Your mum or me?

@cottonm (753)
Malaysia
October 9, 2008 10:55am CST
hahhaha, this is a stupid questions often asked by a gal to her bf, coz she want to know whether her bf love her more or love his mum more? the question is: - If your mum & me fell into the sea at the same time, will u rescue her 1st or me? I know this is stupid, hahhahah, but i would like to hear it especially from guys ^_^ will u rescue your mum 1st or your gf 1st? Why?
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12 responses
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
i hate when girls asking that type of questions.if i, i would answer : my mum is my mother,she gave birth to me.while you are my girlfriend,my love,my life-partner.so i think i just kill myself since both of you are important to me.i f i die,both of you will die,and when we all die,we can meet in heaven.fair enough huh?
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
hahahhahh, dun b so angry, it's just a question, i won't ask this question to my bf too ^_^ but i'm just curious, what other ppl will think abt it, hey, cheer up, and u r right, two ppl also important ^_^
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
it was nothing...just sharing some thoughts about that kind of questions.nothing personal.relax cottonm...
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
hahhahahah, coz u 'sounds' so angry with this question, mayb u had a bad experiences with it with your current/ex gf :P i dunno :p
@jsloh1989 (181)
• Singapore
10 Oct 08
How about neither? I can't really swim, let alone save them! I will tell them to learn life-saving if not all 3 of us will drown! HAHAHAHAHAHHA. Well, at least this is one of the way to get out of that sticky situation! Of course, another way to save yourself from this (only applicable if your girlfriend can swim) is to choose your mom and tell her that's because you can swim! Or vice versa! LOL. Any other ways to get yourself out of that situation?
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
hahahhahahha, i guess u hav many 'experiences' with this question lo.....hahhahahahhah
• Singapore
11 Oct 08
hahaa! Nope, inexperience. Tsktsk
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
It's not a stupid question..I am not a guy am a girl but if in case my bf and my mom was drowning. I would save my mom. My mom is old now and she won't be able to swim. My guy can find ways to save himself. I will shout to him and say save yourself..if you love me you will find a way..Honestly, I love my mom so much and I know she gave her life for me when she gave birth to me. I would never sacrifice her for anything in the world.
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
if your mum heard this, she will b very happy ^_^ thankz for response, happy mylotting and wish your mum in good health always ^_^
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
by the way, i will also save my mum 1st, coz my mum dun know how 2 swim ^_^
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
9 Oct 08
I am female. I would expect my husband to save his mother before me....... but that doesn't mean I expect her to go before me in all things. Like decision about my child......
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
u r making your point ^_^ i think most female agree with it, including me ^_^ thankz for response ^_^
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
10 Oct 08
Hi there ! I think i can answer this one but i will surprise you with my answer... Actually i would only cheer them to both get out of the water as both of them know to swim, however - i don't know how to swim so i would probably drawn if i tried to rescue any one of them.
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
^_^ lucky u, u won't b stuck in this sticky question compare to other guys (who know how to swim) :p thankz for your response & happy mylotting ^_^
@pkraj111 (2458)
• India
9 Oct 08
My mom. This is what I told my GF once. Not that she asked me but I had to make it clear. To me my mom comes first before the entire world. Without her I would not be what I am today.
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
thankz for your response. U r a great man ^_^
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
10 Oct 08
Gf ^_^ hehe.. Because though our mom gave birth to us, bring us up, teaches us about life, but she won't be the one to see us thru our whole life.. INStead, our gf/wife is the one to do that.. IN life, nothing can be more blessful to have someone who's able to walk our whole life with us.. And when we have got that someone, we should cherish it.. That's what most mums will want and wish for their sons to do the same, for they have seen enough in life, and for if their other half is no longer around, they will be even more likely to sacrifice themselves for their child ^_^
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
14 Oct 08
I would rescue my Mother first to whom who give me life and teaches me how to Loved someone because for a Girlfriend I could fine more than a 100 of it as they are telling but if it is the comparison of having a wife and a Mother is such a difficult way of choosing which is which ......
• India
11 Oct 08
i wud rescue my mom first because she is older than my gf.my gf can manage till i rescue my mom so first will be my mom.both are equally important,so since a young woman can manage herself for sometime..i will act like this.hope i am doing thye right thing.
@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
10 Oct 08
I'm a girl and I do not expect Boyfriend to rescue me before his mom and this is a question frequently asked by girls insecure enough to make their boyfriends choose. If I was in the same dilemma, I would not think twice about saving my mom first so I think it should be fair that Boyfriend gets to do that too. But that doesn't mean that his mom should always come first in our relationship (not that it has ever happened). I love Boyfriend's mom.
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
If my mom feel into a sea at the same time with my hubby. I will rescue my mom first. She is old and she is not capable of saving herself. My husband on the other hand knows how to swim and can survived longer than my mom.
@chinna533 (309)
• India
10 Oct 08
Definitely my mom and one thing to be remembered is i have no girlfriend yet.. even if i have with out any hesitation first i prefer my mom..for me my mom is the best than any other.. yeah, you have asked the question seems stupid but it matters...