"Cursed is he who trusts in man."
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
February 8, 2012 3:15am CST
"Cursed is he who trusts in man." Truer words could not write again! Many times my confidence has been trampled. Many times I was only a bitter taste. And yet ... every time, if ever give little confidence. Slowly maybe get to the point where we can not trust anyone. Does the trust is associated with naivety? If so ... how to survive? Who to trust and who not granted? I say we do our part in developing a relationship, to not make mistakes and not least to be naive ... as long as it takes to keep a relationship up. But do not be so naive as to deceive us every time.
Trusts as long as you have reasons to do it. Trusted and you have no reason to do it. But ... be aware all along that the next moment you trust can be shattered!
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5 responses
@kedves (728)
•
8 Feb 12
wow ok .. you know one thing i have noticed over the years ?
when a woman is hurt by a man she tells everyone how nasty men are how they all break hearts etc etc etc
but, most men .. well we tend to brush ourselves off and move on and accept it was her and NOT ALL women ..
why is that when a woman is hurt she blames ALL men? NOT all men are heart breakers in fact most have had their hearts broken by women.
so please if you are hurt i sympathise and will talk to you about it , but please do not generalise and blame ALL men :)
@digidogo (444)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
I have to agree with kedves here as we share the same opinion. There are a lot of guys out there having the same situation as you didi13. Women tend to rant so much that it is usually the guys being stereotyped for the such. One more fact is that, one person of that gender does not stand up for the whole population. So it someone was being a buthole that does not mean kedves and I are one.
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
9 Feb 12
In all relationships, we should learn to value the good over the bad. The interaction with people brings learning, growing, love and companionship. Even if the relationship does not last, we take something with us. All is never lost. Should we value the good or the hurt? I choose to value the good. Speaking of trust, our actions also speak on how we choose to define ourselves. I choose to give everyone I meet the great opportunity to be trustworthy. It speaks for who I am. You see, life should never be about hurt. Hurt just tells us something is wrong. Where would we really be if that didn't exist?? Confused, I supposed. Think good thoughts. Value and see goodness. Give your love, kindness and goodness to the world. It will speak for who you are and you might just be surprised when it returns.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 12
It isn't easy to just trust anyone, even your closest friend might walk out on you. I trusted many people but they seemed to think little of my trust. Who else then can I trust? All seemed wicked, and unscrupulous.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Well, it's truly hard to trust anyone after betrayal and anything in our life. But we need to consider that we are only a human being that committing mistakes sometimes.
What I want to say was when people commit a mistakes. This mistakes committed by change or not really do it by purpose.
Better to trust God for everything what we do in life. Because human being sometimes not being trusted and always commit us a mistakes or doing us wrong even if we do many good things for them...
