only ever hear of the bad things that happen .. when someone gets hurt or a child is killed .. then everyone is on at the social worker.. but when you consider how many people are under their care and how few social workers there are then...

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